Wen/Month Mom Parenting Remember
Children are always asked when they are small: "Is the grandmother good for you, or is the grandmother good for you?"
Elderly people don't always give their children peace of mind. Due to their advanced age, they don't have the same outlook on life as adults, and they have differences in parenting, so whether it's grandma or grandpa, children need to think carefully.
The first step in the process is to find a way to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you're doing, and how you're doing it.
Mother-in-law usually have their own life, will play cards with the little sister or square dance , although also like their own grandchildren, but very little to help take care of, usually idle life is used to, will not wait for the daughter-in-law and grandchildren , the mother of the Si Si see in the eyes, but the pain in the heart, can only I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it myself. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman with a baby in her arms, and I've never seen a woman with a baby in her arms, so I'm not sure if I've ever seen a baby with a baby in her arms.
As the child's grandmother as if she also felt to all this, but at this time the child is almost four and a half years old, in order to make up for their previous mistakes, thinking of the child in kindergarten, the child will be transported to and from school every day to take care of the child, but I did not expect him to be this proposal but incurred the wrath of the Sisi: "The most difficult Three years, you do not bring when the child understands and grows up, but you come over to bring, you understand the hard work of my么?""
Si Si could not suppress the anger in his heart and his mother-in-law argued, and gradually in the words of a lot of licentiousness, the mother-in-law did not have a strong demand for grandchildren with their own, had to gray back home.
In fact, this is not just a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but in the issue of bringing children, the different attitudes of the elderly only, some grandmothers will be heart to heart, do not want their daughters to manipulate too much heart , heartache of their own daughters, so to help their daughters to bring the baby , but the attitude of the grandmother is not the same, often think that as long as someone with the baby, who bring all can be.
1. Heartache of their own daughter
As a grandma, her daughter has been married to experience the pain of childbirth is experienced, so especially empathetic, thinking that at this time to help their daughter, there is a great role for their daughter, after all, they are the people who have been there, know that the hardship of bringing up a child, they will have a certain amount of experience, they will have a certain amount of experience. Out of a mother's instinct to love her daughter, so will willingly help their children with children, which is understandable.
2. Fear of conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The monthly hate is mostly caused by the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the grandmother will be worried that this conflict will occur in their own daughters, after all, the child is still small, and do not know how to get along with their own mother-in-law, and if the mother-in-law to take care of their daughters are not good as well as the words, do not know how to speak, and the contradiction will be escalating over time, the mother-in-law will not know how to speak. The mother-in-law is also looking out for her own daughter.
3. Grandma is more attentive
Experience shows that there are many grandmothers who tend to be more attentive than grandmothers when bringing up children, because grandmothers love their daughters and their own daughters have children who will be doubly pampered, and they know that it is not easy for their own daughters to take care of them, so they can reduce the number of elderly people and the later generations. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Although the elderly with children can help children to ease the pressure, but the elderly are in a time to enjoy their old age, do not let the elderly should be able to enjoy their old age and go to help their children to worry about, this will also reduce the fun of the elderly, contrary to the true meaning of old age.