First, a woman should first start from the body and face. Some women after forty years old has been very not pay attention to their own image, think it is an old woman, there is no one to love, but also broken, let it go, eating and drinking, constantly obese, body out of shape, basically neck and shoulders together, to face no face, no neck, there are also women who do not pay attention to the health of the ten days and a half months do not take a bath, the body has a bad smell, so people can not stand it straight away, the clothes also are The woman's body has a bad odor, and the clothes are also bare chested, go out and wear slippers, pajamas shopping, do not pay attention to the image, so that the woman that can be attractive to the opposite sex ah!
Then how to note to maintain their figure, in addition to a green and healthy diet, but also to strengthen the physical exercise, at least to maintain a week, you can go to the gym three times the habit of exercise, if the conditions are not ripe, the simplest also have to run at night to develop a healthy lifestyle, so that even if you get to the age of forty, still look healthy and energetic, give people a different feeling, and also do some basic beauty treatment, so that they will not have to pay attention to their own body. There are also some basic cosmetic skin care.
The second point, to have a connotation, speak loud voice, full of swear words, some also love to play mahjong, speak rudely, a little no woman's temperament and soft, more than a man still man.
Third, pay attention to their own cultivation, never felt that reading is useless, all kinds of things, only reading high, bookish women, give a person the feeling of smart and understanding, talk organized, from inside to outside exudes a charming temperament.
Fourth, the forty-year-old woman, can be said to be half-aged points rhyme remaining age, from the clothes on the dress as much as possible to pay attention. Secondly, we must be able to maintain a harmonious sex life is conducive to physical and mental health, should not feel older feel no mood, mood is their own creation, you can drive to the field with your husband to have a more stimulating battle, and go out and travel to the beach, the field of the inn, the hillock can be a different attempt to play a little bit of fresh tricks. Sexual harmony of the woman looks red, looks healthy and confident, endocrine will not be out of order, 40-year-old woman is the most sexy big woman.
If a 40-year-old woman still want to maintain the attraction of the opposite sex at least to do the above four points.
Forty-year-old woman how to maintain the attraction, first of all, we have to be confident, and then the mind to be good, look away from everything, to maintain youthful vigor, three or five confidantes girlfriends, in the unhappy time to warm up with each other, exercise to keep fit, the face is also the same as the need to maintain, not for other people, but can be pleasing to themselves, dress is also very important, I hope that the sisters to the fifty also maintain the same confidence and Attractive [laugh]
Forty-year-old women have been married into a family, is considered yesterday's flowers, from the man's point of view, unless it is the flavor of the stars artists, ordinary middle-aged women are mostly old, the body shape, really can not say what attraction, look at the street men's attention to the eyes of the women in what age group on the body it is clear that the problem is very interesting, why do you want to keep the woman in her forties, but also want to keep the woman in her forties? Why do women in their forties still want to maintain their attractiveness, and who do they want to attract?
1. Love of beauty, the pursuit of beauty is a woman's nature, with the opening up of society, women of any age will sprout the idea of the pursuit of beauty, middle-aged women are the beauty of the force. Influenced by personality traits, women are born with confidence in their own body is not too much, even if the body is really good, in front of the desired man is still not confident enough, we see Tong Liya is beautiful enough, right, but when she was with Chen Sicheng or feel that they are married, the stars are still so, not to mention the ordinary people! So women want to maintain the attraction, in fact, is not confident of a performance, just like women always ask men do you love me? is a meaning.
2. Forty-year-old woman is divided into two kinds of marriage (except for celibate ladies), marriage, of course, I hope that they have enough attraction to tether the man at home, do not let him on other women's hearts and minds; outside of the marriage, the woman will more or less feel that the whole life only to wait for a man to do the washing and cooking and give birth to children is a bit of a loss, and if the man can not be single-minded to her, to give her a safe and secure life. life, then her heart is bound to the outside world, even if nothing, people to middle age, but also by the husband outside the man praised charisma is also a pleasing thing ah!
3. Women are attractive to men in two places, one is beauty, one is wisdom, smart and beautiful woman is the best woman. Go to the fitness center to exercise when I have encountered a very good figure of the lady, the appearance of the early thirties, well-maintained enough, she should be a relatively rich woman, hired personal trainer, is a twenty-something years old muscular handsome man. Once, a couple of robust men broke into the gym and beat the handsome guy up, led by a boss-like man in his fifties who also hit the lady in the face. I'm sure we all guessed that it was the lady who had a story with the personal trainer and was found out by her own husband who came to take revenge. The center fired the private tutor and we learned that the lady was forty-six years old. Of course this gossip is not the point, I am trying to say, forty-year-old woman to remain attractive, of course, the body to run well.
4. If you look generalized, age and older, and lazy to sweat to abuse themselves, but also want to keep the attraction of the words, then only to enhance their own connotation and temperament, dress is one of the aspects that need to pay attention to, to choose to suit their own temperament of the dress, the middle-aged women do not easily show meat, want to beat the little girl in sexy to attract the attention of men, in addition to actresses, easily don't This is not a good idea. Knowledge is another aspect, that is, the smart mind, the advantage of middle-aged women is the rich experience of life, the character is honed to gentle and moving, understanding, like Dong Mingzhu, Dongqing, Yang Lan, Xu Qing, and so on, are smart women, forty or fifty years old is also very attractive. There is a female leader of the unit is very prestigious heart is also very delicate, every time and leadership overtime, she will be prepared for the ministry of convenience food, buy coffee, so that people working with her feel warm, we agreed that the female leader is very charismatic.
In the end, when a woman reaches middle age, she should not always think about how to attract men, kindness, knowledge and fraternity of the maternal glory is the real attraction of the charm.
Forty years of experience, maturity and charm, family trivia and responsibility to attract forty-year-old women, play their role, respect for the elderly and love for the young, do what they should do, do their due obligations and responsibilities. I wish you a happy family! Please bear with me if the answer is incomplete!
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How can a woman in her forties maintain her attractiveness?
When a woman reaches forty, it is definitely unrealistic to think that she can rely only on her looks to attract people, especially the opposite sex. Even if the maintenance is very proper, looks very young and beautiful middle-aged women.
But forty-year-old middle-aged women are still very attractive, they attract people in their temperament, talk, cultural heritage, knowledge reserves, rich life experience and their good understanding and behavior.
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Women forty, to maintain their attractiveness, we should try to do the following:
First, a healthy life. Including a reasonable diet, diet should be nutritious, but also appropriate control of the amount of food. Living a regular life, do not stay up late, in order to be refreshed.
Second, insist on exercise. Even if it's just a walk or a dance, not only do you make yourself energetic and have vitality, but you can also keep your figure better.
Third, decent makeup. Appropriate light makeup, light makeup can make people refreshed and look pleasing to the eye.
Don't follow the trend like when you are young, don't necessarily be very fashionable, but must be in line with your age and status. Try to wear good texture, well-tailored dresses and skirts.
Fourth, the knowledge should be updated. Be sure to keep up with the times, don't be out of touch with the times, and get in touch with more fresh things. Read more books to enrich your inner world.
Fifth, gentle and generous, understanding. People to middle age, is no longer the adventurous, the only small girl, people are no longer calculating, suffering.
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In fact, when a woman reaches the age of forty, the most important thing is not to give up on themselves, do not feel that they are in their middle age, they do not need to maintain their own charisma, they can only wear a very cheap and very ordinary clothes, all day long around the pots and pans, husband and children to play around, every day, rambling, east and west parents, will only be strolling through the market to jump to the square dance.
Forty-year-old women should maintain their own charm, so that more confident, but also more attractive, but also can make the husband more like you, family more harmonious.
Middle-aged women rely on temperament to win, temperament comes from the accumulation of knowledge, the precipitation of life, life experience, can make the forty-year-old woman looks more calm, calm, show elegance and generosity between hands and feet.
Host Dongqing is a good example.
At forty, Dongqing is even more attractive. Relying on her rich cultural heritage, no matter whether it is "The Reader", "Chinese Poetry Conference", or other hosts, she can always be very eloquent, confident and generous on stage, elegant speech, so that the audience have to be convinced.
Let people sigh "belly with poetry from the gas, the years from not defeat beauty" ah.
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In addition, there are Ma Yili, Mei Ting, Yi Nengjing, Liu Tao, Yuan Quan, etc. These people to forty actresses, not only did not because of the age of the growth, lose their own attraction, but instead, through the works, so that everyone feels more attractive, more attractive, the reason is that they are in the inner part of the self-discipline, perseverance, and the beauty does not give up.
The most powerful magic of time is on our appearance, with the passage of time, carved with a trace of age. But each age stage, there is a unique flavor, the precipitation of the years, making the middle-aged woman's heart more abundant.
Because of keeping a young mind, the heart of a forty-year-old woman will not age. We should have the mold that this age should have: calm and relaxed, intellectual and elegant, its unique attraction is the young people can not compare.
Attraction, if interpreted as sexual attraction, is an easy way to walk yourself into vulgarity. I often see some women in their 40s, dressed like a 20-year-old, but also hard to show this and that, in fact, is the understanding of the attraction of the bias ah!
To maintain their own attractiveness, I think we should start from the following aspects:
How to maintain, 40-year-old woman, in the body and skin, with the 20-year-old girl is certainly not comparable. But if your connotation is still the same as girls in their 20s, it is completely uncompetitive.
Connotation comes from experience and observation. If you read more books and think more, you will have more and more connotation.
When you are twenty years old, the silly white sweet may give people a lovely feeling, and will attract people. At a certain age, you have to rely on knowing more to act as an attraction.
Why do most women become hideous after 40 years old image? Because on the one hand, it may be the economic pressure and family burden that makes them become more inclined to be rough and want to do things more cheaply when it comes to choosing things: as long as they can use it, it's convenient. But the result is that the whole person becomes more and more rough.
No taste actually starts from laziness. When people are lazy, they don't think about the long term, they just think that cheap is good.
You see those big sisters do not move to wear a cheap silk scarf to take pictures, but also think they have taste, is the best example.
The secret to good taste is "fine". Choose the best, not the cheapest, and be greedy. If you have too much but not too much, you'll clutter up your air.
Some people have reached a certain age, why still delayed in the unrealistic fantasy? It's because they keep thinking, but they don't socialize themselves. Socialization means to become a role in the real society, to participate in the social division of labor, to provide products for the society.
To have connotation and taste before, is the need for you to experience, from the experience to extract thinking and aesthetic ability, you will know what is good, what is better. In this way, taste can be formed.
I often look at friends who are teachers (I used to be a teacher when I was in my 20s after just graduating from college), and the older they get, the easier it is for them to fall into extremes and for their tastes to become coarse. I guess it's also because of the low level of socialization. Campus is relatively far away from the reality of society. You will be more simple-minded. After living in a narrow and unrealistic world for a long time, you will lose the ability to judge what is really good.
(Note: This is just an example of a teacher, not a negative statement about the profession!)
Finally, let me share an example with you. How one of my clients, who is in his 40s, stays attractive.
The best attraction for a person is actually someone who follows you, identifies with and envies you from the bottom of their heart .
She is in her 40s, her husband is a little successful, and her children are in high school. She has nothing to do but buy and buy and buy and buy and buy. So she started running a clothing store. The first thing I did was to get the money to pay for a new car, and then I had to pay for a new car, and then I had to pay for a new car. There is no traffic, and there is no business, but she is with her own ability to run it into a high-end boutique, there are a lot of customers to follow.
She herself every day essence in the state, plus dress brightly, in the dress of the vision is good enough, not bad talk. Will live their own into the envy of others, their own also from this sense of achievement in the middle of the confidence found. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
I summarized and found that her charm lies in the choice.
Other people open store is to sell cheap goods, of course, will meet the customers who want cheap goods, every day time will be spent on bargaining and doing activities to promote. And she chose the market few people sell high-end boutique, the price is high, but she has the ability to have the vision to ensure that these goods really have a sense of class. Her taste has won her high-end customers.
These customers are rushing to her taste, rushing to her can provide customers with a sense of class boutique clothing to. Nature is not the kind of all day waiting for you to do activities, take advantage of your cheap. She can also spend more energy in the search for boutique sources, and good goods, and further in the customer to form a word of mouth, bring more customers like high-end boutique clothing.
This is actually a virtuous circle formed by taste. She met me because she was looking for a source of goods. I am engaged in high-end boutique apparel wholesale, she once saw an article I posted online, the point of view and she agreed, immediately cooperation. When you have taste and know what is good and valuable and what is better and more valuable, you know how to sell value, and from there you become more and more confident and attractive.
Study relentlessly, be light and erect. Eat little and sleep well. Eyes full of beauty and laughter. Treat people with generosity and have a small but fine circle of friends. Forty-something sisters we have to **** encourage, cherish yourself is the theme.
"In the name of the people" in the Wang Dalu evaluation of Ouyang Jing - Ouyang's failure lies in the refusal to mature, refused to grow up. There are some character, in the young girl, very cute, in the middle-aged woman, it is a little sad, even ridiculous ah.
This passage hits the nail on the head when it points out that in a 40-year-old woman, the attraction comes mainly from the charm of maturity, which aspects can reflect the charm of maturity?
1, appropriate and decent dress
Have heard a sentence: a woman's looks, before 30 years old, parents give, after 30 years old, they give. Before the age of 30, young is the advantage, the body function will not be too fast aging, but after 30 years old, many girls experience marriage, childbirth, if not on the body of the skin to actively manage, it is easy to aging, out of shape.
People to the middle age, the woman in the dress code, although not necessarily in the trend of the front line, but must be decent, choose to suit their temperament and body type of clothing, plus a lot of points, but also can be just right to show their own charm.
2, independent of the bottom
40-year-old woman needs to have the bottom, this bottom is the economic independence to support up, but also their own career achievements given. With this bottom, the 40-year-old woman will not be anxious and worried about the loss. With this background, the woman can face the family, life in some of the changes in the strong.
We don't have to rely on anyone, we can still live a good life, this is the 40-year-old woman needs the most confidence.
3, a little more spontaneous
40-year-old woman compared to 20, 30-year-old woman, the understanding of life, the realm is a higher level. Know how to get in and out, know to others and their own to leave the right space.
A 40-year-old woman knows how to pamper herself, knows when to let go that let go, will not be pessimistic because of age, but to understand that they still have unlimited possibilities, such a woman will not lack of love.
How about learning from the following?
My definition of "beautiful" is not the face value of the girl sense of pretty, women over 40, the fine lines are also beautiful, beautiful and calm, and charm is not contradictory.
I've compiled a list of a few actresses who I think are beautifully temperamentally around 40 (two are 3 months short of 40).
Some of them have a kind of "vitality", which is very contagious~
I think there are three things that make me think that I am still beautiful and charming at 40:
After thinking about it, I would put Karen Mok in the first place!
1. Karen Mok
Hahahahahahahahaha Karen Mok's looks have always been a point that many people can't get, but I just kinda like her ah!
In 2017, that is, when Karen Mok was 47 years old on the program Heavenly Melody, she sang "There is such a girl", with a lot of style and climbing the piano. Look at the eyes of the piano accompaniment hahahahaha, are a little embarrassed.
Piano accompaniment interview
Karen Mok climbed the piano to sing sexy and charming
2. Liu Tao
41 years old, the skin is in very good condition, the cheekbones are a little bit high, microblogging is often po fitness photos ~
This set of portraits of her and Yao Chen is so beautiful ah (although the portraits are surely fine-tuned) ~
The video screenshot can also be seen on the face! The video screenshot also shows that the face is not obvious depression and sagging, but rather "collagen full" full and plump feeling!
3. Gao Yuanyuan
When Gao Yuanyuan was 39 years old, Gao Yuanyuan Studio made a small video, "I, 39":
Gao Yuanyuan Studio: I, 39
Among them, they talked about their own social phobia at the age of 20, as well as some of the things that they think they were naive.
For example, when I was in my 20s, I thought that my roles didn't have enough conflict and contradiction to reflect my acting skills, and then I gradually realized that it was my own barriers rather than a casting problem.
It feels like Gao Yuanyuan's 39-year-old mindset is looking very transparent ah~
I wonder if she's in the same good shape now that she's post-partum.
One has to accept one's aging while taking care of one's skin:
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Hahahaha this home video definitely has a filter ah~ the skin condition looks pretty good and the body management is good in every way.
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There are fine lines at the corners of the eyes, but also a generous and bright smile.
And as some of the respondents have said,
from "We Are Real Friends" is really in great shape!
Big S is really very self-disciplined ah ~
Ma Yili posted their own face photos is really a little bit of filter a little bit of blur are not, they also said:
This kind of calm, honesty, and self-confidence is really great!
Back to that~
These three points are not the only things that celebrities can do! I know several female dermatologists ~ in their 40's and 50's ~ who do all three wonderfully!
I know several female dermatologists who are in their 40s and 50s and they are all doing great!
The body is also, although not so S-curve, but 50 years old and did not get fat, good-looking legs, meticulous skin.
Ah ~
*** Veng it.
Forty-year-old woman, is not confused. There is no young girl's green and bright, but a mature woman like wine, the more precipitation the more mellow, let a person recall the memory.
The years are a killing knife, forty-year-old woman after the ravages of the years, the face is no longer the same. To maintain their attractiveness, but also need to work in the following areas:
1, the economy must be independent
The economic base determines the status of the family, the man is out to earn money to support the family, the woman at home to rely on the man to support, and soon become the man's appendage, the man can be at any time you point the finger. Smart women will have their own a stable job, do not need to have too much development in terms of career, their own life is full, their economy can be independent. Such a woman is more attractive in the eyes of men.
Regardless of whether the husband is a waisted boss, or a peaceful office worker, as a woman, must have their own way of earning money or work, can not be completely dependent on her husband in the money.
"Husband has a compartmentalized hand", never gullibly believe that a man has to support your bullshit. When two people are in good feelings, flat wind and waves, the years are quiet, once you meet something, you will lose the bottom of being a man at any time: what money you earn, but also not I make money every day to support you?
2, have their own hobbies and space
Forty-year-old woman to have their own hobbies, put the passion into their hobbies, from which they get pleasure, so that life is colorful. Do what you like, so that you can pass the time, but also pleasant mood.
Forty-year-old woman to have a kind of ability to please themselves, as long as they have learned to please themselves, have their own hobbies, can let themselves live a full, happy.
A woman with her own hobbies is conducive to the harmony of family relations. Everyone has their own circle, the husband is not the whole of your life, to give each other some space. The more you are good to yourself, the more your husband will care about you.
3, self-confidence of the most beautiful women
Good-looking skin a thousand and one, the soul of the interesting one in a million.
After years of baptism, the woman to the age of forty is very charming. Forty-year-old woman, although there is no young girl's simplicity and lovely, but this age of the woman has a different kind of temperament and attraction, is self-confidence.
Confident women, men have a "fatal" attraction, there is a mature flavor, regardless of whether your appearance is beautiful, whether the body is perfect, as long as the woman has confidence, there will be a different kind of beauty. A woman without self-confidence even if the appearance is beautiful, but also just a good bag.
4, have a healthy body
By the age of forty, some women no longer pay attention to their image. The fact that they are not eating and drinking without moderation makes it easy for the body to get fat and out of shape, and at the same time, some of the illnesses will also come to you.
Health is the foundation of everything, forty-year-old woman should care more about their health. The woman is not only the face is important, the body health is even more important. The beauty of a woman comes from a healthy body, and it is important to pay attention to regular exercise, such as running, dancing, doing yoga, etc. In terms of diet, it is important to pay attention to balanced nutrition. In the diet should pay attention to nutritional balance, maintain adequate sleep, do not care about trivial life, have a good state of mind, long time to maintain, not only will have a good body, but also in the invisible to maintain a woman's charming body.
Giving all my wishes to the universe, all I have to do is to enjoy the moment and make myself more happy and joyful at this moment. I am the happiest and most blissful person in the world! -Jack Canfield, Law of Attraction
If you bloom, butterflies will come.