When a dead child suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones, how can he explain to him where his loved ones have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say to go on a business trip in a distant place or study abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practices of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Don't such words also hinder the integrity!
How I wish I could see my son for the last time when his mother was terminally ill and dying. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of the mother who once broke his heart for his son. He regrets and misses it. The old mother understood her son very well and told her relatives around her not to tell her distant son after she left, so as not to distract him.
To say that his condition is stable, let him feel at ease and do his best for the country. Don't interfere with honesty with such white lies!
There should be white lies in life:
I think cheating is definitely cheating, and cheating is not necessarily cheating. There are two kinds of lies: malicious and white. Lying is human instinct. As for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lies it tells. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be cheating. Malicious lies are an act of seeking benefits for liars, aiming at others, with a strong desire for profit, weak rationality and hurting others at the expense of others. It is an act that harms others and does not benefit others. People with ulterior motives, no matter how disguised, how rhetoric, how to rack their brains to give their malicious lies a malicious purpose. But a white lie is not. Its motive is kindness and its purpose is to safeguard the interests of others. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on sincerity and kindness in the heart. The white lies that good people are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. This kind of lie is also a way of life, which reflects the quality of caring for others. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. A world without lies, like a dust-free earth, does not exist. The key is how to use it. White lies do not hinder honesty, so there should be white lies in life.
A white lie will not hinder honesty.
Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us has never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A white lie has a good starting point, and it is a lie that has to be fabricated when lying and cheating in white.
First of all, a white lie will not hinder honesty. Let's start with our country:
In the late 1950s and early 1960s, there was a dispute between China and the former Soviet Union. The former Soviet government tore up the contract and withdrew experts, which paralyzed China's industry for a time. In order to pay off the debts owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the people to practice steel and launched an unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in China would know that our country was still in debt to others, thinking that our country was liberated. You will live a carefree life, but the party and state leaders have shouldered this burden. At that time, the state leaders lied to the people in good faith and honesty. At that time, the people of China worked hard without pressure and created an unprecedented miracle. At that time, Wang Jinxi was an iron man, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team to drill our first oil well in China … ..
Second, speaking of us personally, I will give two small examples here:
I watched a TV report that an old mother had kidney disease, and her life would be in danger if she didn't change her kidney. At this time, the eldest son stood up and asked for kidney donation, which hurt the old mother, who strongly opposed it. She said that if so, she might as well die. No way, we can only wait for a kidney source that matches the conditions, but it is really not easy to wait for such a kidney source. My son was afraid of delaying his mother's illness. After discussing with his family, I cheated my mother. I donated a kidney from my youth to my mother. After the operation was successful, the family kept it from their old mother. The most touching thing is that my mother and son live in the next ward. My mother doesn't know. When my mother wanted to see her eldest son, my family just lied to her that her son was on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears. Friends, does such a lie hinder honesty?
A little girl with leukemia, at the end of her life, when the doctor asked her what her greatest wish was, she said that she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to watch the flag-raising ceremony. How can doctors and parents not satisfy a dying girl's last wish? However, because her family lives in a distant Xinjiang, if her requirements are met, the doctor is afraid that the girl can't stand the fatigue of the journey, so a collective fabrication activity organized by more than 2,000 volunteers, doctors and the girl's family began. From boarding the train to taking the tour bus, along the way, from reporting to the waiter serving tea, and even to the conversation of passengers, everyone deliberately arranged. Finally, they came to a school, accompanied by the national anthem of a military band. The blind girl thought she really came to the long-awaited Tiananmen Square. When she was unable to raise her little hand to salute the national flag, all the people present shed tears. This collective lying action organized by more than 2,000 people, can you say that their white lies hinder honesty?
Also, many elderly people are uncomfortable and refuse to let their children know at the first time, for fear of affecting their normal work and study! Many children say that falling doesn't hurt, just to let their parents say they are brave! There are many women who silently contribute behind the successful personnel, tired but not complaining, so that their husbands can do their work better with peace of mind and care less about their families ... There are countless examples in our country with a long history of civilization, and facts speak louder than words. To sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are well-intentioned and do not hinder honesty. ...
There is no saying that white lies are beautiful. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, which has magical power.
Let's give an example. One student was not very good at long-distance running, but in an exam, the teacher told him that the speed of long-distance running was faster than other students, and that he had the opportunity to participate in the competition on behalf of the school and told him to work hard. The student was very excited after listening to the teacher's words, because he always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running and could actually participate in the competition on behalf of the school. From that day on, he really liked long-distance running and kept running every day. After a while, he was really chosen because he couldn't represent the school at all.
Once a teacher told a lie that he could predict the future for his students: you may become a mathematician in the future, he may become a writer, and which one has artistic talent ... In the guidance, edification, encouragement and shaping of the teacher, the children become diligent, sensible and studious. A few years later, a large number of students entered the university with excellent results, and the village became famous. People think that the old teacher can pinch and calculate and can perceive the future. In fact, the teacher's good intention is to plant a beautiful lie in the child's heart, just like planting a seed in the soil, which will eventually grow sturdily and blossom.
When I read the American short story The Last Leaf, my eyes are always moist. When the sick old man looked at the dead leaves and was desolate and desperate, the loving painter decorated the withered tree of life with a carefully sketched green leaf, thus maintaining a dying light of life. Isn't this the acme of lies?
Lies out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart and firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world, thus finding more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow humanity with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive.
A lie from parents makes a child's face bloom like a flower; The teacher's lies make the wandering students no longer confused and grow better; The doctor's lies make the fearful patient move from destruction to rebirth. ...
Dear friends, wake up. In fact, white lies don't hinder honesty at all. Don't think that white lies will hinder honesty, because as long as you think of others, white lies are precious. It will neither cause a crisis of trust, nor defile civilization, nor distort human nature.
White lies have magical power, encouraging you to make progress again and again, and never giving up for your dreams. Because the future road is completely illuminated by happy mood, life becomes better.
There should be white lies in life:
I think cheating is definitely cheating, and cheating is not necessarily cheating. There are two kinds of lies: malicious and white. Lying is human instinct. As for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lies it tells. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be cheating. Malicious lies are an act of seeking benefits for liars, aiming at others, with a strong desire for profit, weak rationality and hurting others at the expense of others. It is an act that harms others and does not benefit others. People with ulterior motives, no matter how disguised, how rhetoric, how to rack their brains to give their malicious lies a malicious purpose. But a white lie is not. Its motive is kindness and its purpose is to safeguard the interests of others. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on sincerity and kindness in the heart. The white lies that good people are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. This kind of lie is also a way of life, which reflects the quality of caring for others. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. A world without lies, like a dust-free earth, does not exist. The key is how to use it. White lies do not hinder honesty, so there should be white lies in life;
I think cheating is definitely cheating, and cheating is not necessarily cheating. There are two kinds of lies: malicious and white. Lying is human instinct. As for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lies it tells. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be cheating. Malicious lies are an act of seeking benefits for liars, aiming at others, with a strong desire for profit, weak rationality and hurting others at the expense of others. It is an act that harms others and does not benefit others. People with ulterior motives, no matter how disguised, how rhetoric, how to rack their brains to give their malicious lies a malicious purpose. But a white lie is not. Its motive is kindness and its purpose is to safeguard the interests of others. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on sincerity and kindness in the heart. The white lies that good people are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. This kind of lie is also a way of life, which reflects the quality of caring for others. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. A world without lies, like a dust-free earth, does not exist. The key is how to use it. White lies do not hinder honesty, so there should be white lies in life;