I have, a lot more.
The other day, I was walking in the park, because it was still early, the square dance team had not yet formally drawn up, and there were only sporadic leaders in the various squares rushing one after another to do the sound debugging work.
Suddenly, in the distance came a self-music, spirited "guy", far from high, but well-proportioned, at this time, the park's square dance music has not yet begun to deafen, and therefore appear particularly compelling.
He was wearing a gray sports shirt, a small black external speaker on the waist, and his black shorts into one, very harmonious.
At this moment, he is dancing to the rhythm of the music and walking towards me, and in the gradually clear outline, I realized that although he looks very spiritual, but also definitely not a "boy".
He waved and greeted every stranger he met, with a strong, kind tone of voice and a broad smile, polite but with the rhythm of the music (I think he was a regular dancer), and his energy was visible to everyone he passed:
A few grandmothers who were traveling with him danced along with him to familiar steps;
A young mother was scolding him for running around, and a young woman was dancing with him.
A young mother was reprimanding her daughter for running around, and when she met him, both mother and daughter greeted him with smiles, the child no longer running around, and the mother's clouds turned to sunshine;
A middle-aged man on the side of the road with a furrowed brow on the phone was startled when he heard his "Hello", and then looked at him as he gradually moved away from the body of the long stared, and finally put down the phone, smiled, and stepped forward. "The first time I saw him, I was so embarrassed, but I didn't know what to say.
Why am I observing so closely? The reason is that after I met him, he gave me a shock that I could not calm down for a long time. Although it was just a simple "hello", his vigor gave people an instantly uplifting and pleasant aura that made the corners of your mouth rise uncontrollably.
But there's more to energy than just the good stuff. Have you ever been poured water on you for no reason at all? Really don't have too many (deflated mouth + rolled eyes + sigh).
A group of people, when continued for a period of time no one to save the day, will form a negative energy aura, this time no matter what words will trigger a fight, so the general save the day is difficult, which makes people breathless low pressure, just want to escape at light speed.
When there are only two people, the problem can also be big or small, because you can only rely on each other.
Last week, the old man went home from work and said he wanted to go out to eat, it was dark and rainy outside, and I didn't want to go, but he said he went out to refuel his car because he had something to do early in the morning, and the refueling place was always jammed, so he wanted to get ready in advance.
Along the way, the chatterbox of his extraordinarily silent, I tried to pry open his mouth, but did not succeed, I have felt the low pressure, but also interested in talking as little as possible, but this calm was soon broken.
The nearest gas station said it would take 40 minutes to refuel, so we circled around the neighborhood looking for a new gas station, but the gas station did not find the road blocked, see the car repeatedly alarm shows no oil, we are a little anxious, the old Liu constantly issued an impatient sigh, I comforted him a few words, but it does not work.
The atmosphere is even more depressing, and I'm starting to get a little angry, so I'm not sure why I want to come out and suffer from this crime. I feel that I can not do anything, stay in the rainy day car, there is nowhere to escape.
I don't know how long it took to get through the ordeal, but I finally got through. Panic, the car and the wrong line, went to a road we are sure there is no gas station, this time the old Liu completely broke out.
In his complaints about the car's lights are not bright, the rain can not see the line, the traffic jam and no oil, but also the wrong way hiss, the atmosphere reached the peak of low pressure. He lost his patience, and on the next journey, he finally got road rage, and I knew there was a reason for it, so I lost my temper until I found a new gas station.
After filling up the gas tank, the old man began to slow down, told his troubles, in the analysis of the discussion, he also gradually awake.
I harshly criticized him for the negative energy he brought to the table, and the atmosphere eased after he realized that if you have a problem, you have to solve it now, and the more you put it off, the more you'll get frustrated.
The feeling of powerlessness in a low-pressure situation is really devastating, and it's easy to get depressed and irritated, and try to adjust yourself to change others, and then you'll be poured with water, or you'll have to make a deal with someone close to you to kill the low pressure before it arrives.
Each person's personality itself carries a variety of energy, and when a large amount of energy is released, it creates an energy aura, which I call a kind of energy magnetism, because it infects and attracts people around.
Whenever you're depressed, look for a positive energy field around you like "Energetic Uncle" that will make you happy, for free.