The fleeting time disappears into the clouds, drifting with the wind and scattered with the rain, like thoughts scattered all over the place, singing softly and gazing in the red dust of the road. Mei, whose heartstrings have been disturbed in the end, whose beauty has been ruined?
Dong Qing said:
Everything in the world is an encounter.
When cold meets warm, there is rain;
When winter meets spring, there are years;
When heaven meets earth, there is eternity;
When people meet people, life comes into being.
Every encounter in this world has its own unique meaning.
Some people say: Meeting the right person is a kind of luck; meeting the wrong person also enriches our lives.
After so many years, I have lived up to my expectations.
01 The first meeting is a kind of sweetness
Mulan Ci·Naigu Juejue Ci Cambodian Friends
Nalan Xingde of the Qing Dynasty
If life is just like the first time we met, why should the autumn wind draw a fan sadly?
It’s easy to change an old person’s heart, but it’s easy to change an old person’s heart.
Lishan’s words are half past midnight, and the tears and rain will not complain.
How lucky is the handsome man in brocade to wish for that day with wings and branches.
Getting along with the person you love should always be as sweet, warm, affectionate and happy as when you first met.
Like flowers and beautiful families, like the passage of time, from Ban Jieyu to Yang Guifei, from Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty to Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty. The first meeting is a kind of sweetness that is deeply remembered, without too much burden.
An Yiru said: "How wonderful it would be if life were just like the first time we met. He is still his famous master, and she is still her most beautiful woman. The beauty of the country and the mountain do not interfere with each other. No. Once it begins, there is no end. ”
Perhaps the most beautiful thing is not to retain time, but to retain memories. Just like the feeling of first acquaintance, even a casual smile is the story we miss the most. . I hope time is like the first time we met.
If a relationship carries enough weight in a person's heart, no matter what changes he goes through in the future, the moment they first meet will always be clear and unforgettable.
02 There is her in the dimly lit place
The Sapphire Case · Yuan Eve
Song Dynasty · Xin Qiji
Thousands of flowers bloom on the east wind night . More blowing down, the stars are like rain. BMW's carved cars fill the road with fragrance. The phoenix flute sounded, the jade pot turned light, and fish and dragons danced all night.
Moth snow willow golden strands. The laughter is full of fragrance. People searched for him thousands of times. Suddenly looking back, that person was there, in a dimly lit place.
During the Lantern Festival, the lights are on all night long and the crowds are surging.
The melodious sound of the flute, the bright moon, and the joyful dancing of fish and dragon lanterns made me feel sleepy all night long.
The women were dressed like jade and walked by with smiles and fragrances flowing along the way.
I got separated from her. I searched the crowd a thousand times but couldn't find her.
When the lights were dim, I suddenly turned around and inadvertently found her in a sparsely lit area.
It’s great that in love, when you look back, you can still see the person waiting behind you.
What we don’t want to see the most is: when we finally understand who the person we are looking for is, the dimly lit place is already empty.
Zhang Ailing said: When you meet the person you want to meet among millions of people, in the endless wilderness of time in millions of years, there is neither a step too early nor a step too late, and you just happen to catch up. , there is nothing else to say, but to ask gently: "Oh, are you here too?
03 The spring breeze is not as good as you alone
Farewell 2 Chapter 1 (Part 1)
Du Mu of the Tang Dynasty
Pingping is more than thirteen years old,
The cardamom leaves are blooming in early February
The spring breeze is ten miles away. Yangzhou Road,
It’s better to roll up the beaded curtain.
The posture is beautiful and the demeanor is light, just like the cardamom flower in early February.
I have seen all the young beauties in the ten-mile long street of Yangzhou City, but none of them can compare to her if they roll up bead curtains and sell pretty pink and white.
A good saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." "Let's go!
The poet Du Mu fell in love with a city because of a person, how beautiful it is!
What is the most beautiful look of love? It is "The spring breeze ten miles away is not as good as you." Both parties regard each other as their only one. I think this is the unique beauty of love.
The best meeting is not when the flowers are blooming, the sun is just right, and the breeze is not dry, but you are exactly me. I like it.
"Casablanca": There are so many towns in the world, and there are so many pubs in them, but she walked into mine. You see, it was destined that I love you.
04 A brief encounter is better than day and night
Magpie Bridge Fairy·Xianyun Nongqiao
Song Dynasty Qin Guan
Thin clouds make tricks, flying stars spread hatred, and silver and gold are far away in darkness. Once the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win over countless people.
Tenderness is like water, good times are like dreams, and the two emotions can't bear to look at the Magpie Bridge. If it lasts for a long time, how can we meet day and night in the autumn wind and white dew, which is better than those couples in the world who stay together for a long time but are inseparable in appearance? The love between the two will last until death, so why should we covet the happiness of each other?
In Qin Guan's eyes, the meeting of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl is not sad and painful, but happy and happy.
Even if the encounter is brief, as long as the feelings are pure and beautiful, the joy of that brief encounter is better than countless beautiful scenery in the world.
German philosopher Hegel said: " In romantic love, the key is that this man loves this woman, and this woman only loves this man. ”
05 The loss and sorrow of missing the beloved
Sheng Chazi·Yuan Xiu
Song Dynasty Ouyang Xiu
Last year on Yuan Night, The lights in the flower market are like daylight.
The moon is on the willow branches, and people are waiting for the evening.
On the Lantern Festival this year, the moon and lights are still the same.
There are no people there. Tears wet the sleeves of the spring shirt.
During the Lantern Festival last year, the flower market was illuminated like daylight.
Meet the beautiful woman after dusk, the moon rises over the willows. On the 15th day of the first lunar month this year, the moonlight and lights are still the same as last year.
I can no longer see my old friend from last year, wet with tears of lovesickness. The sleeves of the spring shirt are gone.
The world is unpredictable, and love is hard to come by. What touches people's hearts is the sorrowful, lingering and unforgettable love.
Who has not longed for it. I have never pursued it sincerely, but I have no choice but to be tricked by fate. By a combination of circumstances, happiness always passes by.
The old joy still resides in my heart, but the person I have been waiting for will never come again in this life. The flowers fell helplessly, but where was the familiar swallow? Was the love we once had so unpredictable?
If this is really the case, are those beautiful moments of love and affection lost in the years?
No one expected that missing one season would actually miss a lifetime. Although the alliance is there, there is no sound from the beautiful woman. What kind of sadness and regret, what kind of heart-breaking pain!
The ancients were like this, and so are the people today. There is always too much sadness and regret in the world. Things are changing, and things are changing. Looking back, I see that all the people from the past are gone, and there are only heartbroken people here.
In this world of mortals, in the vast sea of ??people, the beauty is nowhere to be found. Even if there are all kinds of tenderness, who can I tell her to?
Teacher Yang Yu said: "People are usually too easy to indulge in love that comes and goes, and forget that lasting love is the love that can withstand the test."
Meet , is a kind of beauty. Because of meeting, life has light and throbbing.
Xu Zhimo said: "What I gain is my luck; what I lose is my fate."
Every encounter in life is a practice, and every inch of time is a blessing. We need to experience it ourselves;
Only by facing it calmly can we reach the other side.