What is the difference between bringing up a child by yourself and bringing up a child by your parents?

The difference is that the children's education, thinking, independence, dress and so on are different, nowadays the young people in order to make a living, so they have to leave the children to the old people at home to bring up, especially in the rural areas left behind the children, there are too many! This also makes a lot of parents heart is not taste, but no way, with the parents together is certainly good, but the city's spending a lot of money, earn a little money is not enough for the child's expenses, so they have to leave the old man at home with, and the old man at home is not to bring a bad, but their thinking is very old-fashioned, that the child can be enough to eat and wear warm on the line, so the difference is also in the usual show up, so the old man and his own and what the difference is. What's the difference? I'll tell you what I personally think.

My eldest daughter is eleven years old this year, by the old man at home to help bring, to say that my eldest daughter's education, I think it's okay, but there are still a lot of details of the problem need to be properly educated, such as the child has a lot of etiquette don't understand, the child's learning on vacation there are also a lot of times when no one to her to explain, and the old man of the family they don't understand, a lifetime of life in the countryside, life habits are very casual, about the child's learning, and the old man of the family they don't understand. They have lived in the countryside all their lives, and their living habits are very casual, and they only know the so-called "rules" about etiquette. Rules?



These are the first time I've ever seen a child in the world who was born in a country where there were no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children, no children.

Children's thinking is supposed to be very simple, so the ideas they receive affect their thinking, and when they grow up they can show it in their talk with others. In fact, to distinguish between thoughts, usually can not be distinguished, if you let the elderly with children and parents with children to play together, together to communicate, you will find that the parents with children, thinking slightly ? I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person. And the children brought up by the elderly are slightly more childish, so even if they are the same age, they are different in their thinking patterns.

This I believe that the elderly with children's parents have this **** Ming, take the child to eat, the elderly are afraid of the child does not eat, so when eating, on the end of the bowl to feed the child, the child mischievous run around, the elderly on the side of the chase while feeding, if the parents said the elderly way is not right, the old man will be able to say that? The child is small, do not feed the hungry ah? And parents with children is not the same, if the child does not eat, want to let people feed, then do not eat, anyway, hungry themselves will eat, And the child fell, the first reaction of the old man is to rush to help up, while the parents are to say? Be brave, get up by yourself? ,So they are different in terms of independence.

The difference, I'm not saying that the old man can't take care of the kids, or that the old man dresses the kids up, but the old man puts too much emphasis on the children's warmth and coldness, Take the case of my oldest daughter, the day of May was starting to get hot, but my daughter still wears two, and my mother-in-law's words are? Kids don't have June, so wear thicker to prevent colds? In fact, her original intention is still good, but my daughter every fever is May, June and October, and the fever cause is to wear too thick heat and cold, although it happens year after year, we also remind year after year, but all to no avail, so the old man in the child's clothing warm and cold really is slightly different from the parents.