Engagement: 1: both parents attended the banquet to consult the two sides of the betrothal matters, mainly to order the yellow calendar and how much of the bride price of the male party. The bride price how much depending on the two sides of the family conditions prevail, if both sides are ordinary family
(Here the ordinary family refers to the two sides of the family's annual income in the 100,000RMB or so) the current standard is 88,888-108,000 floating
2: to the day before the engagement there is certainly a large amount of time, in this period of time is to add two people! Engagement things needed, we start with the man to the woman's things, a set of gold jewelry
Including earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings, a diamond ring (diamond ring is now roughly the price of buying about 15,000 can be, in fact, you can go to the gold point to buy a bare diamond to choose their favorite
Style to build the price difference is great, you can save about 35%, note: (The premise first asked the parents, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold think you can preserve the value of the young people do not like feel rustic),
And sugar gold apricot pair. Wenzhou wedding sugar size, all the women need to sugar all men are responsible for including wedding candy within the red packets, women's parents' friends and some other exceptions sent by the women themselves, (
Currently, the red packets of 50-100 people put, depending on the conditions of both sides with the amount of wedding sugar). And the female side to buy things for the male wedding engagement is wearing a suit, shirt two, tie two
strip, two pairs of shoes (casual with a pair of shoes) casual wear two sets of socks a dozen, gold: bracelets and necklaces each a (if the red envelope to the best man is less than 580 need to buy another shirt to the best man)
dishes a set of 88 98 pieces 108 pieces can be choose, depending on the situation to buy, six kinds of points citrus, pastry, dates, cinnamon, lotus seeds, peanuts. And then the man sent sugar gold apricot back to the man, received
gift money according to the economic conditions of the situation back, if the woman's conditions in general if the collection of 88,888 if the return to the man 38888-58888 ranging from the rest of the money to their own to buy things for the man and the future marriage to add
new house needed. If the woman's condition is good, it will directly accept all the gifts and purchase a car to the man.
3: Engagement Day: Wenzhou people are now engaged in two kinds of banquets, one is the woman's home at noon set up banquets to invite the man's parents as well as the best man to attend the evening by the man back to invite the woman. Another
is that both parents plus close friends and relatives together in a hotel banquet engagement. Generally now the city choose the latter more, the afternoon the man drove to the woman's home dressed to meet the woman and her parents, and give
Women's younger brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money refers to the woman's younger brother or sister do not allow her sister to get married to the suitcase refused to go, you have to give him the money he was willing to let go, the last generation of people so interpreted.)
The suitcase money is about 5800-10800 ranging. After arriving at the hotel to both parents to tea, to friends and relatives to toast to witness your love (anyway, a word. Drink ~~~)
Marriage: 1: decide to get married on the day after the hotel will start to book a banquet, Wenzhou now seems to be a year in advance to book a banquet I dang, a good day to get married ah. Then we have to first
An a nest, house prices are too expensive here regardless, more than 130 square feet or so about 1 million RMB it. Buy a house and decorate of course, the man is responsible for, decorate at least 2 months, decorate the room
room
furniture purchased by the man outside of all the other is responsible for dressing the woman, which is a big expense, electrical appliances, not to mention, and even to buy decorative things and the kitchen and the bedding
is a big expense.
2: choose a good time and good weather two people to take wedding photos, generally now the photo studio are playing price war technology and strength are similar, but once in a lifetime also do not care about so
point of money, as long as you pay attention to don't look at this one feel good that one feels good to pick the more and more that is too much to spend, the general control of the 4,000-5,000 used to take pictures is still worth it.
3: Nest has a photo shoot is almost everything OK in advance, please good wedding, peace of mind waiting to get married, contact a good wedding day photography car rental hops, but these to the relationship is not now
The street full of etiquette companies have all-inclusive, as for the invitation does not invite the emcee to see the personal preference, always feel that you banquet more than one day if the emcee and half a day you are busy to 12:00 p.m. do not want to be good, you wait! The other people also waited for
Not ah.
4: the night before the wedding bride to do a beauty to a cuticle on the line, the day of the wedding do not have to get up so early, now the beautician is directly to the door to get up at 9:00 to do a hair do
nails and then eat, after this meal at noon the next meal is to the next day's lunch ah, here to remind everyone or to eat enough ah, huh. Then to one o'clock more makeup artist to wear a wedding dress,
shawl, makeup and hairstyle probably need more than an hour. Here to remind is to pay attention to advance telephone notification makeup artist their wedding dress is what color and style, so that she will
prepare the same color and style of headdress. The male side is about the same, no women so troublesome, 4:00 kind of time the groom and the best man will set off to the female side of the home to pick up the bride, to the bride's home
Bridesmaids will want to think of some tricks to make things difficult for the groom, and finally of course, the red packet is done to open the door, (the red packet is about 28 yuan, this side of Wenzhou is nine bridesmaids, plus the bride is exactly one table) and then it is the nine bridesmaids
plus the bride! All the male relatives with the car together to the new room. Here to get out of the car, Wenzhou side is a rental car, cigarettes must be handed, otherwise some bad drivers will intentionally open fast open slow, so
not a team line, the video shot up is not very good to see. Then to the new room is to honor tea and dumplings row video, and must remember to honor things in the order of elders, otherwise it will be gossiped about.
The next thing is to drive all the way to the hotel again, then it is the lion dance, and then give the red envelope (red envelope is also 28). The next thing is that some of the groomsmen will take one of those spritzers and spray the newlyweds and bridesmaids furiously.
It is recommended that the bride put her veil down, and the bridesmaids are advised to prepare an old dress with a hat, and put the hat on before going in, huh? The last level is of course the toast, this is the most important, of course, is
different from person to person, we each play, here is also exempt, but also pay attention to the middle of the bride to change the wedding dress and hairstyle. It is also noted that Wenzhou is now the male party to the female party 4 tables of banquets, including red packets,
More than the banquets is the female put their own responsibility, and red packets, of course, is charged by their respective parents to marry a Wenzhou wife's costing According to the online statistical methods, we have to estimate the conditions of the discussion of a Wenzhou wife in the upper (education above the junior college level, good figure and appearance, have a stable job) How much does it cost.
1. A set of houses (more than 100 square meters, urban areas), to the average price of 8,000 yuan, 8,000 × 100 = 800,000 yuan. Down payment of 50 percent, borrowing from the bank 400,000 yuan, if you can get a 20-year loan, according to the current preferential housing commercial loan interest rate of 5.04 percent per annum, the monthly repayment of 2,648.67 yuan
2. decoration, in order to medium renovation, 100 square meters counted, counting 150,000 yuan.
3. home appliances and furniture, amounting to 70,000 yuan (part of the woman in the form of dowry contribution to bear).
4. Sedan, to the standard of ordinary cars, counting 14 million. (At present, most of the newlywed families in Wenzhou car funded by the woman)
5. Do wedding wine, to medium hotel 25 tables, for example, including bring their own wine, cigarettes, sugar, counting 1200 × 25 = 30,000 yuan. Recycling red packets to an average of 1200 yuan per table, 1200 × 25 = 30,000, break even.
6. honeymoon, to Hong Kong and Macao, New Malaysia and Thailand, Yunnan, Hainan as the main travel place, the average cost per person to 8,000 yuan as the standard, counting 8,000 × 2 = 16,000 yuan.
7. From the relationship to the decision to get married this time, including
go out to eat, buy gifts, entertainment, travel, send his girlfriend's parents holiday gifts, etc., an average of 1,000 yuan per month as a standard, talk about 2 years, counting 1,000 × 12 × 2 = 24,000 yuan.
To sum up, the total cost of each 40 + 15 + 7 + 1.6 + 24 = 660,000 yuan.
The man's family of 200,000 home, the man's annual income of 50,000, after saving food and simple, disposable surplus of 40,000, (66-20)/4 = about 10 years. After marriage, husband and wife *** with efforts, but also a month of more than 2,000 home loans should not be a lot of pressure.
Finally concluded that the man graduated from college at the age of 23, save food and simple use + very hard, at the age of 33 (this age is acceptable for a man) before you can take a middle conditions of Wenzhou wife, if the family conditions can be, you can consider early marriage. So brothers don't need to rush, work hard and work hard.