Which are the main reasons that make nowadays mothers-in-law are not willing to bring up children?

Nowadays, young people are generally more stressful, especially women's pressure is a little more, to face the balance of career and family, after having a baby, usually baby and career can not be both, however, if there are old people to help with the baby, then the problem will be solved.

Nowadays, when you take a baby downstairs and go out for a walk, almost all of them are grandmothers and grandmothers, and there are some baby moms who take a baby by themselves, but they are very few.

While helping young people with children is convenient for young people, but the elderly have sacrificed their own time, and now there are more and more elderly people said they are not willing to help with the baby, mainly for these three reasons, and I hope that young people can understand.

How tiring it is to bring a baby for a day, definitely more tiring than going to work. If you don't have a baby alone, you'll never know how exhausting it is to bring up a baby.

Previously, because I have been working, at home, so it is my mother-in-law and my mother to take turns to help me with the baby, and then there is a period of time to take care of their own baby, only to find that it is really very tired, but also to look at the child, but also to do their own cooking, we belong to the young people, the physical strength can be, and basically can be recovered from the evening rest, however, the elderly is not the same.

Downstairs, Grandma Gogo has hypoglycemia, low blood pressure, and malnutrition, and she can't rest at night, and sometimes she doesn't have the energy to take the kids downstairs during the day.

Many old people do not want to take the baby is the reason, physical strength, if you can barely take the baby, physical problems, the future is still the young people suffered, money and effort, but also on the bad shift.

Many daughters-in-law complained that their mothers-in-law with children in the wrong way, always feel that their mothers-in-law with children can not, in fact, this is the concept of parenting does not fit.

Like our young people like to read books, look at the network of some of the knowledge of parenting, tend to scientific parenting, take diapers, now there are still many old people do not like to give the child with diapers, said diapers are not breathable enough, but the invention of diapers really save a lot of effort ah, at least do not have to wash the diapers, the only drawback is that it's a little expensive.

The daughter-in-law wants her mother-in-law to be on the same page with her parenting ideas, while the mother-in-law will feel that her daughter-in-law is ungrateful for her efforts.

Just like a baby mama said, if you let your mother-in-law to take care of the baby, then talk less, accept the mother-in-law's way of taking care of the baby, go out and work well yourself, if you can't bear it, then don't let your mother-in-law take care of the baby, there will definitely be conflicts.

Yes, the mother-in-law lived a lifetime, habit cognition is difficult to change, and the mother-in-law belongs to the previous generation, unlike us, we grew up in the age of information technology, the future even to the daughter-in-law with the baby, may conceptualization of the generation gap is also less.

So, if the daughter-in-law is always picking and choosing, it is no wonder that the mother-in-law is not willing to come over to take the baby.

The other day with the students chat, we complained to each other, said that after the birth of the baby seems to have no life of their own, go to work to make money for the baby, as if to do everything can not be separated from the baby.

The worst thing is that some couples have little affection for each other, and are struggling to make ends meet for their children, which is why the end of the college entrance exams is often followed by a wave of divorces.

All your life you've been living for your kids and for your family, and in your old age you want to live for yourself and want a bit of time for yourself.

Like old Japanese women, it's often when the kids grow up that they start to have a life of their own, and those old ladies will form groups for all kinds of trips.

So some old people also want to have a bit of their own life in their old age, to live for themselves.