My parents have bad feelings. From my childhood to adolescence, it is almost 18 years.
Other people's families are always happy, but in our family, as long as I can remember, pots and pans have been smashed loudly all year round, and neighbors come to our house from time to time to pander.
My father is so beautiful that many people can't help looking at him again after seeing him for the first time.
However, he has a skin and a selfish personality. He often goes out to drink, loses his temper as soon as he gets home, and even beats my mother, who is often black and blue.
No one would have thought that this good-looking man would do cruel things to his first wife.
I asked her: since you don't love this man, why don't you divorce him?
Mother said nothing, her eyes were melancholy and helpless.
It was not until I went out to study that I gradually understood my mother's bitterness. Maybe she was afraid that it would be too difficult for her to take me alone.
Thinking of this, I feel particularly sorry for her, and I secretly swear that I must take my mother away from that wrong place in the future.
After graduating from college, I said to my mother: Mom, you don't have to think about me now. Leave if you want. I can support you without him.
I encouraged her to have the courage to end a bad marriage, otherwise the rest of her life would be even more painful. She would have to put up with that man's philandering every day, but she stayed at home in Lacrimosa every day.
After two days of calm thinking, my mother finally made up her mind to file for divorce.
But my father disagreed and felt that my support betrayed him. As his daughter, how could he do such a thing
He refused to divorce and ran away from home in an attempt to hinder divorce in this way.
Finally, after a long separation, the mother divorced through the court and could not contact him.
Every scum man wants to enjoy the warmth of his lover outside and the care of his wife at home, and my love rat couple is no exception.
Later, karma came quickly, because he often had sex with others and his body was infected with something.
Suddenly, all the lovers left him, and no one looked at him again, even though he was good-looking.
After my mother's divorce, I took her to another city, just as our mother and daughter started a new life.
I rented a house near my work place. We live together and cook together every day. My mother ushered in the second spring in her life. She made some new friends. When she is not busy, several young ladies will go to the square dance together and occasionally travel in groups.
There was a smile on her face at last, and she was no longer bound by the past. Her sisters often tell her, "man, look forward and don't live in the past."
She never thought that she could live so easily and happily after divorce, and she could seriously live for herself.
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As for love rat's father, I didn't contact him. Even, he told all his relatives there that he was not allowed to tell me any news about him. Even his brother and sister-in-law called me unfilial everywhere in the town, saying that my father was scolded by me and that I hurt his heart because of ugliness.
I was shocked when these rumors reached my ears. How can he turn right from wrong?
He also said that he would forgive me only if I admitted my mistake and apologized to him.
I never wanted to reconcile with him, and there was no need to reconcile. I will never forgive him for what he did to my mother.
I'm getting married this year. It's hard to remember that I have a father, but no one took me to the groom.
However, I think there is nothing wrong with supporting my mother's divorce. He will never know why he and his mother have come to this. Just because I support their divorce?
As a matter of fact, as long as her mother is independent, she will file for divorce one day when she knows that she can still live independently after leaving love rat.
She didn't have the courage to divorce before, probably because she was worried about my existence. She is a very traditional person at heart and thinks that "home" should belong to the whole family.
Until I told her: home is not called "home" when people are together, but it is called "home" when family members are together and love each other. If family members don't love each other, it's not called "home" This is just a cold house.
Fortunately, after leaving my father in love rat for a few years, my mother became younger and younger, and her skin color was good. Even my grandmother said that my mother was much happier after her divorce.
As for whether my mother will remarry in the future, she said: It doesn't matter. I feel happy at the thought of being single in my life.
If a woman spends her life on an unworthy man, she may not get the happiness of marriage all her life, but she will get all kinds of diseases and hold her breath. How can she rest well?
What a happy marriage needs is love, not vigorous love, but love in many forms, such as care and love, which is sincerity in details.
A good man is a happy harbor for women. A good man can shelter a woman from the wind and rain, and give her spiritual pleasure and happiness in life.
From a woman's point of view, both a strong woman in her career and a little woman at home in her life have expectations for marriage and a deep desire for love.
Careful screening of men before marriage and paying attention to men are equivalent to buying an insurance for your marriage.
Love in marriage is simple. Just a simple hug, a thoughtful greeting and an encouraging look may make you feel loved.
If a man can't even do these things, let him live a single life.
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