If you're just free, you can read a book, write a book, or go out to a party after your kids go to school.
But when surrounded by all the idle people that's really a bit scary, the number of us drinking tea and chatting from the beginning of the four or five people to a dozen people, said tea and chatting in fact, a bit like a comparison will be. You envy my brand-name bag, I'm jealous of your clothes than I still eye-catching, she red her jewelry, everyone is in a secret fight, jealousy.
A long time ago, I read an article "more than ten people get together as little as possible to participate in", some points remember, for example, you often eat dinner do not know who invited, but also do not remember to eat a meal for several hours to talk about what, the most important point of the people of the meal is particularly time-consuming.
Now I think this article is simply too right. More than a dozen people, in addition to the weekend, each person took turns to invite once almost the same as the working class, that time I went out every morning at 8:30 to go to the park for a walk, 9:30 to go to the place where the tea, said tea in fact, is to eat, breakfast and Chinese food together to solve the problem, until the end of the one o'clock. Sometimes by the way and then shopping, buy some food almost five o'clock before returning home. The daily time in and out of the very regular, I can guarantee that the security guards in our neighborhood absolutely thought I was going to work.
The most important point is that I have to do breakfast every morning to Mr. eat, seven o'clock to get up if you wait until ten o'clock and then eat will be hungry, so I am with Mr. eat enough to go to the tea, ten o'clock at all can not eat on the non-stop tea, to three or four o'clock in the afternoon on the legs of the hungry must eat, the consequences of this is that the dinner and can not eat, and the middle of the night and will be hungry again.
The irregularity of the diet is a big taboo for me, and it is a direct threat to my health.
In order to these 'entertainment', I am often busy until the clothes at night before I have time to wash, the quilt is not folded, flowers and plants to take care of is not as good as before, Mr. mouth did not say anything, but I can see that he is more or less a little bit unhappy. The most important thing is that there is almost no time to read, not to mention writing, often sitting in front of the computer on the word, a blank mind.
Almost half a year later, I decided not to be so muddle-headed idle, resolutely out of this 'idle crowd', out of only one feeling, people go tea cold, who are not important, their lives as usual.
I re-programmed my own free time, fixed time to read, write, take care of my flowers and plants, once a week and a few special good friends get together, shopping, very enjoy this slow time.
Many office workers are also afraid of the kind of work that is too idle, when a bunch of people do not have anything serious to do, it is most likely to appear to hook up with each other, make trouble out of nothing, and gang up on each other. Invisible to ordinary coworker relations become complicated, the original easy environment will gradually bad, long-term in such an environment will have a feeling of suffocation.
There is also a very strange phenomenon, the more work is boring, nothing to do, even if it is blowing the air-conditioning to answer the phone, copy some information, do form, the more such people like to call tired. When you get home from work, your shoes are flung on the sofa and you moan and groan, exhausted, brush the circle of friends, shop Taobao, play the self-timer to show the map, not an hour is not able to regain vitality.
And those who are really physical laborers, after work flew to the market, to the home where there is a sofa to lie down, immediately cooking and laundry dry chores, even the time to complain, not to mention playing the phone, there is time to prefer to sleep a little more, and that is the happiest moment.
As we all know, a company with perfect strength in all aspects, the opportunity to raise idlers will be a lot less, even if you wear a bikini to work, there will be no one has the leisure to discuss. Everyone is racking their brains to figure out how to charge performance, how to make themselves better and seize the opportunity to rise.
Too idle is a kind of disease, around those who prefer to walk a few more steps of the body will be much better, walking with the wind.
Today's leisure, today's laziness are in advance of the future. The young people do not believe that you brush the daily WeChat, microblogging, Taobao, soap operas fragmented idle time added together, calculate how much waste of the future.
Other people in the full use of free time, and you are a cold bird always give themselves excuses. One day you will find others in the choice, and you do not even have the opportunity, because your yesterday, today, and even tomorrow is a kind.
A person who knows how to utilize his free time to improve himself will surely be treated well by God, at least the chances will be more.
When my friend's daughter went to college, people around her felt very free, but she always felt that she didn't have enough time to learn too many things, and even talked to her mom on the phone in a hurry. When she first entered the school, she was not the best, relying on their own efforts from the second semester of college to the third has been to maintain the first place in the school, in September this year, went to Canada, not long ago, but also independently applied for a national scholarship, through her mother also sent us a red packet.
Let yourself live a little, have the time to learn more, if one day meets the unexpected situation will not panic, do not worry about finding a job.
Do not say again wait for next month to start running, wait for vacation to read well, wait for the weekend to exercise .... The biggest fear is that it will always be these words, because there will always be a million next months, fixed vacations, fixed weekends. From this moment to take action, the weekend bedtime use up to make yourself a hearty and nutritious breakfast, about three or five friends to go to the sports movement to inhale oxygen, the time to watch soap operas replaced by going to the library.
When you are busy and full, you will be happy from the bottom of your heart, and unconsciously you will become self-disciplined, and self-discipline is a very good habit, this habit will be the bottom of your future more free.
If your mom is always chattering about you, so skinny eat more, room to organize a clean point, quickly find a partner, get married and have children ...... It is because she is too idle, like me to teach her to surf the Internet, find some of her favorite TV series for her to spend idle time light. My mom likes to fight the landlord, I teach her to play online, encourage her to go to the square dance, so that she learns the beauty of the show, my mom in my teaching, now all day busy, no longer so much energy in my body, and more will not see me on the Internet nagging.
If you're already middle-aged, don't become sensitive because you've got a lot of time on your hands and you're suspicious of your significant other, and believe that he's not that charismatic, so don't make a big deal out of this. Don't put all your energy into your children, don't always look at your children here and there, don't do the right thing. Good to enrich their own lives, do not give their own laziness to find excuses, live to learn, any time to start is not too late, the big thing is to go a few steps, more to pay. The body teaching is not as good as words, when the child sees you happy and full, although not immediately visible, but there will be a subtle effect.
If you are studying or entering the workplace of young people, there is no reason to let yourself be too idle, maybe one day you have to pay the price for today's laziness and idleness, planted, when an opportunity in front of your eyes, you do not even have and other people compete with the bottom of the air, temporary clasp has been too late.
It's not good to be too idle, have time to enrich your own life and improve yourself, you will find that life will be more and more beautiful, and you will slowly become your favorite look.