The differences will be very big, such as in personality, preferences, speech, and difference matters right or wrong, and most importantly, happiness, all of these will be very different.
First, the mother with the baby: the mother with the baby, she is to educate the child, she will give the child love, but not spoiling, she will tell the child what is right and what is wrong, to tell the child what can be done, what can not be done, from childhood, will educate the baby to be sensible, to understand the manners, to be hygienic.
And the babies brought up by their mothers will have stronger social skills, because their mothers will teach them at a very young age to share things, not to rob others, not to hit others, so the babies will be much stronger than the ones brought up by their grandmothers or grandmothers in terms of socialization.
And the children of the mother, generally will be more understanding, smart, most of them are other people in the mouth of the good boy, but also very opinionated, because the mother's education is, encounter things, will discuss with the child, rather than to order the child, the child's most of the things will let the child to do their own masters, and is willing to listen to the child's opinion, the right will be adopted, and the wrong will tell him where the wrong, with is the child learns to think, and the child will be able to do the best thing, and the child will be able to do the best thing. The child will learn to think, and therefore will be more intelligent and understand some. And the baby will be very happy.
Then say grandmother with: grandmother or grandma with children, they are concerned about not so much, they are generally only responsible for the child to eat and wear good, but did not even think to teach the word, and the child is basically by them completely free-range, but their free-range is completely unable to find the child's problems, so the child may be raised to like to hit, like to grab things, like to swear, do not know what is polite, do not know what to do, and do not know what to do, and do not know what to do. know what is polite, do not know what is sensible, the baby only learned, want something, to snatch it.
Sometimes old people are so spoiled that they can't find faults in their children, such as hitting, and they may praise their children for being good.
Children educated by grandmothers are either very weak or very roguish and like to splash around.
So Xiao Ke does not recommend giving your child to grandma or grandma to bring up.