When we do things, if we always focus on the results, we will inevitably get angry, feel uneasy and then be anxious.
On the other hand, as long as you try your best, you don't have to worry about this problem anymore.
As the saying goes, do what you can and leave it to fate. As long as we do our best in everything, we don't have to be too anxious about the result.
0 1 Do a good job and do your best.
Su Dongpo's work philosophy is worth learning, that is, to enter the WTO with the attitude of being born.
Su Shi went to Xuzhou as a magistrate, and just went there for a month and was flooded by the Yellow River. The flood surged like a bird of prey, and surrounded Xuzhou city completely, only relying on a wall to keep it out.
If the city collapses, everyone in the city will suffer. Therefore, people are in panic and are preparing to flee.
Su Dongpo sent someone to build a hut on the wall. He didn't go home and lived in that hut.
He said to people, "I'm not afraid. What are you afraid of? " Seeing that parents are so fearless, the people naturally settle down.
With a certain popularity, Su Dongpo led the public to repair the dam. He wants to build a dam in the city to support the wall from the inside. After a month of repair, the flood still exists and people are exhausted.
Su Dongpo ran to the city to ask the imperial army for help. The imperial army only listened to the emperor's orders, and local officials had no right to mobilize.
But when the imperial envoy saw Su Dongpo covered in mud and scrawny, his eyes suddenly got wet. Thought, civilian still so, as a military attache can sit still.
So he immediately ordered the imperial army to follow Su Shi to build the dam. After the dam was repaired, people's lives and property were saved. After more than 80 days, the flood finally receded.
When the flood receded, Su Dongpo could have ignored it, because there could not be a second flood during his term of office, but he still overhauled the water conservancy. He does not pursue the interests of his term of office, but only wants to do more practical things for the people.
Many officials gave up on themselves when they were demoted, but Su Dongpo didn't. No matter what unfair treatment he encountered, he always adhered to one principle: to join the WTO with the attitude of being born.
He has a famous saying-"I'm glad to win, and I'm glad to lose." It means that it is gratifying that things have been done; I am not uneasy about failure.
This detached attitude is exactly: do your best in everything and then let nature take its course.
Be yourself and do your best.
Yu once said:
"Going to college has always been my yearning, and my fear of staying in the countryside for a lifetime is extremely strong."
So he took the college entrance examination three times until he was admitted to Peking University for the last time.
Yu, the only rural child in her class, grew up in a remote rural area. This makes him seem out of place in the class, not to mention his literary and sports talents. He can't even speak Mandarin, and his English scores are the bottom of the class in both speaking and listening.
Once in swimming class, he thought that he had been swimming by the river since he was a child, and finally he could have a place to play. But after swimming around, the teacher casually said, "I've never seen a dog row so fast."
From that day on, he knew that the world was unfair. Even if admitted to Peking University, it is still far from others.
So he must work hard and study hard to make others "respect". Unfortunately, due to fatigue, he suddenly vomited blood and contracted tuberculosis, so he stayed in the hospital for a whole year.
In the hospital bed, he finally realized that it was meaningless to compare with others. Progress is your own business and has nothing to do with others.
That year, he read nearly 300 books, and fortunately found a method suitable for himself, and completed a large number of English vocabulary accumulation. From then on, he no longer paid attention to the level of others, but focused on his own steps.
In this world, it is doomed to be unfair from the moment of birth. You finally followed the footsteps of others, but you didn't know that the starting line of others had surpassed you from the beginning.
But you have to understand that no matter how high others start and how fast they walk, others' roads are only others' roads, and only the road under your feet is your own.
You know everyone is unique. You don't need to compare and copy deliberately, just try your best to be yourself.
Develop your strengths and do your best.
People are always eager for success, fame and fortune. As everyone knows, the greater the hope, the greater the gap in my heart after failure.
Why not do your best? Although you didn't succeed, as long as you try your best, that's enough!
Zhu Deyong, a Taiwanese cartoonist, is a famous cartoonist in He Fei, who is the author of Two Ears Gun and Bitter Girl. But when he was young, he was not a good student in the eyes of teachers. On the contrary, his academic performance was particularly poor, and the adults lost confidence in him.
When he was depressed, he realized that everyone had his own talent. Tigers have sharp claws and rabbits have flexible legs and feet, but most people want to be tigers. But many of us can only be rabbits, so why not be a good rabbit?
Although my academic performance is not good, I am particularly sensitive to graphics. He carefully observed all kinds of people in his life and drew their faces. After the comic book was published in series, he was greatly encouraged and became a famous cartoonist in China and even Asia.
Zhu Deyong's success is not accidental. Because he is not demanding of himself, he can tap his strengths and work hard every day.
He is not greedy for fame and fortune, but tries his best to do everything well, because he knows that it is good to do everything well.
So do we ordinary people. We patiently find our own strengths and areas of expertise, take every step with heart, and slowly dig deeper. I believe that time will bring us surprises.
But for the achievements of others, I messed up my own heart and conditions.
The road of life is full of variables. As long as we try our best to be ourselves and do what we can, we will leave the rest to time.
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