I said young people are vulnerable, you must have laughed.
The Bank of China, the pointer to wealth. Shouting weak is playing dumb or cute? Neither. If the social and financial needs of the provisions of the deposit high yield, but also want to loan low interest rates, as let the horse run and not let the horse eat grass, not to mention the bank, the horse feel suffocated.
Young people, the symbol of youth. Some people envy your face, some people are jealous of your vigor. The young people are strong and vigorous, and they can point to the mountains, and they can say that these are the young people's life "force", and they have nothing to do with the weak or not weak "potential".
The young man accidentally knocked down an old man, was blackmailed half a house. This is a bumper sticker - a fait accompli that teaches young people that there's no way to argue with the moral imperative. Similarly, an old man in his eighties threw coins into an airplane engine to pray for blessings, and the penalty was not enforced because of his age. Why? The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to see it.
Another example. You submit a perfect plan, the boss did not even look directly crushed in the trash, looking to give the new recruits under the influence. You are aggrieved, you are not convinced, and all the "tiger down by the dog" sense of vision, but is the talent and intelligence lost to the status of the situation.
So, "potential" is an invisible force, in the process of accumulation and precipitation continue to accumulate.
What is potential? A small round stone hovering at a height of 10,000 feet is the potential. Everyone is scared, do not know when the drop, do not know who hit the head. The factor that makes people anxious is not the size of the stone, but its location and the difficult to guess the trend.
If a huge stone lying quietly on the ground, you will not be afraid of the end of the day? Obviously, women and children would not.
China for people to do things, talk about potential. Make a decision to look at the situation trend, make a judgment to look at the situation situation; planting flowers and trees to look at the trend, to understand others to look at the gesture, posture. The way you look at it, the way you look at it, the way you act, the way you pretend to be a tiger, all of them contain potentials.
Most people can easily confuse "potential" with "force", and even scoff at the word "force". For example, the rich generation hates to grow up with a golden spoon, and thinks that they are sitting on their own. The second generation of rich people have easier access to capital than the average person, but the preservation of wealth, status maintenance is not easier than the average person. Whether it is the advancement of status, or class interests remain relatively static, all need to accumulate momentum.
Only the wealth that can be inherited and managed is called wealth, and the wealth that can be eaten is called "wealth". In other words, just for the squandering of property at best called purchasing power, in addition to shopping guide Miss nodding cat waist, no one will look high; rich and have for, for rich and benevolent, in order to purchase power into the status of the value, and even related to the metaphysical things such as the financial potential of the fortune.
Young people's vulnerability is a relative concept. It is a relative concept. It is the beginning of the end of the seniority hierarchy, and it is inevitable that people are not as powerful as they should be.
The young relative to the old, means that the generation on the weak. Some time ago, the Square Dance Dame beat up young people, some people say it is the bad guys get old, guiding young people to respect "respectable people", calling for a solution to the root cause of the lack of supply of public **** site.
This solution is just to ease the contradiction. The first time I've seen this, I've seen it, and I've seen it, and I've seen it, and I've seen it. Respect the good old man, the bad old man will not grab the field?
Playing the beginning, the conflict between the two sides fell into a state of incompatibility: the young people against the elderly, if the fight won the defeat of the moral character; if the fight does not win the loss of the basketball court. The old man's children and even grandchildren are only the same generation as the basketball youth, which is why the dispute has been lost before it even started. The young man tried to salvage the tide through public opinion, but in turn was well entertained by public opinion to consume a hand.
Why not let the children and grandchildren of the elderly to come forward to talk to the young people? Why do these people have to cower behind the conflict, either by looking on with a cold shoulder or by helping their relatives?
Again, let's talk about the workplace. Young people are vulnerable in terms of workplace qualifications relative to leaders, industry elites, and career seniors. My college roommate Xiaotao came out of the ivory tower of the university with excellent grades, and felt that the workplace can also turn the tide. On the first day of his employment, after he submitted his work perfectly according to the requirements, his supervisor blew his hair out and became furious - there was no lack of intentional embarrassment. Xiaotao humbly asked the reason, provoked the boss a "you experience". The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company is committed to providing the best possible service to its customers.
This is the case, the boss will do justice to the criticism of Xiaotao's superiors difficult not right, or bitterly persuade Xiaotao to apologize to his superiors bowed head? The latter is undoubtedly the case. The boss weighs not right and wrong, but authority and influence. The bosses are not weighing the right and wrong, but the authority and influence.
Xiaotao cares about right and wrong, the boss wants to be authority and influence. The different paths are not the same as with the strategy, the different potential for good self-scheming.
I'm not sure who first said this, but perhaps it was the young people who realized it the most.
China is a humane society, falling into the complicated and intertwined network of relationships is the fate of social people can not avoid. As the saying goes, "when people are familiar, the plane has to brake a foot", "law is no more than human feelings" and so on, are about the role of human feelings in mediating interpersonal relationships. Society is progressing, and the rule of law is committed to keeping the role of favors within reasonable limits, not only to do justice to the disadvantaged, but also to ensure fairness for all. However, the young people who occupy a small amount of human resources are undoubtedly in the most peripheral, undoubtedly is the "weak" group.
The so-called "favorites" include the human condition and the common sense of the people. The "king, minister, father, son" is the ancient common sense, emphasizing that each social role to have their own look, the minister is loyal to the king, the child is loyal to the father, not disobedient, not the following offenders. As a young man, whether the old man blackmailed you, or your boss bullied you, you are labeled as vulnerable, this label is not the mark of any individual, but the attributes of the role to be played.
Young people need to know how to show weakness. Showing weakness is in the case of insufficient momentum, the situation, the trend of wise judgment, in order to retreat for the way to save the sharp.
I don't like the chicken soup article, some always advise young people to hold back. It's like stabbing you in the back, and then saying, "It's not that big of a deal, just bear with it. The fault is not always in the young people, the young people more to take is *** knowledge, but does not mean that for all the brutal and unreasonable to swallow the anger.
Some always encourage young people to go against the tide, as if not all the family, miserable, do not deserve to succeed. I'm not denying the role of trials and tribulations, but I'm just emphasizing that in most cases, resistance can be turned into motivation, but it's not as easy as you might think to go against the tide and turn it into a positive trend.
Encouraging young people to take advantage of the pressure and resistance to grow against the odds is not wrong, but guiding young people to go against the odds is an over-packaging of the science of success.
The story of the bamboo is well known. It is said that the bamboo grows slowly in the first four years, and in the fifth year it starts to grow like crazy, and it can be as tall as the sky. Perhaps the storyteller was so intent on achieving the effect of the "lying down and tasting the guts" that he overlooked the fact that in the first four years the bamboo extends its buried roots as far as a hundred miles.
Although the young bamboo does not reach the desired height for a while, it quietly expands the breadth and thickness of life.
There are countless young people like you and me are experiencing unfair treatment, others say these are the price of youth. I think this is the time of the entrusted, young and no sin and no error, do not have to let anyone for it to pay the bill. All you have to do is to believe in the years, precipitation or not, momentum or not, the years have not been able to give you will be in another form of compensation.
In the "vulnerable" years, may you see the width and thickness of life, in the possession of a high degree of time do not rely on the talent of the open, do not bully the weak, and always keep a humble growth.
Young people are vulnerable, funny? When across the years gifted thousands of mountains, standing on the top of the mountain and then look back, may be silent, may be indifferent, may be a laugh.