May be derailed over time.
The men who don't cheat are roughly divided into three categories.
The first category is no guts. The timid man , commonly known as colorful heart without courage.
The second category is no opportunity. In addition to their own wives, there may be no one else to look at, or by the environmental restrictions, want to go out of the wall also have to be outside the wall is not?
These two categories are forced, not worth mentioning.
The third category, is like Liu De Hua this kind of inner rejection of cheating men.
This type of man, there are two important qualities:
1, Marriage view: From the heart to agree with the concept of marriage, that married is a lifetime of things, to the shame of the three, to be loyal and dedicated to honor. Once you get a license and get married, you should abide by the original promise, be responsible for your family and wife in the end, and believe that family happiness is the proper pursuit of a man's life.
2, Strong self-control: beauty in the front, and returned to the immovable, restrain themselves, restrain desire, do not make their own regret let the family collapse behavior, not out of line, not over the line.
So, a man does not derail may have three types of reasons, but a man in the face of temptation can still not derail, the key in his possession of the correct view of marriage and super self-control.
There are a few suggestions:
1, at the outset, clear their own bottom line, and frankly your zero-tolerance attitude towards cheating.
People do any one thing will weigh the pros and cons, generally he will default to derail the day as usual, not as good as now cool to say.
If you start to show the bottom line, he will be in the critical moment more layer of rational thinking, consider the serious consequences of the behavior, it is likely that the prodigal son will return.
2, instead of trying to find ways to keep a man, it is better to improve yourself.
The key to a long-lasting relationship is to **** with the growth and always stand on the same level.
Wilde said: Love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Women should be more so, love their own appearance, but also to enrich their own knowledge.
Many women with one foot across the threshold of marriage, the other foot will be at the same time across into the middle age - from now on do not skin care do not dress up, dressed like a square dance mom, can not afford to buy a few pieces of beautiful clothes, hairstyle casually do not take care of the husband and children around the stove, and never do to improve their own ability and cultivation of the thing. A long time, the man's freshness, outside those young and beautiful, dressed in flowers and tricks of the woman has become different, the marriage is in crisis.