Middle-aged and elderly women, if there is no financial pressure, it is best not to remarry.
Middle-aged and elderly women who remarry when they are able to take care of themselves and have no financial pressure are mostly asking for trouble and will make themselves unhappy for the rest of their lives.
Even the strongest love will fall flat one day. Young couples will age and have ****ing same children in between. Love will turn into affection. Two people who don't have ****ing same kids will end up unhappy when they combine halfway through their lives, mostly taking care of their own kids.
There is a female neighbor in a building. She was 58 years old. The man died two years ago. Her retirement paycheck is only about 2000. Luckily, there are two houses for rent to subsidize expenses. After her husband died, she met a man of similar age. She's not married, but only two are partners. The man was very realistic. Spending time with her basically cost money. She also helped the man with laundry and cooking. The two were still close at first. Now it's been a long time since I've seen the man. Anyway, they didn't get a marriage license and broke up if they didn't agree, there was no financial dispute or complicated separation procedures. I think middle-aged and older women have no financial pressure. If both men and women have children, it is best not to get married. If you are afraid of loneliness, find a like-minded partner, never get married. Take care of each other in life and when you are sick, and keep each other company when you are lonely. If one day, one partner doesn't want to live anymore, it's good to get together.The advantage of not getting married is that there are no property disputes and no psychological pressure. If you get along, you get over it, if you don't, you break up. As the title suggests, this lady has been divorced for over 20 years and now her daughter is married. It is understandable that she wants to pursue her own life. The prerequisite for marriage is that the other party is single and has no children. In this case, the man has no selfishness and is in much less trouble. This 57-year-old woman has been divorced for more than 20 years. It is not easy to live alone with her daughter for more than 20 years. Now that her daughter is married, it is understandable that she wants to pursue her own life with the right person.
When a woman remarries and the other person is a single, childless man, there is a greater likelihood of happiness after marriage. There used to be a woman in our village who became a widow at the age of 40 and married a single man from Anhui to Jiangsu. The man was never married and had no children. He was really good to his wife. When there was work in the fields before the demolition, he got up in the middle of the night to pull up seedlings, and he was so distressed that he let his wife sleep. Now the monthly pension of 2000 plus the monthly salary of 4000 goes to his wife. His request is simple. His wife can prepare a little meal and two or three glasses of wine for him every day.
This aunty's ex-husband used to beat and scold her and this man had a crush on her. By now, they have been together for nearly 20 years, and villagers say she is very lucky. Middle-aged and elderly women have fewer physical needs, are capable of self-care and have no financial pressure. For them, living freely is also a good choice. Middle-aged and elderly women are capable of taking care of themselves and have no financial pressure, so they can lead a full and exciting life on their own.
Living alone, you can organize your day. In the morning when the air is good, you can exercise for a while, come back and take care of the housework, read a book and watch the news. In the afternoon after a nap, you can ask your companion to go out for a chat and a stroll in the park. After dinner you can square dance, sweat, take a hot bath and sleep all morning. Or you can take care of your grandchildren, enjoy the happiness of your family, and help your children with the little things you can do. Once or twice a year, pull the suitcase, meet your companions, go out for a trip, see the outside scenery, try the food, and feel the local customs. Organize your daily life, and you won't feel lonely.