What are you doing when your kids are doing their homework? Watching TV or playing with your cell phone? In that case, your children will be distracted when doing homework. Even if you minimize the volume, it still has an effect. Children are young and have absolutely no self-control. They are doing their homework, but their parents are playing, watching TV and playing games. Even if you force them to do their homework, his mind is not quiet. And please don't leave your child with grandparents until you have to. Grandparents educate you. Though most of the parents have to work to support their family and don't have much time to take care of their children, they completely give up on teaching their children to their elders. In this way, the child's education will be ruined, because the parents have a completely different way of education, that is, they can not keep up with the times. For example, those lively wave children who can square dance were brought up by their grandfathers and milk sisters. It's not that it's bad to be lively and able to sing and dance, it's that old people are taught differently.
Don't be too strict with your children. If the child puts forward any opinions and requests, do not reject them immediately. If it is reasonable, try to fulfill it. If it is unreasonable or unsatisfactory, calmly tell him that it is not enough for the time being. When the opportunity is ripe, give it to him. This can avoid the child's fear and shyness to express his opinions and views because of harsh reprimands, and develop a good face and bad character. In my spare time, I will play chess and small games with my children to let them know that they have no regrets if they lose in chess. The fun of the game is not in winning or losing, but in the process of playing against each other. Tell him that you should be responsible for what you do. If you lose a game, it's because your skills are not good right now. You should continue to study and practice. Only when your skills mature can you win. Victory is not easy to come by. You can't win without learning and practicing. Of course, parents also have to deliberately lose two occasionally in order to let the child feel the joy of victory, which is also important to encourage the child.
Arrange some time to give your child some pocket money to spend freely. Not too much, mainly so that he knows when he will have pocket money and the amount is limited. Let him learn to manage his own money. Let's say you give him $30 a week and tell him that's his allowance for the week. You can buy whatever you want, but you only give him $30 a week. Spend $1-4 a day on snacks and stationery, or $30 each time on a toy. Also, there is often some change (10 cents, 50 cents) thrown in the corner at home, let him pick it up and then 10 tied together is another dollar, all of which are given to him as his pocket money. Have him organize the drink bottles and used cardboard boxes around the house. Take him to sell them when you have time. All the money belongs to him. The parents must not give it to him. They must give it to them. In this way, let them know how to get pocket money and how hard it is to come by.