These days, too many times brush to Lin Shengbin this person, a lot of evidence was unearthed, do not dare to assert that Lin Shengbin is really for the sake of money to murder his wife and children, but Zhu Xiaozhen's marriage is not as good as when Lin Shengbin showed so beautiful is the obvious fact.
When a woman is immersed in a happy marriage, the man is calculating and planning to get rid of you, that is how painful life experience?
I think of my ex-husband, think of all these years of hard work, think of all these years of hate, think of many, many, suddenly feel some irony. Back then, my love and marriage, from beginning to end, were all calculated one by one, in love, flash marriage, children, divorce, every step, according to his plan, went down steadily.
I think, when he was afraid that there is also a plan to get me killed, the car accident, my son and I almost died on the spot, if not I am strong body thrilled to escape, then I was everything is his. In this way, I am more fortunate than Zhu Xiaozhen, I at least stayed a life back, at least hugged my son back, at least there is still a little money left, able to let me take a breath and bring my son to live.
Do you know how many girls born in the 70's and 80's in rural areas dropped out of school before graduating from junior high school or even elementary school? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to do this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to do this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to do this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to do this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to do this. Remember Huang Hong and Song Dandan's Hainan Island Tulufan on the Spring Festival Gala stage? My parents are the same, I was born not out of the full moon, was thrown to my grandmother, they ran to the northeast to have a son.
Ten years later, my parents came back, penniless but high and mighty, because they gave birth to two sons.
My parents were strangers to me, and my two younger brothers were strangers to me, but I had to live with them. The house was in a state of disrepair, and the family was crammed into my grandmother's house, so I was forced to give up my room to my two brothers and sleep in the same bed as my grandmother.
Not only the room, there are toys, not what Ultraman Barbie dolls, or workbook folded out of the "treasure" and some marbles, really not a toy, but at that time I can have the only fun.
Not only toys, but also food.
Not only food, but also grandma.
I couldn't understand why my grandmother, who had raised me for ten years and was usually quite caring, was so mesmerized by the sight of her two older grandchildren that she completely hung me out to dry.
My indifference angered my mother, who looked at me with a frown, "How can a dead girl be so unintelligent, this is your brother, your own brother!"
What the hell is a brother! I clenched my fists and pushed them to the ground with one hand when no one was there, my brothers cried and complained, and I was held down and beaten by my father, and the ghosts cried out, and I bawled, "Beating up on people Beating up on people!"
Neighbors came to see the scene, and my father awkwardly withdrew his hand.
Since then, my family has been staged twice a day, I beat up people, my brothers complained, I was beaten up, the neighbors came to watch the fun.
The only good thing about this is that I have a thick skin, and I can take a beating.
Barely graduated from junior high school, my father said: "It is difficult for the family to build a house, no money for you to study in high school, and then again, you have a girl piece is not the life of the university, and follow the village girl to go out to work."
No money, no way, I have long wanted to leave this for me is not the home of the home, then pick up the bag, working to go.
Part-time work is simple and complicated. It's simple, but it's just selling your labor and getting paid for it. Complicated, which city do you want to go to? Which factory? Which workshop? Which assembly line? What kind of workers do you meet? What workshop supervisor do you meet? What bosses did you meet? Will the factory close down? Will the boss run away? How much will be deducted from your paycheck? How many people or dozens of people in a dormitory? Do the workers in a dormitory get along with each other? Will there be someone who will save you a few months of wages to a nest? ......
I've cried, I've made a scene, I've argued with people, I've fought.
When I was nineteen years old, some workers wanted to go to South Korea to work, I was ruthless and followed.
At that time, working abroad was very popular.
At that time, it was very popular to work abroad, especially for girls. At that time, when working at home was only a few hundred dollars a month, you could save up 10,000 dollars a year by going abroad, which was an astronomical amount.
I stayed in Korea for eleven years, and when I came back, I was thirty years old.
My return caused a great stir in my family. My mother called me by my nickname for the first time, "Daiya", and no longer called me "Daiya", and my father no longer looked at me with a hostile face. The most amazing thing is my two younger brothers, the eldest brother has been married and had a son, only to see him like a treasure will be his son held in front of me, a look of hate I can't wait to love that swaddling clothes in the little monkey on the face of longing and hope. My second brother took his fiancée's hand, called me big sister in a formal manner, and introduced me to my new brother-in-law with a shy look.
I laughed and thought to myself, "The rich are treated differently," and the bankbook in my arms really made them forget the face they had when they kicked me out of my job.
I didn't give them a penny.
I didn't give them a single penny. Eleven years, my youth, my passion, my so much so much loneliness, all in a foreign country sewing machine in the sound of the muttering of the disappearance, no one has asked me over there water can not be imported, no one has asked me over there meal is not good, no one has asked me over there is not good, no one has asked me over there how to get along with, no one asked me over there days how to boil, and even no one has pushed me to let me go home early.
These people, can't wait for me to stay abroad until I die, it's best to be outside the money back, so that they take my money as a matter of course to marry their wives and children, and I, is not old enough, is not it time to go back to China, is not it time to get married and have children? What is the matter with them?
I brushed a wave of existence at home, and then in their disappointment and annoyance and indignation but dare not say the complex expression, went away. I went to our small county to rent a house, ready to repair for a period of time, and then find someone to get married and live a somewhat normal life.
So I came across my life, my ex-husband, Yu Xiaoqiang. The first time I saw him, he was a very smart boy, and he was only 23 years old, seven years younger than me.
At that time, I thought, I'm not a fool, I have to find a mature and stable man, too much smaller than me is really not suitable, I want to live a normal life.
Later, I thought, I am really a fool. I never said that I want to pursue me, friends pulled to dinner, and I sat with me, but never more words and words show how attentive, he just politely talk to me, at that time, I think, that is just a man to a strange girl's an instinctive care.
Perhaps because of the many years of working life, surrounded by all the women, contact with men too little too little, I never thought that a small me seven years of small men, even so deep heart.
He asked me what Korea looks like, he asked me where I was in Korea, he asked me which line I was in, he asked me to live in the company dormitory, he asked me how often to take a break, he asked me to go out and hang out during the break?
He asked tedious and natural, never give you the feeling of prying into your privacy, but there is a kind of he does not understand, and some confused you a girl in a foreign country is so not easy how to hold on to so many years of sighing.
I was touched by this kind of silent care of the heart of the weak, accepted his invitation, accepted his invitation to eat, accepted his show of goodwill.
Perhaps, at that time, I only knew the sweetness, forgot to look in the mirror to see the vicissitudes of their own face, forgot to ask themselves, are you a beauty? How good are you? Why did he look at you at such a young age?
Soon he took me to see his parents, to be honest, my first impression of his parents is not bad, with my parents that kind of bitter and hateful people are different, although also in the rural areas of farming, his parents days are obviously more relaxed, not that his family's conditions are much better, but they are more open-minded, eating and drinking never to commit themselves.
Soon it was time to talk about marriage. I went to see his family's new house, it is indeed new, even the white cement are not smeared, furniture and so on is nothing, it can be said that the family has four walls.
My parents strongly disagree. I asked why, they are silent, I said that I married, my mother anxious: "He is the figure you get money, that family poor people, just want to not spend money to marry a daughter-in-law." I grunted: "So what, I earn my own money to spend in my own home what is the problem?" My mother scolded, "You white-eyed wolf, for so many years, you didn't give me a penny, raised you for nothing. It is not easy to come back, your little brother is not married, you do not give your brother money, you go to fill the outsiders!"
I know, where they are concerned about whether I will be happy, where they are concerned about whether others are counting on me, they and the so-called others do not have any difference, no, there is still a difference, the difference is that others count on the cover, have to cajole me to hold me, and they want money to be deserved without guilt not to say, but also have to scold me a meal, if it is not now my father's old back and waist. The first thing I want to do is to get rid of all the problems that I've been having.
I have no choice but to go, "not a penny", these years, I send money to my grandmother every month, there is a piece of money spent on grandma?
Perhaps I was too anxious to have a home, I brush the walls with Yu Xiaoqiang, together with the purchase of furniture and appliances, together with a little bit of that small yard will be filled up. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford to pay for this. Heartache, are I from the teeth of a penny to save up, but I save money for what purpose? The first thing I'd like to do is to get a better life, and that's what I'm trying to do," he said.
Our wedding was a grand affair. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good look at my wife's face, and I was able to get a good look at her face, and I was able to get a good look at her face, and I was able to get a good look at her face.
Neighbors look envious, indeed, the year we got married, these appliances are sold dead expensive, the rural areas at that time, which family has one of them, it is enough to be proud.
My mother-in-law bragged about me working abroad and how much money I made, and I wasn't angry, because at that time, it was a fact that girls who worked abroad made a lot of money. I was actually happy, or at least pleased, and I thought to myself, "I can finally live my life with my head held high.
I got pregnant very quickly, ate well and was in a good mood, and I had a very comfortable pregnancy. Once in labor, I gave birth to a big fat boy.
Yu Xiaoqiang was very happy, hugged his son and said, "The original child this way, I even became a father." Yu Xiaoqiang was very emotional, touched my hair and said: "These days, I like in a dream, originally felt that the family is poor, afraid that even a daughter-in-law can not afford to marry, who knows, not only married, but also married a big boss, furniture and home appliances in the whole village is the best, there is no not envy me!" Yu Xiaoqiang was very excited, holding my hand and said: "I thought I was still a child, but now I even have a son, I think about it, can not be so mixed up, or we do some business it?"
At that time, Yu Xiaoqiang in the county a fleet of cars, he took me to their fleet to see, he said he would like to have a fleet of their own in the future, I look at his apprehensive face, and then look at his son in his arms, sighed, took out the passbook.
Yu Xiaoqiang busy, bought a big car, six months later, bought another one, my passbook, only two million left.
The child's first birthday, he has not been home for five or six days. The day before the child's birthday, my father-in-law came home and said to me: "Xiao Qiang asked you to go to his fleet there tomorrow, a few days did not come back, almost forget the child's birthday, he is really too busy, you go, in the fleet over there to celebrate the celebration."
I held the child, sitting in the back bucket of my father-in-law's tractor, rushed to the county seat.
I forgot what I was thinking when I sat on the tractor, probably busy coaxing the child. I only remember that the moment I looked up, a big car dipped over, and I saw it hit my father-in-law's tractor.
I don't know where I got the strength to do it, but I held my child and crossed the fence to roll off the tractor and into the ditch.
That time, fell all over the body pain, but I do not care, climbed out of the water, was anxious to see the son's situation. The mother and son were too shocked, I held my son shivering, I only remember my father-in-law ran to see me what the situation, as if there is a person over to help me to the side of the road.
Later, Yu Xiaoqiang said, driving a big car that person is his buddy, the original a fleet on the driving distraction before hitting us, said he was also scared, we do not care about it.
I slowed down a lot of days, the more I think the more I feel wrong, I clearly remember, look up the moment, the car straight to the tractor rear bucket hit, as if I rolled out of the moment, I saw that the car stopped steadily, he is not supposed to be panicked? How do you feel he hit that, as if he had calculated the same?
The seeds of doubt planted in the bottom of the heart, I slowly found, in-laws look at my eyes are very strange, slowly found, Yu Xiaoqiang only asked me to ask for money when the deep love, do not need money when he excused in the fleet of busy not to go home.
I feel scared, this home, only I and the child, if there is any bad guy, I have to fight back?
I said to Yu Xiaoqiang, back to the capital you give me the money, no money in the hand I do not feel at ease. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it. My are all yours, your are all mine, we are husband and wife." I looked up at him and he smiled, "What's wrong with you? I am fighting for you and the child, I am a little busy, but don't worry, in the future I will let you and the child live a good life."
Regret ah, regret to put themselves in such a passive situation. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Sure enough, Yu Xiaoqiang changed his face, and when he asked for money again, I didn't give it to him, so he did it, slapped me, and pointed at me fiercely: "If you don't listen, I'll kill you!"
I hugged my son and ran away. I rented a room, went home to my father and two brothers: "I want a divorce, that home those furniture and appliances are all I bought, you want to go get back!"
So my father took my two brothers to go over there and make a lot of noise, and pulled the furniture and appliances back.
I also told them that I bought both cars for his fleet, so whoever gets them will get them.
Then I left, holding my son with only 20,000 dollars in his hand, went to court to sue for divorce, and lived the days of a single mother.
Eighty-nine thousand dollars, I saved so many years of frugality, were cheated by the wolf.
The divorce was very quick, and I was worried that he would fight me for custody of my son, but he said that as long as he didn't ask my brother to go to him again, he wouldn't want his son.
[if !supportLists]One day,[endif]two days, one year, two years, ten years, twenty years, simmering, simmering, and now I'm almost fifty, my son went to college, I finally feel like simmering out.
I heard that the size of his fleet is getting bigger and bigger, but also set up a transportation company, I heard that he remarried and gave birth to two sons and a daughter, I heard that he also went back to his hometown to repair the road and pave the bridge, I heard that he was ready to run for the branch secretary of the village.
At the beginning of those years, I would not be able to sleep all night, sometimes, hate to take the knife to stab the family vampire and the man-eating wolf, and then feel that it is still the most important to live, or make money is the most affordable.
In the past few years, I was no longer eaten by the anger and humiliation night after night, especially after my son went to college, all relaxed, I was busy in my snack bar during the day, dancing at night, and returning to the small house I bought, sleeping quietly, and feeling unusually at ease.
The past dust, can not let go, hard to be their own, then let go.