Why do some people have the idea of "who to love"?

The attitude towards love is also related to everyone's cognitive view of love. Like who loves me and who I love.

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First, such people are generally passive in love. Most of these people are wooed by each other to get love, and rarely take the initiative to approach a person, to understand a person's heart and to love a person. Second, it is also related to personal self-confidence. Generally, people affected by family growth have a strong sense of inferiority. People who generally like are afraid to express themselves actively, so they will become passive lovers, that is, I will love whoever loves me.