If you want to be together for the rest of your life, consider getting married. If you can't give a future, break up. I really can't understand why she is so eager to get married. Life now, two people, happy, no burden, happy together. But I don't want to get married. I'm a not-so-staunch celibate.
I actually told my girlfriend at the beginning of the relationship. She is 4 years older than me and has a very small look. I got together with her when I was 25, and the two of us haven't felt out of place until now. She's a friend of my coworker and I met her once as a favor. Then she was very nice to me, and I just knew what she meant. As a matter of course, we started to fall in love.
Later, my classmates and her friends got married more and more, we went to the wedding often asked "when you do it". I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it," he said. The reason why I don't want to get married may have something to do with my family of origin, or it may have something to do with the fact that I like to live a free lifestyle.
No one stipulates that people have to get married in their lifetime. Throughout the history of human development, marriage has been mandatory for the purpose of reproducing the population. By now, it doesn't really have that meaning anymore. So I don't think people have to get married in order to find happiness and live a happy family life.
My parents have a bad relationship, yet they don't separate. It is beautifully called for the sake of the children, but we siblings grew up in the depressing, quarrelsome, cold war environment created by our parents, and our moods were never happy for a few days. Many times, I wanted to tell them, "Get a divorce. --The words never came out of my mouth, but my sister said them, and was slapped by my mom, crying that we were white-eyed wolves who didn't understand her stoicism and what she had done for us.
People with a sense of responsibility, without the shackles of documents, will also have a sense of responsibility; people without a sense of responsibility, with the shackles of documents, will also secretly break free. However, recently, I think it's been two or three months, she started to try to mention marriage frequently. It is only an attempt, but already I feel much distress. --We are now living a life that is not very different from being married, just with less of a license and less social comings and goings of both families of origin and relatives.
But I think the only way to live as we do now is to really get back to the essence of love and marriage -- I've never thought that the obligation to love and have to love and have to love wasn't a kind of obfuscation and interference with love and marriage. I think love and a marriage based on love should only be about two people. We have been together for over 3 years, I am now 29 and she is 32. we are both young and she does not look old not older. We also reached a ****ty understanding a long time ago so I don't really understand what she's thinking right now.