Reflections on the Eight Golden Flowers

01

"Eight Golden Flowers" is a group of eight widowed old ladies.

The members of the group are my mother-in-law, my aunt, my uncle, my second aunt, my aunt, my aunt Guo, my aunt Qi, my aunt Wang and the old lady across the street. They live in our neighborhood as well as several nearby neighborhoods, and are usually very close to my mother-in-law.

Over the past few years, the men in the Golden Flower's family have passed away, and they don't want to find another one. The reason is: men have a lot of things to do, and it's a pain in the ass! They also do not want to be dependent on their children, like to live an independent, unrestrained life.

The oldest in the group is 87 years old and the youngest is 74 years old. The loss of a spouse has not made them depressed, but on the contrary, their lives have become more and more prosperous. This can be seen in the well-organized schedule of the golden flowers.

6.00am-7.00am: Go to the park for a morning walk - one or two laps around the park's promenade.

8.00~10.00 :Shopping at the supermarket.

13.00~15.00: Two groups of poker war began on time, the most annoying thing is that dry grinding fingers, do not win money.

18.00 ~ 19.00: In the small square, dancing a soothing fan dance.

02

Women live longer than men. Or is it a common phenomenon? Let the facts speak for themselves.

In 2018, the average life expectancy statistics of Chinese people: women are 77.37 years old, men are 72.38 years old. This is true not only in China, but all over the world.

Many people are puzzled why God is so unfair!

Is it true that men are under more pressure than women, as rumor has it? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots!

Women also have to go through life's hardships and storms; they also have to bear the pressure from society, family, work environment and so on. Especially modern women, they have to be both on the hall, but also down to the kitchen, from all aspects of the pressure is often greater than men. So how do they ride the waves, go forward, in the test of life in the men's victory?

No comparison, no harm, and compared to women, these shortcomings of men are important factors that lead to their short life.

First, the high rate of male smoking

In 2014, the Chinese CDC, the World Health Organization, the United Nations CDC jointly released the "Global Adult Tobacco - China part" shows that China's female smoking rate of 2.4%, while the male smoking rate is as high as 52.9%!

Second, men drink more

Drinking is also the main reason for the difference in life expectancy between men and women. The latest research confirms that drinking is not good for the human body, and men are the main consumers of alcohol.

According to an article published in the Chinese Journal of Epidemiology, the drinking rate for men aged 30 to 60 is over 60%. And women have the highest drinking rate of 14.4% across all ages.

Third, men are lazier than women, do not love sports

Many people around the greasy middle-aged men, a lot of men with big bellies, and women pay more attention to the body and health. Many retired women often go to the square dance, men are rare.

Fourth, irregular habits, I do my own life style

Often stay up late, overeating, free and easy habits.

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03

In short, compared with women men are more lack of self-discipline, self-paralyzed, lazy, greedy for pleasure ......

The body is the capital of the revolution, the capital is gone what to go to the revolution, to struggle? First of all, in this point, the man lost to the woman.

There are only two kinds of people in this world - women and men. Throughout history, there has been no shortage of female heroes and heroines in all walks of life, and their heroic deeds have outlasted those of countless men.

Modern women have long been free from the shackles of feudalism, free from the heavy chains, proudly standing on the stage of history, they play a vital role in all areas of society. In the torrent of the times, modern women will always be the sister who rides the waves and goes forward!

Don't say again that women hold up half the sky. Men, if you are not enterprising, free-spirited and lack self-discipline, then in the near future the whole sky will be covered by the sister who rides the wind and waves!

It's not necessarily correct to say that we're not going to take it all seriously, but we're going to take it all seriously! If you want to be serious, we might as well compare who lives longer. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that!

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