I think that as long as there is nothing wrong with it, most people will face up to their shortcomings. Sooner or later, you have to find a compatible partner and get married. Those petty bourgeoisie who advocate DINK, and those women who choose not to marry, 99 will have a miserable life and unbearable loneliness. The last time of their lives is to live in isolation and die alone.
The joke in the world is, why do men like beautiful women? Because we ourselves are not beautiful.
Ha, in fact, looking at the deeper level, many people with low self-esteem and insecurity often fantasize about their hostility towards other men in society, forcing themselves to regard women, especially beautiful women, as their religion and as the ultimate of comfort and salvation. Because they pose no threat to such a boy, they even represent perfection and the ultimate male achievement: he needs to obtain ultimate care by possessing beautiful women.
It is actually difficult for such a man to really like a woman, especially if she is not a beautiful woman.
Because in his eyes, beauty is just a symbol or totem. He doesn’t know that beautiful women are also human beings, they are three-dimensional, they need to eat, drink and have sex. They only look beautiful from certain angles. Where there is light, there will be shadows and there will be imperfections. In terms of mathematics and art, Your skin will never look perfect and good-looking from every angle. The beauty of appearance is also very subjective, and there is no absolute standard. With the changes in aesthetic taste and irreversible aging, the beauty of the past will no longer exist. Every aunt who danced in the square once made a boy toss and turn on the bed and fall asleep.
So, for those young people who are determined to marry a beautiful woman. At its core, you really know nothing about life and are too subjective and absolute. At the same time, it is indeed too ignorant and pitiful. For such a boy (who can't be called a man at all), it doesn't matter whether you love her from the bottom of your heart or not. What matters is that she is a beauty.
As long as she is a beauty, you will have ultimate care; if she is not a beauty, you will feel disappointed and you will never be satisfied.