One, what is intergenerational education With the development of the times, more and more young parents are busy at work, almost no time to take care of the children, so the burden of raising children inevitably falls on the shoulders of grandparents, grandparents, this phenomenon by the grandparents of the grandchildren to carry out the raising and education is called intergenerational education.
This is the first time that a person has been in the country.
There are many problems with intergenerational education. One example is that a couple, busy with their business, left their son with his grandparents in the countryside when he was 3 years old. Now the child is 10 years old, the mother wants to take him back to receive a better education. But when the child came back, she found that he had
a lot of bad habits, such as capriciousness, selfishness, short temper, dropping things when he was not moving, and he was very angry with his parents and did not talk to them actively.
The disadvantages of intergenerational education
1. Spoiling the children and hindering their self-growth. Grandparents in the young, because of the living and working conditions of the limitations of the children may not be able to take good care of them, they are very easy to produce a kind of compensation for the psychological, the love of the children and the love of the grandchildren are all focused on the grandchildren,
The children love, excessive attention to the children, so much so that everything on behalf of the work of the children, accommodating children everywhere, resulting in the emergence of the children's capriciousness, dependence, and the ability of life to take care of itself The first is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation, and that you have a good understanding of the situation.
2. It triggers family conflicts and leads to a gap between parents and children. In the first few years of a child's life, the influence of his parents is crucial. After all, for a child, his parents are his most important relatives. If the parents can not be accompanied by his side, it is easy for him to produce a feeling of abandonment, leaving a shadow in the depths of his heart
. In addition, the child has been living with his grandparents since he was a child, and is used to receiving their care and accommodation, and may have developed some behavioral habits that his parents are not used to. When the parents take over the child at a certain time, or take over the child from the grandparents, they may be eager to reverse these so-called problematic behaviors of the child, and it is very easy for antagonism to arise between the parents and the child. Emotions. This antagonism can cause the child to become more distant from the parents and retreat to the grandparents.