I am the same as you. I hate a person so much that I think about killing him every day to get pleasure from it. But smart people will not kill people. We can let him destroy himself. His psychological attack.
Okay, let’s get down to business.
Human thought is divided into consciousness and subconsciousness. The former is what we can feel, the latter is what we cannot feel.
It is in this subconscious level that we cannot feel that there is a terrible power, which is the key to our use. It has a name that I like very much, called "unconscious self-destruction" ".
As long as we dig it out, the rest will be simple.
Freud said, "Besides intentional suicide, there is also semi-intentional self-destruction, which cleverly uses a certain danger and covers it up by accident."
It’s complicated, right? Now let’s give an example to explain it in detail.
A couple, the husband is a very jealous person.
They went to the dance. At the dance, the wife danced very well and shined, winning everyone's admiration and applause.
But the husband was very unhappy and whispered to her: "You shameless slut, you are going to be a bitch again!"
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The wife was very sad. She had to drive a carriage early the next morning. She chose a strong horse in the stable, but as a result, she broke her leg.
It is obviously not true to say that this incident was an accident. Her self-destruction was completed in one day and one night. Her subconscious suggested to her that she should break her leg so that she would not Can dance again. Eventually it led her to an "accident"
We often see such plots on TV: a man loses his job and then gets into a car accident; a woman falls out of love and cuts herself while cooking. This is what we often hear as "Misfortune never comes alone".
The second thing is actually a kind of "self-punishment".
I think there must have been a situation like this in your life: you know that something will hurt you, but you still do it.
Yes, this is a kind of "unconscious self-destruction" that everyone has. Often it comes in unexpected forms.
There is a difference between "unconscious self-destruction" and suicide.
Suicidal persons are very aware of their actions and will struggle internally within a few months before considering the time and place to commit suicide. Which method should be used, hanging, jumping off a cliff, or taking sleeping pills?
In short, he knows what he is doing.
But "unconscious self-destruction" is not.
It will appear in a moment, such as crossing the road and suddenly wanting to hit a car; when going upstairs, you step on the air unconsciously and then fall. This is because the subconscious mind is aware of the conditions of destruction and then overcomes your consciousness in an instant. This is not an accident, but an unconscious act of suicide.
Then how do we control his subconscious mind at this moment, and even allow others to achieve "self-destruction"?
This is the key to the problem. The answer is: make him lose his subconscious self-control!
Next, we considered how to make him "lose subconscious self-control." I will achieve this in three ways.
1. Understanding bias:
For example, some people cannot correctly understand themselves, like to compare their own weaknesses with the strengths of others, and blindly sink into inferiority and self-pity. Ignore your own life and dignity, and even use them as a means to resist society.
2. Emotional extremes:
The twists and turns in life, such as career and emotional failure, the death of relatives, will lead to emotional instability and make people go to extremes. Falling into pessimism and despair. If impulsive enough, it can lead to suicide.
3. Weak will:
There are some people who are weak-willed, and some small setbacks in life are "catastrophes" in their eyes. Such people. Has a strong tendency to self-destruct. But here, I think everyone has weak will. Roh Moo-hyun can become the president of the largest country in the universe, so he naturally has a strong ability to withstand pressure, but he can commit suicide, let alone others self-destruct.
Below, I will give a specific method based on each item, and the rest is up to you to think about. After all, I am not familiar with your enemy and I don’t know what his weaknesses are.
1. Bias of understanding: To achieve this, you must first understand the other person's weaknesses, and then let them fully expose their shortcomings and infinitely amplify their inferiority complex.
But under normal circumstances, people will hide their weaknesses. I will teach you a method that will be very effective, which is the provoking method.
Maybe you will say that this method is very old-fashioned and will not be effective. But please remember that everyone has shortcomings, but most people don't want to admit it. On the contrary, they always want to prove themselves, which provides us with an opportunity.
As long as you grasp it, you can embarrass him!
For example: Your enemy is enthusiastic about doing things, but has no potential. You can say to him intentionally or unintentionally: "I know an opportunity that has great potential...but...let's forget it." ..." When he asked, you said: "You don't have much talent, you can't do it."
At this time, he will definitely fight for this opportunity.
When he gets this opportunity, the only thing you have to do is to hinder the success of his work and distract him. You can go out with him to distract him; play some small conspiracies behind his back. ...and so on, everything you can do.
Is it difficult to let someone fail at something that is not good at it?
2. Emotional extremes: In this regard, I will use emotions as an example.
The importance of love to a person goes without saying. First, see if he has a girlfriend. If not, then bring him in contact with some excellent women (note, these women have no chance of falling in love with him) to make him feel inferior and depressed.
Actually, I like this situation very much, because without a partner of the opposite sex, he has one less person to talk to and is more likely to go to extremes.
If you have a girlfriend, it’s easier. You can treat them both to a meal if you have nothing to do. You must go to a high-end place (not too many times, two or three times is enough), in front of them. , give your girlfriend some expensive gifts. If you don't have a girlfriend, just pretend that you want to pursue a girl and ask his girlfriend what girls like best. Of course, it still has to be expensive.
In short, let his girlfriend know how you will treat your woman.
Remember, there is no woman in this world who is not vain!
When the relationship between him and his girlfriend breaks down 3. Weak will: When a person's career and relationship are not going well, what do you think he needs? friend!
All you need to do is find his best friend, hold him back, and minimize the possibility of contact between the two of them.
Do you think he will have a way to vent?
No, you must remember at all times that there is still family love in the world!
But would a person, (especially a man) share his career and emotional failures with his parents?
Yes, but rarely, and they will not fully tell their parents about their problems.
At the same time, you have to hint to him not to tell his parents about these things, because not only is it meaningless, but it will make them worry.
This is very important, that is, let him have no channel to vent and bear the responsibility himself.
Now, think about his situation. His work is not going well, his relationship has failed, his friends rarely contact him, and he cannot tell his family... He will definitely feel that he is simply superfluous in this world. people!
(What is even more gratifying is that we are in China, a country without religious beliefs.)
So far, the plan has been completed for 90 years.
Finally, you can invite him to drink some wine (in which case, as long as he is not a depressed person, he will definitely accept the invitation). The location is very important, such as a cliff, the seaside, a downtown area... you should understand what it means.
The best time is at dusk. You must say a few words under the setting sun. This will make him feel that there is no hope in life.
Then he goes to drink. In his state, even if he does not drink too much, he will not drink too little.
The time we left the bar should be around 9 o'clock. There are fewer people on the road and the traffic is faster. Many people who have dinner are drunk, and those who have not eaten are anxious to go home for dinner.
Don’t let him take a taxi when he goes out.
You insist on sending him home, but he insists not to. Okay, I won’t say much more about the rest...
Many things are easy to say but very difficult to do, because there are many details that need to be grasped, and you also need to think more about some places. , it’s not that simple, but as long as you are calm, persistent, observant, find weaknesses, be targeted, and know what the key is, you will be very threatening.
Wish us success!