Marry a soldier! Choose soldiers, okay?
Third, several practical problems in selecting soldiers: 1, where most soldiers live is difficult; 2, poor soldiers, as everyone knows, marry a soldier, no money, no car, no room; 3. Marrying a soldier faces the separation of the two places, and you have to pick your own burden. Although you are married, you still live a personal life. Conclusion: Choosing a soldier is doomed to be a long wait and concern. Choosing a soldier means choosing to be strong; If you choose a soldier, you choose loneliness; As a soldier's wife, I realize that because of his military uniform, many envious eyes can't drive away the loneliness of a person walking. I also know that the satisfaction of being respected only by a soldier's wife can't stop a person from shouldering the heavy responsibility of family and the pressure of work. When you are a soldier's wife, you know you have to put up with loneliness because they don't have much time to spend with you. We should also form the habit of shopping alone. Even if your shoulders and arms are covered with big bags at the end, you should try to do it yourself as a weight loss exercise, because they won't appear in front of the mall when you need help and labor most. Of course, we should be able to bear the pain of lovesickness and waiting, because not only will they not appear in front of you when you miss him, but they will also give you a long-awaited hug. You will cry on your pillow through autumn water, even in your dreams. As a soldier's wife, we should have the courage to taste the plain life and the determination to resist the temptation of interests. They can't give you a luxurious home because they are poor. As a soldier's wife, you should keep the power to seek medical treatment alone when you are sick. You should form the habit of living alone, and it is best to have fun by yourself. Friends get together with others in pairs. When you are alone, you should be able to cope with this kind of chaos and loneliness. You should also be able to calmly and proudly say that your husband has made a third-class merit when friends are very happy to earn hundreds of thousands for your husband or buy her a few carats of diamond ring. Fourth, the reason why soldiers are respected: In essence, it is out of trust and love for the people's army, and it also reflects the ardent hopes of the people for the people's army from a certain angle and level. It should be said that this is a heavy love; It was exchanged by the predecessors of the army in the bloody battle of bullets. It is really hard to get the Maoer Cave in the old mountain of Faka Mountain, the earthquake shed in Tangshan and the human dam in the flood of the Yangtze River! Life and blood! V. Choosing a soldier 17 Q: Q: What attracted you to a soldier was his career, which aroused your romantic fantasies, or the lofty ideal of sharing worries for soldiers who devoted themselves to national defense, which made you choose a soldier? Second question: Do you know any restrictions on marrying a soldier? Question 3: Do you know the regulations on military leave in China? Q 4: Do you know the military housing system in China? Q 5: Do you know the income of soldiers in China? Six questions: Do you know what the inevitable expenses of soldiers are? Q 7: Do you think the social status of soldiers is high now? Eight questions: Do you know the Regulations on Military Resettlement? Do you know the job of a soldier? Question 10: Do you know what closed management is? Question 1 1: Do you know the rank distinction of soldiers? Question 12: Do you know the interpersonal relationship of soldiers? Thirteen questions: Do you know what kind of wife a soldier needs? Question 14: Do you know what kind of life soldiers yearn for? Question 15: Do you know the absolute meaning of "command" and "obedience" of soldiers? Question 16: Do you know and understand that soldiers drink? Question 17: Do you know there are many things you can't ask? Conclusion: If you have a clear concept of the above questions, you can choose! Be kind to those who love you.