"I'm very disciplined, why am I still such a failure in life? Isn't it true that self-disciplined people are most likely to succeed?"
"Because you're using it the wrong way, and self-discipline has a focus."
This is a conversation between me and my coworker, Wang, who considers himself a very self-disciplined person, but so far, he has failed in life.
He likes to dance, so he goes to the square for an hour every night, and on weekends, he goes to the bar with everyone else.
He thinks eating fish is good for his health, so he eats it once a week.
That's what he calls self-discipline, and he stuck to it for two years, but nothing came of it.
Real self-discipline, where is this?
Many people have a deep misunderstanding of the word self-discipline, they think that just living life the way they have planned is called self-discipline, but it's not, you not only have to have a plan, but you also have to make sure that your plan helps you in your life.
Children like Wang are useless, whether it's dancing or eating fish, it's good for the body at best, but it doesn't really do much for his future path.
Only by adopting the right self-discipline lifestyle can a person make his life better and better, and the following points are what everyone must pay attention to.
Saving money
It is sure that many people have heard the saying that money is earned, not saved, and they feel that saving money is useless.
If a person really wants to live a very good life, they should learn how to make money, saving a little bit of money every day for their own life does not really help.
Many people take this as a life creed, they think and act this way, so many young people don't save any money at all, their way of life is to be drunk today, who cares who will fight tomorrow.
They just want to live today, as for tomorrow, there is no plan, so many young people are moonlighters.
Small horse is not the same, small horse from the countryside, grew up a lot of hard life, the family has three siblings, he happens to be the eldest, so he knows how important saving money for a person in the end, after all, that's the way his parents are, and from the beginning of the university graduation he has been saving money.
Five years have passed, and he already has more than 100,000 dollars in his hand. In fact, his income is not very high, but he just has his own plan, and his friends who graduated from college with him are almost all moonlighters.
They didn't think much of a young man in his twenties who didn't have a little bit of savings, and everyone was surprised when Ma was able to come up with over a hundred thousand dollars in savings to buy a car.
Everyone must learn to save money, this year's situation you all have witnessed ****, no deposit in the hands of no sense of security, not even a little protection.
But if you have the habit of saving money, and there is a part of the deposit in the hand, no matter how much, at least you can solve the current problem, no matter what kind of things happen, you do not have to worry about the problem of food and clothing.
And some people have really fallen to the point where even eating is a problem, if this is really the case, we should think about how to change their lives, no matter how in daily life to develop the habit of saving money.
Fitness
Fitness is a very good habit, especially nowadays working people, really should pay attention to their health.
Wang likes to dance and has stuck with it, and although he's making no progress at all in his work, he's in good health, so that's something for him to gain.
I think most people know that now many young people are not very good physical quality, some young people can not even compare to the elderly, as for the reason, we all understand.
Elderly people dance and walk every day, and sometimes go out and travel, they often exercise, so the physical quality is generally not bad.
Young people have the advantage of age, but stay in the office every day, a sitting is all day, because of the long-term immobilization, the body naturally will not be too healthy, if the body after a few years of disease, it is also very common phenomenon, if you do not want to become such a person, you should learn to fitness.
Some people may say that fitness is actually a very tedious and difficult to adhere to things, after all, they are busy working every day, there is no such time and energy.
In fact, the simplest fitness is running, for example, you get up every morning and run for half an hour, as long as you can stick to it, your body will become better, when you go to work you have more energy, and the most important thing is to have a healthy body, your future is to count on?
After all, life and health is the capital of all people, if even this most basic capital is gone, even if you earn more money what is the point?
No matter how much of a failure a person is, how poor he is, as long as he is still alive, as long as he has his health, there is hope for his future.
Investing in your health and paying for it is all worthwhile, so everyone must get into the habit of working out.
Early to bed and early to rise
Nowadays, young people seem to especially like to stay up late, as to why the reasons are also different.
Some people are used to going to bed late, some people like to catch up with dramas, some people can't sleep at night, always for a variety of reasons, they all go to bed late or go to bed late and get up early.
If you want to become a truly self-reliant person, you should make changes in your habits, and the most important point is to go to bed early and get up early.
No matter what, going to bed early and waking up early is very good for your body, about which we all know very well that staying up late has a detrimental effect on your body, which is something we all know.
No matter what, everyone should insist on going to bed early and waking up early, and in time it will become a habit, and in the future you will find that it has great benefits for your life.
Study
Do you make time to study? Not when you're at school, but when you're at work, and probably many of you answered in the negative.
Some people think that learning only exists inside the school, and what they learn is only inside the classroom, they will not expand their knowledge, which is a big misunderstanding.
Social competitiveness has always existed, if you don't make an effort to improve yourself, there is a high probability that you will be eliminated one day in the future, but if you insist on learning, you will always be in the front of the times.
Striving to improve oneself is something that every young person should do, no matter whether you are in school or in the society now, you should not give up learning.
Be a self-disciplined person, take half an hour or an hour to study every day, try to arrange what you want to learn, and stick to it you will find that everything you pay for is rewarded.
No messing around with relationships and marriages
It may be hard for many people to imagine that relationships and marriages would be included in the scope of self-discipline, and yes, not only do they belong to the category of self-discipline, but they are especially important.
A real self-discipline of people, will not casually carry out a relationship, they will take this thing very important, they are heavy feelings and respect feelings, so, in the face of a relationship they will think a lot, which is responsible for each other.
The same is true for marriage. Some people are irresponsible and casually enter into marriage, which later leads to all kinds of conflicts and harms each other and even their families, and this is a very bad practice that should be eliminated.
As an adult, not messing around with relationships and marriages is the least self-disciplined behavior.
Enhancement of economic power
Enhancement of economic power is also a manifestation of self-discipline, many people may say, this kind of thing how to self-discipline ah? This is not something you can decide, if you think so, then it is very wrong and very wrong.
In fact, this kind of thing can also be included in the plan, to give a very simple example, you are now 3000 monthly income, but also to set a goal for themselves, in the future, to achieve the level of 5000 monthly income, 5000 monthly income, and after you set a new goal for themselves.
In this way, you will find that your future path will be better and better, and working hard to earn money and improve your financial ability will be of great benefit to your life.
A person who really knows how to be self-disciplined will do the above things well, and stick to them, and your life will go better and better.