What is bitterness and what is pleasure in life. Life is a heavy record of years. Without pain and suffering, without happiness and happiness, it is not a real life! In life, we can only treat ourselves as others and others as ourselves. Treat others as others and treat yourself as yourself. Life is destined to go through many joys and sorrows. Learn to think of yourself as others, so that you won't be crazy in front of happy events and sad in front of difficulties. Will not involve fame and fortune, will not be tired of fame, will not be moved by profit, will not be trapped by officials, will not be bothered by love. The most important thing is to treat others as yourself. Because my life can't always be smooth sailing and full of flowers, I will always encounter difficulties of one kind or another. In the face of other people's misfortunes, only by empathizing with others and treating them as yourself can we truly sympathize with their misfortunes, understand their difficulties, and actively lend a helping hand when others need help. When treating others as others, everyone has his own position, values, world outlook, outlook on life and values in life and work. We should fully respect everyone's independence, respect the personality and privacy of others, and under no circumstances should we infringe on others' legitimate behavior and thinking space, nor should we impose our own thoughts on others. And you, you must treat yourself as yourself. The biggest enemy in life is not others, but yourself. If you defeat yourself, you will be invincible. Ask yourself not to have a hard time with yourself, don't get angry because of a small position, a meager salary, or even some gossips and disdainful eyes of others, and face all kinds of honor and disgrace gains and losses, emotional grievances with a calm and indifferent attitude.
Once frustrated on the road of life, my understanding of life has deepened; Mistakes add a step to the awakening of life; Unfortunately, once, the understanding of the world was mature; After suffering once, I fully understand the meaning of success. In this sense, if you want to achieve success and happiness, you must first understand failure, misfortune, frustration and pain. Whether a person is truly happy does not lie in those gentle and polite blessings, but in whether he bravely accepts the suffering and misfortune he is facing now. Only by bravely facing the sudden happiness, peace, health, setbacks and disasters. Use the hand of time to heal the inner excitement and trauma, and use the limited time and energy in life to care for others and help others, and others will treat themselves like others. Sending a bunch of roses will leave a wisp of fragrance. In fact, helping others is helping yourself, even if it is not directly helping yourself, it is indirectly helping yourself.
The long road of life, there are bitter and happy, sour and sweet. The most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary, and the longest possession in life is cherish. The bitterness and joy in life are frivolous, romantic and wild. The spirit of bitterness and joy roams in the infinite world, and everywhere it goes, everything is outside the world. It is in the smoke, in the fog, in the dream, without shelter, without paradigm, without hesitation. This soul is still in a crystal clear fairy tale state, which makes me truly realize the wonderful value of bitterness and joy. Bitter life, bitterness is life, and joy is life. There is happiness in suffering, seeking happiness in suffering, not clinging to happiness and not forgetting troubles. Life is naturally full of taste and happiness in suffering!