After the age of 50, when a woman meets someone she likes, should she still be brave enough to "love"?

I just interviewed three women who have just turned 50. Listen to how

After the age of 50, when a woman meets someone she likes, should she still be brave enough to "love"?

I just interviewed three women who have just turned 50. Listen to how they responded and made choices when they met their true love.

01. Ms. Lu, 52

My partner passed away 4 years ago, and I was in a really bad state of mind, and I almost wanted to be alone with him.

Fortunately, my children and friends were positive and guided me, so I was able to pull through the despair of being alone.

Since the previous year, I have felt the vigor of my youth returning to me. The reason was also simple: I fell in love once again.

During those lonely years, I actively participated in parties organized by the elderly in my community. I met my current partner at the parties.

He, like me, was also widowed late in life. Because of the same experience, and because we both like to talk and walk, over time our tacit understanding converged.

We've been together for a year and a half now, and to be honest, at our age, we're not going to get a license. I just thought it would be nice to have someone to spend time with in my later years.

This mutual companionship has given us both the energy of youth, and we both feel that this is a good thing to celebrate.

02. Ms. Wu is 51 years old

I am a divorced woman and have been divorced for 12 years. After the divorce, I have been living alone.

Now my children are adults and have gone to work overseas. They are very uneasy about my personal life and have always wanted me to find someone to live with.

To be honest, all these years of living alone, I'm really a bit used to it. I can cook when I want to, and I can order a takeaway when I don't want to, so I think it's a good idea.

When I was 46 years old, some of my colleagues and friends advised me to do so, but I didn't think about it.

After so many years, I still want to live alone and retire alone. I don't want anything else, I just want to be free and live my life as I want.

No need to cook for others and take care of their living. I even signed up for a senior citizen tour some time ago when I had a break.

Following a group of old sisters, went to have a good time. When I think about it now, I feel very painful and happy.

So, let's not talk about the fact that I didn't meet the opposite sex, that is, I didn't want to move that mind. After all, a person half a lifetime has come over, the old also want to live more freely.

03. Ms. Gao is 56 years old

Maybe it's because of good maintenance, many people say I don't look so old.

When I was young, I paid a lot of attention to maintaining my health and adjusting my mindset. I think that's the key to my youthfulness today.

It's been almost 10 years since my partner passed away, and it's honestly been a bit lonely, especially since I'm retired and have a lot of time on my hands.

Grandchildren don't visit often, so I'm a bit lonely in my old age.

Some time ago, I discussed with my children whether we could find another partner, which is a way of injecting a little bit of vitality into our old age.

What I didn't expect was that my son and daughter agreed with my idea, and they said they had been thinking about it for a long time, but they didn't say anything for fear that I wouldn't agree.

I haven't found a suitable partner yet, but since my son and daughter don't oppose it, I'm going to work hard in this direction.

Striving for a year and a half, I can meet a person who is suitable to accompany me in my old age. After all, today's elderly people need to have some fun, otherwise the long years are really quite difficult.

Emotional Conclusion:

This person is old, is not too lonely. After all, they have been busy all their lives, and it's time to work on their own happiness in their old age.

If you can meet the right person, you can give yourself a fire, a lively time. If you can't meet the right one, you can also play a game by yourself.

The years can't return, but the vigor of youth can be obtained.