In the world of feelings, every move between husband and wife can reveal the attitude towards marriage. You see those couples who often look at each other a smile, most of them have belong to each other's tacit understanding, nodding and smiling, are heart to heart, the marriage will not be bad to where. Similarly, a couple of walking posture, also hidden the good and bad marriage.
In the emotional world, every move between husband and wife can reveal the attitude of marriage. Similarly, the walking posture between a couple also hides the good or bad marriage.
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My colleague Xiaomeng, married for ten years, according to the reason has long passed the period of passion, but she is often in the circle of friends to show love, show off her husband considerate. She has a lot of friends who are always looking for a limited edition bag with tens of thousands of dollars and high quality cosmetics from the counter, and the accompanying text reads:
Someone bought me roses, thank you dear
Older by a year, thanks to my husband's birthday cake, I'm going to grow meat again
My most wanted skincare products from XXX, that idiot really bought them for me, it was so pleasantly surprising
She is steadily happy between the lines, causing immense envy among her colleagues around her. But the only thing she rarely sees is her husband showing his face in the circle of friends.
But it wasn't until the last time I went on vacation with the couple that I realized her marriage wasn't really as good as we thought it was.
Several pairs of us went out for snacks together by the roadside, and the couples or couples traveling with us all stood together, pulling each other along the way to support each other, and most of the men would be careful to guard the woman beside them, holding her hand or wrapping their arms around her waist as they crossed the road.
While Small Dream and her husband are separated by a large distance, the two basically have zero communication. Just when crossing the street, I saw her husband coldly walking in front of her, leaving Xiaomeng far away from a large distance, a car sped by Xiaomeng, almost hitting Xiaomeng, but fortunately the next passer-by pushed her out of the way. Her husband, on the other hand, had already walked through the red light district and disappeared.
Sometimes, a person's actions cannot lie. When you are intoxicated in a sweet relationship, the corners of your eyes are showing a smile, when you still love each other, the moment you cross the street, will hold on to each other's hands, walking on the side of the road will not be able to help but wrap their arms around each other's waists, hugging and holding, because you care about each other.
When you walk on the road, you will be nervous and worried about the people around you, careful; when you walk the posture is to free up a hand, pulling the other side of the time; your marriage, only through the flavor of happiness.
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A few days ago the hit "In the Name of the People", Gao Yuliang and his wife, Ms. Wu, in fact, has long been no conjugal love, but for the sake of Gao Yuliang's future considerations, the two in the eyes of the outsiders, playing up the model of love.
But whenever they are alone, they begin to reveal their hearts and respect each other. At night when they are going to bed, there is a scene: the two stood in the stairway, one to the left, one to the right, Ms. Wu said numbly: "Good night", Gao Yuliang said indifferently: "See you tomorrow." The two parted ways, each going into their own rooms.
Walking posture can't determine the entirety of a person's marriage, but in the world of relationships, a posture and movement can tell how much you love each other. The depth of love also determines what a marriage looks like.
As in love lovers, even if the two have a quarrel, the man will be just as likely to chase her around, a mouthful of a dear don't be angry.
Carefully reach out to protect her behind, from the back to see the posture of the man, must be a little funny and not too elegant, but such love, sincere to make people cry. At this time, the woman even if again angry, see the man in front of the thoughtful look, will also silently embrace the man's waist, compromise on love.
Famous writer Liao Yimei said: "In our lifetime, meet love meet sex are not rare, rare is to meet understanding." And from the walking posture, you can see the degree of understanding between couples.
I have seen the streets of the hot couples, the woman pulling the man's hand, a "this is my man," a strong look, but put the eyes on the man's face, he is a face of favor and pride, as if to say: Yes, I am her man.
You can venture to guess that the woman's character must be more strong and domineering, while the man, probably more tolerant and understanding, they have long since found each other familiar with the mode of getting along, even if one day to face the marriage, but also can be adjusted to life colorful and unhurried.
Just like Hou Liangping and his wife Zhong Xiaoyi, a calm and wise, a heart as fine as dust. Hou Liangping and Zhong Xiaoyi out of the house, often help his wife with the bag, like a mountain of his wife and vehicles separated from the flow of people, and Zhong Xiaoyi also tacit understanding of her husband's hand, a face of a little birdie obedience.
Marriage is a mirror, through the couple's walking posture, you can see the couple's love index .
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My second aunt is fifty-six years old, married for more than thirty years but still like a young girl, full of vigor and joy.
After dinner, she called out to her uncle to go square dancing. The second uncle's back is not good, but every time still followed the second aunt, to help her take the water, carry the bag, the second aunt like a child gambling said: "old man you walk faster, in a moment will start, you always drag me behind."
This is when the second uncle will give himself a hug: "Wife, look at my waist, and carry things for you, where to walk faster ah?"
"Well, I'm to blame," the second aunt laughed, and pulled the limping second uncle behind her, tugging his hand tightly. The second uncle did not resist, carrying in his arms the things he had brought for the second aunt, letting the second aunt pull her forward.
I looked from behind, the two people's backs are hunched, but walking posture, is full of love. At this moment, the marriage of Li feelings, beyond the world of the world's long life, against the decades of wind and rain, love through the storm, become soft and warm.
Marriage is not only on the face of the woman. The more carved in the walking posture .
Your every step of the way, are the sweet and sour in the marriage, your every posture, are love and hate intertwined confrontation. The man said better than he put you into the arms of the small happiness, marriage pretending to be like, as opposed to two hands holding each other's certainty and trust.
Some people say: the best happiness in marriage is that you can see the breakfast on the table every day when you open your eyes, you can smell the flowers on the table, and you can have someone driving downstairs waiting for you to send you to work.
In fact, the real happiness of marriage, is that every step you take, there are people pulling you, embracing you, caring for you, pampering you, without scruples and you play and laugh, and you kiss and get tired, for you to take the bag to fight against fatigue, in the most dangerous time to protect you in the back.
True feelings can not be installed, but also can not hide, everything is reflected in your words and deeds.