Let's talk about rural girls first. Girls who grew up in the countryside are more hardworking and thrifty than those who grew up in cities. These are closely related to their external social environment and their own family background. In the past, rural families mostly made a living by farming and raising, but in recent ten years, they gradually increased their employment. Therefore, the family income is very low, which is not only the daily expenses of the family, but also the rural children are more than the urban families, which will be even more stretched, while the feudal ideology in rural areas is heavier and a few conditions are better. As long as children want to go to school, let them continue; Most poor families don't need parental advice. Many girls in the family will take the initiative to drop out of school early to help the family with farm work and reduce the burden. ?
When they are older, they will go out to work with their sisters and brothers in the village. She has neither culture nor background. Outside, they subsidize their families in order to earn money. She is not afraid of hardship at all, because she has been in charge since childhood. On the other hand, because the hard life from childhood has passed for a long time, no matter what the family does, they will think twice and spend the limited money on the right place. Under the long-term influence of this idea, rural girls will have a good saving habit. Although they work hard in the city, they don't earn much, but they spend a few hundred dollars a month, and the rest are mailed to their families. Although their parents have never given them better living conditions since childhood, they still treat their parents and their families like this, which shows that they are very filial and grateful to their parents.
Besides, the city girl, the city is much better than the countryside. Most families are workers, businessmen and government officials. They have a generous fixed salary every month, and their family conditions are many times better than those in the countryside. City girl, who grew up in this environment, was naturally spoiled like a princess by her parents and elders at home. I have eaten clothes since I was a child, let alone learned nothing. As soon as I speak, my parents will buy it and send it to her. So their subconscious will feel that everything their parents do for themselves is taken for granted. Because I have never worked or suffered since I was a child, the city girls who grew up are just like vases, and they simply can't stand the wind and rain, let alone the hardships that rural girls can eat.
? Moreover, girls who grew up in cities, because of the influence of urban environment and family, simply don't know what it means to keep honor and waste shame. As long as they don't like things as children, they will throw them away and replace them with new ones. After going to work, they still can't change their bad habit of spending money lavishly. Every month, they not only have moonlight, but also ask their elderly parents for pension money, and they don't feel embarrassed for a long time, because they think their parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise themselves and give them money forever. To put it bluntly, this is kidnapping love.
Having said that, I believe everyone will have a clearer understanding of most rural girls and urban girls. What I said only represents my personal opinion, and I didn't deliberately say that urban girls are bad and rural girls are good. I just said a more common phenomenon. Girls in rural areas are early masters and early sensible. Although they are bitter, they never give in to fate. It's hard, it's hard to get close to your dreams. And city girls, who live a superior life, may not have that kind of consciousness, have to endure hardships and live the life they want.