When I was young, I read "Dream of Red Mansions" was struck by the part is the love story of the three people between Bao Dai Hairpin, Bao Yu and Dai Yu are very much in love with each other but there is no way to be together, I do not know how many tears cheated away. Bao hairpin seems to look down on Baoyu, but can feel that she intentionally or unintentionally put herself and Baoyu into a pair, perhaps in the unknown time she is also like Baoyu. So in the love and marriage between the three of them, in the end, who is the third party, is the outsider?
First, Baoyu's love is Daiyu, they love each other
Some people say that watching "Dream of Red Mansions" can feel the love is between Baoyu and Daiyu, Baoyu for Daiyu become dedicated and love, Daiyu also love miserable Baoyu, between the two of them from the early childhood bickering to the teenage love long, between them, if it's not love, then what is love?
Baoyu is very philandering a teenager, Daiyu has also been aggrieved by the Baoyu "heart has a sister, but a sister to see the sister to forget the sister," but from the age of the official and Jiaqiang love mode Baoyu know to treat a person to be dedicated, from now on, Baoyu's love for Daiyu, he can be good to all, but can only put the Daiyu! He can be good to everyone but he can only put Daiyu in his heart.
Baochai and Daiyu before and after into the Jiafu, but Baochai for Baoyu just sister, just relatives, she is never Baoyu's love, Baoyu was "Golden Jade Good Fortune" binding, but the unconscious dream of Baoyu are resisting this good fortune, Baochai sitting aside for Baoyu embroidered bib, at this time she is afraid that her heart in the blood dripping, do not know the love but for the love of suffering.
Second, Bao Yu and Baochai's marriage, respect is greater than loveWhether because of the "drop package plan" or because Daiyu early illness and death, Baochai and Bao Yu always have to have a marriage, but in this marriage, Baochai can never compare to Daiyu in the heart of Bao Yu's position, because of the passing of the youth and love is the most beautiful memories of a person. Beautiful memories, Baochai can never surpass. Baochai is Baoyu's wife, Baoyu can honor her and love her, but there is only mutual respect between them and there will be no more love.
Baochai and Baoyu between the "three views are different, can not be forced to integrate", they can do pillow, but not each other's sweetheart. Baochai like young BaoYu, informed and interested in treating people well, but his lack of progress will eventually let Baochai disappointed; Baochai's quick success can not understand BaoYu's mind, can not understand him to the ordinary things outside of the heart, she is not able to understand his people.
So there will be no love between them, they are relatives but that's all. After experiencing the Jiafu was plagiarized, Baoyu left the people out of the house, Baochai can sense but powerless to stop, perhaps at this time she can recall Baoyu's original poem "regret teaching son-in-law to find marquis," Baoyu's avoidance of the world is the reality of the confrontation, Baochai can only be left alone in the house, and her love has never blossomed.
Third, the story of three people, Baochai is always an outsider
In the love story of Bao Dai Hairpin three people, Baochai is always just the outsider, in the teenage years, we will be Daiyu and Baoyu between the pair, but even if she insisted on their own names and Baoyu together, we will not produce such an association.
Baoyu said: "It is a pity that I do not know where to go. If the fall in the crowded place, by the children got good, if the fall in the wilderness where no one smoke, I'm lonely for him. Think up to put me this to teach him two for companionship." So also cut with scissors, according to the first put away.
The Peach Blossom Society organized by Daiyu, people fly kites together, Baochai is a lonely goose, Baoyu watched Daiyu cut the kite, he also cut the kite together.
Baoyu this is the best confession to Daiyu and guard, always accompanied and life and death, Baoyu in this life and Daiyu not destined to tie the knot, but Baoyu's heart only belongs to Daiyu alone. Bao Hairpin can be involved in the love story of Bao Yu and Dai Yu, but never be able to become a player in the drama, she is not even enough as a third party, in the story of the three people she is just an outsider.
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