Having a child is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of concern for the whole family. In the ideology of the male elders in the family, only the birth of a boy in order to allow the family to continue, especially some of the generations of single families, the desire for the male is even more difficult to shake. They will always believe that the birth of a son can be the continuation of the flame, can continue to pass on the family, branching out, but also to let their grandparents are assured. In addition, many rural families still believe that raising children can prevent old age, the daughter is no longer good, but also can not give their own support for the last year.
2. The daughter can have more companionship and less separation
The daughter is a girl who was married out of the water, and her careful parenting can't withstand the fate of the eventual marriage. When she marries someone else, she will be far away from home and her parents, and for dads, the parting will be especially emotional as they lose their little lover from a previous life. But having a boy is different, they may spend more time around themselves, they will get married and start a family in an area where their parents can reach them, and even if they have their own family, they won't be too far away from their parents, who can be more easily contacted.
3. Raise children less worry
Girls need to be rich, from a young age, we have to spend more energy and financial resources in the education of children will have a lot of attention to the point of waiting for their daughters to grow up to become a family, but also to continue to worry about their lives for fear that their daughters will be bullied through the unhappiness. Boys can be less worried about parenting, like loose, parents will spend a lot less energy, especially the father, can get along with his son like a brother, reducing a lot of barriers and difficulties.
4. The boy's future struggle is wider
Nowadays, the social competition is very fierce, women are still in the disadvantageous group, in the career and life of the road will be more limited, and the birth of a boy, they grow up after the road can be wider, and can cultivate the boy's spirit of struggle, can be more courageous to break into the world, and to achieve a lot of work. Dads will be more optimistic about the future development of boys.