I was born in 76 years in Yantai, Shandong Province, that is, my father and mother risked their lives in the second operation to give birth to me {74 years when there was a brother he only lived 3 days}. At that time the family conditions than on the lack of it, from childhood I have been in poor health, easy to catch a cold, a cold turned into pneumonia, we have to go to the hospital to stay a week, but also constantly wheezing, my father's back left the shadow of my childhood, every year on New Year's Eve also carry me to play a shot, hope that I do not make a mistake in the New Year's month, at that time, my young heart left my father's tall back. In an instant, I went to school age, every morning, my father got up to give me a good breakfast {Mom is not good at cooking, and then I realized that when I was small, my mother got up to cook, my father wrapped his arms around me and I've been 'crying, and then my father could not bear to see me cry, and insisted on getting up to learn how to cook}, and after eating, it is a small bicycle to me to the street, and I went to school, and each time, I was urged to pay attention to security, and so has been insisted on! 8 years, he often said a sentence to now I still remember very clearly, learning to go to school is a day, school does not study hard to mix the day is also a day, this sentence has given me the motivation to study hard since I was a child.
Then I was in high school, college reading finished in 1999. My father is also slowly getting old, hair also gradually white (dad gave birth to me when 29 years old), at that time I was thinking, my father is so unknowingly old? He is 1 meter 77 tall, very thin Only 120 pounds, I often look at my father, heart very painful.
Graduated from college, I work in the field, and my father every now and then on the phone, each time he instructed me to work on a number of things, to 2001, I got married, my father came here once, so to 2009, his wife is pregnant, and is a dragon and phoenix child, he was very happy, before I know that my father is very much like a child, because I look at the neighbor's child's eyes and action, but I in order to start a business, I have always been very happy, but I have always been very happy. movements, but I never had children in order to start my own business. At that time, I told my father and mother that I wanted them to come over to see the baby, and they were very happy. I had always wanted them to come over and live with me, but my father and mother said that they could still work, and that they would come back when they had the baby. By the end of May 2009, my father gave me a phone call and said he went to do a gastroscopy, may not be very good, I was a little bit of brain, I grabbed back, the next day I went to check with him again and he was in the late stages of gastric cancer, at that time my father was only 112 pounds, I had countless times thought that my father would be able to get
a disease in the future, but I never thought that it would be cancer, the first hospitalized on June 1, and by the time I did the 2nd Physical examination found that there is a living shadow in the lungs, the doctor said it is not a good thing, my heart and confused at that time, it was the first to do the stomach surgery, after the June 15 hold up to the end of the month, to the Cancer Hospital of the Beijing Academy of Medical Sciences, bronchoscopy is a small-cell undifferentiated lung cancer, the stomach is a poorly differentiated carcinoma, which says that a person grows two different types of cancer, when my father can not see when I wiped the Tears, because I know that more money can not help, simple stomach words I think I try to prolong his survival, and so began to do chemotherapy, the effect does not want to be obvious. To a phase of chemotherapy last night, my wife is also going to give birth, August 27th two children were born without incident, I took the family back to the old family treats, my father was very happy, always hugging his grandchildren, and I said if I could wait for them to call a grandpa how good ah, I heard the heart of the heart sour is not a feeling, and then my father did three chemotherapy, know 2010 January 10th, Dad could no longer hold out, 5:00 am 25 minutes in the hospital left us, when the nutrition, medicine and blood are not transfused, I want to cry, finally lost my father. That year's snow was particularly heavy, Dad had said to me, the snow is big, do not send him back home, wait for the next year's Qingming Festival in the send him back to bury.
This
is my father, my great father, in the end or for us to consider, I cried.
Dad You left us intentionally for three and a half whole years, mom has been living with me, he looked after your grandchildren and granddaughter, every time I hear my son, my daughter asked me where their grandfather, why other children have grandpa, I can not help but want to cry, I said to the children that grandpa went to heaven to cultivate, he has always been in the caretaker of you ah, dad You rest assured that we are now very good, every New Year's Day, the holidays always think of you. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a pair of chopsticks, but you can never come back to live with us again, and you can't wait for your parents to come back to you, and you've dedicated 61 years of your life to us!
Dad, I wish you in heaven, can take care of your health to take care of themselves, we will live a better life, please rest assured!
How warm it is when you rise; forever I will remember, accompanied by my growing back, with your years for my carefree happiness! Wish you a happy holiday!