In fact, Nino is fragile. He enjoys the submission of a smart woman to me most, but he can't tolerate that women are more talented than him, and he will never assume the responsibility of husband and father. And such "Nino" is not much in real life.
They can let a woman slip away easily, wasting her youth and self-reliance, just like Anabel persuaded Lennon who tried to elope with Nino in the play: If you ruin your family for such a person, he will drain you, make you lose the desire to live, and then abandon you. (The same may be true for a job. )
In the end, these women like Lennon wasted their talents and opportunities and exhausted themselves in "not knowing what they want" and "swinging forward", which made us regret it and had to be vigilant. In fact, Lennon is the majority of us.
If you want to slip away, marry a similar man, have a baby when you are old, go home from work every day to be a housewife, follow the path of all mothers, and then gather grandchildren and dance in the square dance. It is not impossible to accomplish nothing in life.
Women, are you really happy about this? The end of exhaustion and abandonment. In order not to be deceived by sweet words and the aura of ghosts, why not study hard, absorb hard, grasp hard, never let go, never waver, and always pursue the little light in your life.
Lennon's experience tells us that if a woman is not bold enough, tough enough and sober enough, let go if she wants to fall.