How can people get along with each other to keep their feelings unchanged for a long time?

I think: be honest with each other and trust each other. Like friendship, friendship is also a kind of belief. If the wind can't blow and the rain can't rain, you can always make yourself happy, just like your family.

Sincerely treat you well, I won't pick you up because of your success, and I won't laugh at you and stay away from you because of your disappointment. When you are in trouble, do your best to help you know yours very well. In fact, sincerity alone is not enough. The so-called "intimacy" is to let others know your temperament, thoughts and so on.

You can be sincere to others and others can understand your sincerity. But he doesn't necessarily know your spiritual things. Even if you know each other, you may not know each other, because you need him to be similar in temperament and understand you. You should be similar in spirit, understand each other and have the same spiritual language. ?

A bosom friend is not something you can ask for, but also depends on your luck. There are many geniuses who are lonely all their lives and have no confidants. To a certain extent, no one knows his heart. For the vast majority of ordinary people, it may not be as profound and distinctive as those great geniuses, and it is often easier to communicate with others.

So they are unlikely to feel lonely. But for an ordinary person, true bosom friends are hard to find. Because intimate friends basically don't care about the gains and losses of interests, intimate friends have more real emotional pursuits and more spiritual pursuits besides their daily lives.

In the materialistic era, everyone is busy running for their future. Even if you make friends, how many sincere and intimate people can you have? So, don't be greedy for more intimate friends. When we find that a person may become a bosom friend, of course, we should actively strive for it, because it is a rare good luck given by God.