Do the following for mom and dad:
One, talk to mom and dad every day:
Working is so tiring, and there is still time and mood to talk? In fact, if you want to do something, you can definitely find the time! What to say? How to say?
Icebreaker topics: the changes in your child's day, anecdotes on the way to and from school, the weather, the taste and price of vegetables and fruits, popular TV shows and news, the health of the elderly, and so on.
Second, respect the right of parents to speak:
Parents used to educate their babies the same way they educated us back in the day, such as the most common "threatening": "If you ...... again, I will ......" or the "nagging" style, which is a never-ending stream of talk. "Threats can make children fearful. The "nagging" will make the child's ears grow calloused, saying as many times as not heard.
My approach to this has been to scowl and gesture at the parents, imploring them to stop, or to be outspoken in my denunciation of their parenting style. My parents were more "understanding" and whenever they saw my hints, they would simply stop talking or find someone their own age to talk to about it.
There is no right or wrong way to raise children.
How many families play all sorts of discordant notes on a daily basis because of small things? The triggers are tiny details, but the result is great discord. The difference in life experience with our parents is bound to bring about a difference in education style and philosophy. How to make parents receptive to our suggestions and willing to make an effort to explore with us the best way to educate their babies, please see the third point.
Three, from the heart to praise Mom and Dad:
Never cook the father suddenly for you to do a simple meal; home from work to see an extremely cozy home; high-heeled shoes on the bow decorations scattered, you tried half a day also did not pull a good, the next morning, but to see that the father has already helped you get it done; home flowers because of parental care in full bloom; parents of the new acquaintance of the friend I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it.
Mom's square dancing is getting better and better; Dad comes downstairs every day before breakfast to fetch up the milk; Mom and Dad's Mandarin is getting more and more standardized ...... As long as you're willing, you can find opportunities to praise your parents every day. A parent who is willing to accept praise is often not refusing to take suggestions.