Will you marry a soldier?

Question 1: Is it good to marry a soldier? Third, several practical problems in choosing soldiers: 1. The residence where most soldiers are located is difficult; 2, poor soldiers, everyone knows, married to a soldier, no money, no car, no room; 3. Marrying a soldier is facing the separation of the two places, and you have to pick your own burdens. Although you are married, you still live a personal life. Conclusion: Choosing a soldier is doomed to long-term waiting and caring. Choosing a soldier is tantamount to choosing to be strong; If you choose a soldier, you choose loneliness; As a soldier's wife, I realized that because of his uniform, many envious eyes could not drive away the loneliness of walking alone, and I also knew that the respected satisfaction that only a soldier's wife had could not stop a person from shouldering the heavy responsibility of family and the pressure of work. When you are a soldier's wife, you know that you have to endure loneliness, because they don't have too much time to accompany you. We should also develop the habit of shopping alone. Even if you end up with big bags and small bags all over your shoulders and arms, you should try to do it yourself as a weight loss exercise, because they won't appear at the entrance of the mall when you need help and labor most. Of course, we must be able to withstand the pain of lovesickness and waiting, because they will not only not appear in front of you when you miss him, but also give you a long-awaited hug, and you will look through the autumn water, even in your dreams, where his return and departure will make you cry on your pillow without knowing it; As a soldier's wife, you should have the courage to taste the plain life and the determination to resist the temptation of profit. They can't give you a luxurious home because they are poor. As a soldier's wife, you should keep the strength to seek medical advice alone when you are sick. You should form the habit of living alone, and it is best to have fun by yourself. You should be able to cope with this mess and loneliness when others are in pairs at a friend's party and you are alone. You should also be able to calmly and proudly say that your husband has made a third-class merit when friends are very happy about her husband's earning hundreds of thousands or helping her buy a diamond ring of several carats. Fourth, the reason why soldiers are respected: in essence, it is out of trust and love for the people's army, and it also reflects the ardent hopes of the people for the people's army from a certain angle and level. It should be said that this is a heavy love; It was the predecessors of the army who exchanged it in the bloody battle of bullets, and it was really hard to get it with the cat's ear cave in Laoshan, Faka Mountain, the earthquake shed in Tangshan and the human dam in the Yangtze River flood! It is life and blood! V. Question 17 of Choosing Soldiers: Question 1: What attracts you to the soldiers is the romantic fantasy caused by your career, or the lofty ideal of sharing your worries for the soldiers who are dedicated to national defense, which makes you choose soldiers? Second question: Do you know any restrictions on marrying a soldier? Question 3: Do you know the leave regulations for soldiers in China? Q 4: Do you know the housing system for soldiers in China? Q 5: Do you know the income of soldiers in China? Six questions: Do you know what the inevitable expenses of military personnel are? Q 7: Do you think the social status of soldiers is high now? Eight questions: Do you know the regulations on the resettlement of military personnel? Q 9: Do you know the job of a soldier? Q 1: Do you know what closed management is? Question 11: Do you know the rank distinction of soldiers? Question 12: Do you know the interpersonal relationship of soldiers? Thirteen questions: Do you know what kind of wife a soldier needs? Question 14: Do you know what kind of life a soldier yearns for? Question 15: Do you know the absolute meaning of "command" and "obedience" of soldiers? Question 16: Do you know and understand that soldiers drink? Question 17: Do you know there are many things you can't ask? Conclusion: If you have a clear concept of the above questions, you can choose! Be kind to the person who loves you

Question 2: Why do so many people want to marry soldiers? Are soldiers really that good? 4 points is not good, the soldiers now are different from the former soldiers, and the military spouse is certainly different. It is really not easy to become a military spouse. I used to have a military boyfriend, but I broke up in the end, because I found that it is really not a word to be a military spouse. Since you have chosen him, you have to pay, you can't have it both ways. If you want to love, you must give up your career. If you want a career, you have to sacrifice love. In your heart, love is important.

question 3: is it good to marry a soldier? Marry a soldier and you will become a military wife. You have to endure the loneliness of meeting only a few times in a year or so. At the same time, you will also enjoy different treatment and vision from other women.

Question 4: Will you marry an officer? Long-distance relationships are just so-so. But I don't regret marrying a soldier. It's glorious. As a woman, being a military spouse must first be able to endure loneliness and suffer.

Question 5: Ten advantages of marrying a soldier are/1. Loneliness; 2. The other party can't care about home; 3. It's ok to meet a good one, but it's difficult to get a bad divorce; 4. There is a lot of income, but there are many places to give gifts; 5. Some cultural qualities are low; 6. Long-term separation between the two places; 7. Start again when changing jobs; 8. The military uniform looks good, but it is not a meal; 9. There are few opportunities to go out with women for romance; 1. There are certain dangers.

Your purpose is: Have you thought about it? Can you accept this reality? Are you an idealized beauty who pursues soldiers? If you can consider every detail thoroughly, let's talk about the top ten benefits of marrying a soldier. I'm not throwing cold water on you, I'm responsible for you. The following is an example copied from Baidu Know. You can search for it yourself. There are many such cases.

how can I divorce an active serviceman?

Report | 21 Dan -12-15 17:18 Questioner: Anonymous | Number of visits: 973

I registered my marriage with an active serviceman Wang in January 23, and gave birth to a baby girl in October. Now I am one and a half years old, and I often quarrel because of my personality disagreement. Last July, I filed for a divorce by agreement, but he refused anyway. Now the contradiction is intensified and malicious harassment. Mainly because I didn't want to see him, I deliberately avoided him. When I met him, he followed me, making it impossible for me to live a normal life, grabbing my mobile phone and checking all my phone records. This happened before marriage. Because of his harassment, I left my former state-owned unit. Many people know that he also said that as long as he didn't agree, I couldn't divorce, and I would die together in my life. How can I divorce him? Is it good for me to sue?

Excuse me, my husband is a soldier. How can I get a divorce?

report | February 13, 211 1: 43 Questioner: My heart chills | Number of views: 1166 times

Every time he quarreled, he broke something, and this time he trampled the 47-inch TV set that we just bought in our new house for half a year. There is a 9-month-old son at home. He spends less than half an hour holding his son every day, and most of the rest time is spent on the computer. Don't take the initiative to do housework, and ask him to help. Last night, his son cried, and he shouted at his son, Why don't you cry to death! The son was more scared and cried. What should I do in this situation? He hit me once when I first got married, and I couldn't get up in bed for a long time. After quarreling, I broke something, because I said that if he hit me again, I would divorce him. I feel very tired and want a divorce. (We have a house after marriage.) I am still breastfeeding. Can the child be awarded to me? I'm really not at ease that the child was given to him! Supplementary question:

The baby is 1% ours. He is just impatient and doesn't like children. Usually, he can ask him to hold them for a while. If he really looks after the children, he can't. After holding them for ten or eight minutes, he says he is tired, and then he doesn't hold them. It's sad that he took it out on his son because we quarreled.

How to handle divorce with military personnel

Report | June 2, 21 13: 56 Questioner: Indifferent 112 | Number of visits: 113

He is a military person, but I am not. My child is three months old now

I want a divorce now, and I must have children

I don't know what to do?

His family doesn't like girls, but he said that he must have children in order not to get caught up!

And he also said that he would divorce if he couldn't give birth to a girl. Now he wants to have this child after divorce and marry someone else to have another child, so that he can have both children.

My family is better than him, so I have never had a job. He has been in a military school, and now he is studying for a doctorate, and his income is ok. Will this image me fighting for child custody?

Question 6: Why is it said that a woman who marries an officer is blessed because the officer will be honest, responsible and feel safe with the officer, and the woman will not suffer materially?

Question 7: What are the restrictions on marrying a soldier? 1. An overview of China's military marriage system

In 1963, the Supreme People's Court's "Report on Handling Cases of Disrupting Military Marriage" defined military marriage as follows: "It refers to a soldier's married wife and engaged fiancee. An engaged fiancee generally refers to a person who is recognized by the masses and relatives as having an engagement relationship with a soldier. " This view was always adopted before the promulgation of the Marriage Law in 198. At present, the legal effect of engagement is not recognized in the field of marriage and family law in China, and the engagement relationship between generals is excluded from military marriage, and the provisions of military marriage are not applicable to staff members who have no military status.

The military marriage system is an organic part of China's marriage system. Under the complicated domestic and international situation, there is still the possibility of local military conflicts. The quality of military marriage affects the stability of our army and the improvement of combat effectiveness. Therefore, military marriage has always been given special protection. The adjustment scope of the military marriage system is relatively wide, mainly including the marriage relationship between soldiers and soldiers, soldiers and non-soldiers, and the proper relationship between non-soldiers and military spouses. Military marriage system mainly includes military marriage system, divorce system and military marriage protection system.

as far as the military marriage system in China is concerned, from a macro perspective, there are the following defects: First, the legislative level of the military marriage system is too low. On the legal level, only two articles can be found, such as the provisions of the Criminal Law on the crime of destroying military marriage and the provisions of the Marriage Law on the consent right of soldiers in divorce. Other provisions on military marriage can only be found in various judicial interpretations, replies and replies. This has seriously affected citizens' knowledge of the law and how to abide by it. Even some regulations are used in practice, and the scope of publicity is limited. For example, in today's developed Internet, the Provisions on Several Issues Concerning the Implementation of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China by the Armed Forces cannot be retrieved in the legal database of the National People's Congress, but only the Questions and Answers to Journalists about the provisions can be found. I believe that proper legal education must be carried out in the military system. However, military marriage is not just a military matter, but also involves military spouses and military lovers. Therefore, it should be made public in an appropriate form. Second, the autocratic color is too obvious, and some regulations obviously violate human rights. For example, it is absolutely forbidden for soldiers to marry foreigners, and military spouses are deprived of their right to divorce. Third, some people are overprotected when it is unnecessary to protect them, while others are not given special protection. Discussed in detail below.

second, China's military marriage system

according to the provisions of the marriage law, marriage can be divided into substantive elements and formal elements. The following are the substantive elements and formal elements of military marriage.

(1) Essential elements of military marriage

In addition to meeting the conditions for ordinary people to get married, military marriage is stipulated in Articles 5, 6 and 7 of the Marriage Law: both parties to the marriage must be voluntary, and neither party is allowed to force the other party or interfere with it by any third party; The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 for men and 2 for women; Direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations, suffering from diseases that are medically considered unsuitable for marriage, are prohibited from getting married.

According to the Provisions on Several Issues Concerning the Implementation of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China by the Armed Forces (hereinafter referred to as the Provisions) and the requirements of the General Political Department to dispel doubts about this provision (hereinafter referred to as the Interpretation), the restrictions on the marriage partners and marriage time of military personnel are stricter than those of ordinary marriages.

The restrictions on the marriage partners of military personnel mainly come from two aspects. On the one hand, it mainly restricts military personnel to find marriage partners in the station, within the army and within the unit, and the restrictions are different according to the identity of military personnel. Conscripts can't find objects in the army or in the station. In principle, non-commissioned officers are not allowed to find someone to marry in the military station or within their own troops, but there are exceptions. Orphans, disabled people and individual non-commissioned officers who are over 3 years old and have real difficulties in finding objects in their original places, if they want to find objects in the military station, they should be strictly controlled and approved by the political organs of units above the corps level; Non-commissioned officers at or above the intermediate level serving in the border areas can only find an object at the station if they sign a resettlement agreement. The specific conditions and procedures are as follows: individual non-commissioned officers above the intermediate level who serve in frontier counties (cities), desert areas, remote areas designated by the state, and first-and second-class island troops determined by the headquarters, if they propose to find an object in the military station, must conform to the local ethnic policy, and only after consultation and consent by the political organs of units above the regiment level and the local civil affairs departments of the county-level people, and after approval by the political organs of units above the division level, can they be allowed to settle demobilized soldiers on the spot. On the other hand, military personnel are prohibited ... > >

question 8: is it good to marry a soldier? I want to hear some real feelings. He and I have been in college for 1 years, and we have often quarreled. However, along the way, our feelings are also quite good. Now we are in the army. Don't be too far away. Let's go to the same province. It's too far and unrealistic. Anyway, it's quite hard and not easy. Because the resident is a coastal economically developed city, other comrades who are married at the same time are basically divorced, and there are still several times left. It depends on the individual. You suffer from the poor resident.