My neighbor's child showed interest in drawing at a very young age, and would hold chalk and draw on the wall. When my neighbor saw this, he enrolled him in a class to learn how to draw, and he was very happy. But in the beginning, the child was still small and had no foundation, naturally the drawing was not so good, my neighbor let her child draw a dozen paintings every day, and slowly the child became disgusted with drawing, and began to be a little bit not good at learning. After that, she asked her mother if she could stop going to the cram school, and my neighbor said, "How can you not go when you've spent all the money? Isn't it a waste of money? Besides, weren't you the one who wanted to study in the first place? How can you learn in such a short period of time?" My neighbor's child was forced to go to a cram school.
When you see this, you have to wonder why your child doesn't do well even though he or she is enrolled in a cram school for his or her own good, or if he or she has chosen to take an interest class. Parents have never thought about whether it is their own problem?
Children ask what is not willing to learn art
1. children's resistance mentality
As the story above said, the child is interested in art at the beginning, just very simple like, and not utilitarian, and did not think about going to the competition and so on. However, the parents will naturally reflect this kind of utilitarianism, parents have the "hope that the son, hope that the daughter into a phoenix" heart, just excessive compulsion will make the child to have a reverse psychology, not willing to go to learn. This is a good interest, slowly will be worn out, the child will begin to hate to learn art, aversion to art, this is more unfavorable to the child to learn.
2. There is no child interested in
Music, painting, singing, etc. These arts require a certain degree of talent, but it is not so that there are children who have the talent to learn the arts. Parents sometimes look at other people's children to see what art they have learned and won awards, and then they want their children to learn, but have they ever considered their children's talent? Have parents considered their children's talent? Have they considered their children's interests? Children have their own interests, some children's interests are just to read books, you let a completely uninterested in art, love to read the child to learn art? How can they learn it well?
3. There is no respect for the child's wishes
It is very understandable that parents would want to enroll their children in tutorials to learn art. Ten pairs of parents want their children to be successful. But have you ever thought about the child's own wishes? Some parents will say, "children, do not know anything, let her do what do what on the line." Children do not know nothing, they know they like it or not. In the face of parental coercion, they have no room for resistance, but to do as they are told. But let the age to release their own nature to spend so much time every day to learn things they do not like, the child will not be happy. Children are not tools for adults to satisfy their own vanity, they have their own ideas. Respecting the child's own choices will allow the child to grow up better, after all, there is only one Lang Lang.
What effect does learning art have on a child1. Exercise memory
The learning of art can make a child smarter. This is because the arts stimulate the development of the brain, making it more sensitive and coordinated, not only for memory and perception but also for the development of spatial and temporal sense. Memory and sensibility improved, the child's learning ability and learning efficiency will naturally come up, the child's grades will also go up. The better the child learns, the more fun it is to learn, and naturally, parents don't have to worry about their children's grades.
2. Cultivate imagination
Imagination is the basis for creativity. With bold creativity, the child's intellect continues to develop, and with rich imagination, the child's learning can continue to progress.
Einstein said: Imagination is more important than knowledge, because knowledge is limited, and imagination encapsulates everything in the world, drives progress, and is the source of knowledge evolution.
Nothing in this world is more abstract than art. Yet the study of art is the easiest thing in the world to inculcate in a child's temperament because its scope for imagination is limitless. Therefore, the study of art is irreplaceable for the development of a child's imagination.
3. Improve your child's hand-brain coordination
Imagine that when a child faces a musical score and starts to play, he memorizes the notes and various markings that he sees in a few seconds and reacts to them immediately and then, through the instructions given by his brain, he makes his fingers move deftly. This series of movements exercises the child's hand-brain coordination without him realizing it. But not too early to let the child to learn, which will greatly frustrate the child's enthusiasm for the arts, should be appropriate to the child to play some music, teach the child to dance simple dance, so that the child to live in an artistic atmosphere of the environment, to enhance the child's interest in the arts. Only if the child is interested, will he or she work hard to learn, and can better exercise the child's hand-brain coordination.
Correctly guide the child's interest in the arts
The child from a certain interest, to the formation of hobbies, to the development of a certain specialty, it should be said that there is a process, parents can not be in a hurry, and must pay attention to the life of the child gradually cultivate the interests of the interests of hobbies and specialties.
1. Create an atmosphere that stimulates the engine
Literary giant Lu Xun once said: "The child of the reader's family is familiar with pen and ink, the carpenter's child will play axe and chisel, the soldier's son early knowledge of the knife" Mr. Lu Xun himself. The family environment in which he lived as a child had a good literary atmosphere, and he grew up familiar with the poetry of Li Bai, Bai Juyi, Lu You and others, as well as the Chinese classical masterpiece Journey to the West, which laid a solid foundation for him to later embark on the path of literature.
If you want to cultivate your child's interest in the arts, then parents should choose whether to play music or watch a painting exhibition or go square dancing, depending on your child's interests. You may also want to tell your child the story of an artist's success, which can lead to the child's admiration for the artist and thus love the art. After a long period of exposure, the child will naturally have a strong interest in the arts, so that the parent's desire to turn the child into a conscious action.
If the child consciously want to do things, the effect will be twice as effective, if the child does not want to do things, the effect will be twice as effective.
If you want to cultivate your child's interest in the arts, in addition to creating an artistic atmosphere in the home, so that it is influenced by the subtle influence, you should also focus on stimulating the child's motivation to learn.
Suzuki is a famous Japanese violin educator, in order to cultivate the child's interest in learning the violin, he pays great attention to stimulate the child's motivation to learn the violin. He first let the child play while watching other children practicing the violin, when the child saw that other people have a violin, and they have nothing, a desire to get the violin arose, nevertheless, Mr. Suzuki did not rush to meet the child's desire, but gave him a silent violin, let it practice playing posture, fingering and so on.
After a period of time, the child's desire to play the violin became stronger and stronger, and it was only then that Mr. Suzuki fulfilled his wish. Therefore, to create an atmosphere, stimulate the engine is to cultivate children's interests, hobbies and specialties of the preparatory stage, as parents can not be ignored.
2. Improve their own art
For a variety of reasons, some parents missed the opportunity to learn. But they don't want their children to be as lacking as they are in the arts, so they tend to save money and buy all kinds of books on painting and drawing, buy all kinds of musical instruments, hire a tutor, and do everything they can to cultivate their children's interests, hobbies, and specialties. This is of course necessary, but the parents' own cultivation also has an important influence on the cultivation of their children's interests, hobbies and specialties. If the parents' cultural quality is low and their artistic cultivation is lacking, it will be difficult for them to bring their children aesthetic enlightenment and artistic cultivation. Imagine, if the parents themselves do not read, do not read the newspaper, do not go to the theater, do not like art exhibitions, do not love to listen to music, how can we ask their children to have art cells, interested in it? Parents are the mirror of the child, the child is the shadow of the parents, parents of a word and every move will be turned into a trickle, bit by bit into the child's mind, to become a catalyst for the development of children's interests, hobbies and specialties.
3. Be good at praising and encouraging children
No matter how clumsy the child behaves, no matter how bad he does things, parents should not blame, should be guided by the heart, from the psychology of the child to give care and encouragement, to protect and stimulate the child's interest. For example, the child likes to draw, if the child draws in the room, the floor is very dirty, parents should not be furious, and do not because the child can not meet the requirements of the painting and to stop. They should be concerned and ask the child if he or she is doing well, give positive comments and encouragement, and then tell the child where he or she can and cannot draw. In addition, parents should also provide children with the necessary painting environment and painting tools, it is best to take the time to participate in the child's painting, together to appreciate the child's paintings, and even use the child's paintings to decorate and furnish the room. This can enhance the child's self-confidence and motivate him to paint better. Over time, painting will become a part of your child's life, and being a painter will become his dream.
In short, there are many ways to cultivate children's interests, hobbies and specialties, can not be generalized, each parent should be based on their own different conditions and children's different performances, according to the different people, according to the teaching of the best, suitable for the best, have you learned?