People with bad temper are generally impulsive people. In the face of many things, they often rely on their own perceptual knowledge to deal with problems, which is very bad. If you don't treat problems so impulsively and rationally, your temper will be much better.
People with bad temper tend to be talkative and aggressive when they treat others, which will not only leave a bad impression on others, but also encourage your bad temper while others tolerate you.
People with bad temper usually lack self-control, which is actually easy to exercise. When you are doing something that you find interesting, if you stop doing it, you have nothing to lose except unpleasant feelings, so force yourself to stop immediately.
Suggestion: Doing long-distance running every day is also a good way to exercise self-control ability, 2000 meters a day. If you persist every day, your self-control ability will definitely improve, but it will not improve if you fish for three days and dry the net for two days.
Our personalities can be said to be very strange. Some people are gentle, some people are irritable, some people have no temper, and some people are stubborn to death. Why are some people so stubborn? Can such people get along?
Why is it difficult to treat people?
Stubborn people generally only recognize their own principles, so they always like to argue with others and stick to their own ideas, but they are unwilling to agree with others. At least half of the reasons for this personality are hereditary, and parents' personality will have an impact on children's personality. Secondly, the living environment from childhood will also determine a person's temper.
For a stubborn person, there may be factors that affect his temper in the family environment. According to research, children have different self-control and extroversion from the age of two, which is mainly related to their parents and their specific family environment, so parents have the greatest influence on their children's personality and temper.
Because of heredity, environmental influence and years of habits, it is difficult to change a person's stubborn temper, because once this habit is formed, it takes a long time to change, and it is easily influenced by other things, so it is difficult to treat a stubborn person.
What's wrong with a particularly stubborn person?
There are many people in life who are particularly stubborn. Never argue with such people, or they will argue endlessly unless they listen to him. A person's personality is related to his living environment and growing environment. In addition, parents' heredity will also affect a person's personality, so a person's bad temper is caused by many factors, such as living environment and parents' heredity.
In life, when getting along with people with bad temper, we must pay attention to patience. People with bad temper are stubborn, and communication must be very troublesome. Before communication, make several communication plans. Secondly, when communicating with them, we must take into account each other's face. The reason why they are stubborn is actually to save face, so the more wrangling, the longer the communication time, and the result may not be satisfactory.
If you really have no choice, you can find a stubborn person to trust and a person with more authority than him to communicate with him. In this way, communication will be easy under pressure or trust. When communicating with them, when you are in a good mood, you should seize the opportunity and get twice the result with half the effort.