Wen/Xiaoshi
01
Why don't you think about what you've done when you complain that this society is unfair to you?
Put your mind at ease, lower your expectations of yourself, set a small goal for yourself every day, refuse to procrastinate, and write about what you love. Since you can't change your life, change yourself.
People have to learn self-regulation, self-redemption, if you yourself is a dark person, every day in the look at some negative energy things, that there is what happiness can be said? If you have lost your love for life, you expect it to give you hope?
In the low mood, don't be annoyed, don't complain about yourself, and don't feel useless, because even if you are annoyed, you can't solve any problem, this time, you have to force yourself to calm down, give yourself two days of vacation, adjust your mind, and then continue to work hard.
In fact, there is only one way to fight against irritability and anxiety, and that is to face it squarely, and then accept its existence, not to admit defeat, but to know where it is the problem, and then go to change, which will always be more effective than the empty thought.
Perhaps the source of many of our troubles is that we never really want to change! It's more important to take the first step forward than to figure out where to go, just like you never know where you're going until you go out.
To live a good life, believe in yourself, although, the world without you will still turn, but there are always a group of people, without you can not.
02
Hard time can be a little bit of indulgence, this time you can not who's wife, not who's husband, not who's parents, not who's children, you just your own.
A long life, the road is still very far, indulgence should also have degree, in the indulgence, to quickly adjust their own, back to the best state, because no matter how late the day, there are people waiting for you to go home, no matter how difficult the road, there are people to accompany you to go, you are not alone.
It doesn't matter if you don't have a lot of money in your life, because a normal life is also very beautiful. You don't have to envy anyone, because at the same time you envy someone else, there are also people envying you, you don't have to look up to someone else, you yourself are also the scenery.
There may be a lot of people do not like you, this is very normal, because you are not RMB, can not make everyone like, because the world itself is not the same two leaves, you yourself is a unique existence.
The road of life is still very long, you are still very young, to maintain a positive heart, can not go on, do not have to pretend to be strong, people are vulnerable, but after the fragile to be revitalized, because decadence, will only make your life worse.
You can go out and play in your free time, relax, and tomorrow will be another day full of power.
03
When you are young, you should struggle, you can't be satisfied with the status quo, and you can't just muddle through in a comfortable environment, have you thought about the future?
When you are hunched over, hobbling, looking at others lying in a sleeper chair, drinking afternoon tea, and go to the square dance in the evening, you are still face to face with the soil back to the sky of the labor, only to regret the youthful inaction? Late!
When you are tired, you can take a short break, after all, the road is still long, to learn to combine labor and leisure.
Don't ask too much of yourself, once in a while a little lazy, smoke a little crazy, not hurtful.
The future road must be more difficult, but what does it matter? The road is not all people walk out of it? As long as you're willing, the harder road isn't a problem.
On this road, everyone will encounter a lot of big and small cans, can not cross, is the Valley of Extinction, cross the past, is a stepping stone.
In the coming days, although there will be a lot of difficulties, but don't be discouraged, life is a long road, don't be afraid, belong to your happiness, in the hand, in front of you, but also in the distance.
People will be afraid, will be afraid of normal, but afraid to escape, to avoid? Fear and fear are not all need to overcome? Just like Lu Xun said: "The real warrior dares to face the miserable life, dares to face the drenching blood."
Dongqing said: "The brave man is not the one who does not shed tears, but the one who continues to run with tears in his eyes."
Being a human being, you can not blame others for everything, the shoes are dirty, it is your own choice of the road is not clean.
People live a lifetime, to learn to ask others less why, and more to ask what they are based on.
The road of life is still long, remember to smile, remember to be kind.
This sentence to myself, but also to you.
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