An unexpected scene happened. An aunt with half-white hair slowly approached the boy with her hands akimbo. When the boy slipped away from her, she stretched out her left foot and tripped the boy. Unexpectedly, the boy landed on his face and fell heavily on the ground. He hasn't got up for a long time. The girl skateboarding behind the boys was shocked to see this scene. She casually looked at the grandmother who had done bad things and her little friend who fell to the ground.
This is another controversy about the competition for public places. When the needs of both sides overlap and compromise cannot be reconciled, contradictions and conflicts naturally arise. However, the competition for the venue of the square dance aunt has happened many times all over the country.
Previously, on the basketball court in Luoyang Park, Henan Province, a group of grandfathers and grandmothers danced here, trying to drive away the young people who came to play. The two sides were deadlocked, and the old man surrounded the young people with the advantage of numbers. It was not until the police arrived that the storm was calmed down.
Nowadays, with the improvement of living standards in China, material civilization can no longer meet our needs, and spiritual civilization has become a new pursuit that brings us a higher level of pleasure, while the old people are keen on square dance, which is also the embodiment of promoting spiritual civilization in China. Square dance is also a very healthy form of entertainment. The old man has worked hard for most of his life, and now he can have his own hobbies and enjoy family happiness. This is what we, as the younger generation, are happy to see.
If it is only because of the lack of public places, it is understandable to be polite as a young man. However, in recent years, in order to dance square dance, these uncles and aunts have repeatedly made behaviors that disturb social security by unscrupulous means. At the same time, some elderly people are not only difficult to communicate, but also rely on the elderly to bully the weak and fear the hard, which makes the contradiction of venue disputes escalate again.
This society always habitually ignores the elderly, and those who ignore public order and good customs directly regard age as the capital of "moral" kidnapping. I want to ask: how can you have the heart to trip up innocent children in order to compete for this small dancing space? How would you react if your grandson was maliciously abused and your child was besieged and beaten?
At the same time, it also exposed a serious problem. When the interests of the two companies conflict, our handling method becomes the most critical factor. The old man maliciously stumbles the passing children with his feet, and relies on the strength of the crowd to insult or even beat the young people who want to play ball. Their radical and even vicious handling methods often make contradictions more complicated.
These old people are endowed with more authority by society in terms of age and experience, but at this moment, they have become villains who secretly hurt people and rogues who make trouble without reason. They keep asking everyone to respect the elderly, but they don't know that it is their evil deeds that make us lose the respect and love we deserve for them.
It is very difficult to completely solve such conflicts. Old people think that children's rough play affects their square dance, and children have a lively and naughty nature, and they are at the age of physical development, and they also need space to exercise and grow. In the final analysis, the contradiction of all this lies in the lack of space, and the existing activity space can not meet everyone's needs.
In recent years, with the continuous expansion of urbanization, land and money are scarce in cities, and it is an inevitable trend that there are more people and fewer resources. In other words, we can't change this situation in a short time. However, we can make more detailed planning and management of public venues. When the quality and public awareness of some citizens are not enough to support the standardized use of public venues, the zoning management of venue use becomes very necessary.
Young people should respect the old, and the old should have the demeanor of the old. But we respect the behavior and experience of the elderly, not their age. After all, no matter how old they are, as long as their behavior is wrong, we should not blindly respect and give in, but stand up and correct their behavior.