First of all, count the number of social phenomena in which children become famous too early
1. This child is overexposed in front of the media
With "Where's Dad?", not just five dads, but five more. , not just five dads, but five adorable babies with different personalities.
Do you remember the little girl watching the machine? Now it's Cindy's face. Shi participates in various variety shows and walks around with her father every day. Wang Shiling appeared on the cover of Mommy & Baby magazine with his parents. Lin's microblog also revealed the first advertisement footage of Kimi's endorsement, which attracted more attention from the audience.
Even if you're not a second-generation star, there are other ways to become famous, such as being the spokesperson for some important events. Remember that Olympic girl Milk Lin? Milk Lin started shooting commercials at the age of 6. In 2008, as a guest performer at the opening ceremony of the Beijing Olympics, he sang the song Singing the Motherland. Later, the netizens called after Jin Ming, "China's first child star".
Going on a program is also a good way to make a child famous. For example, Alpha, a boy from Xinjiang, has won the "Very Star Award" since the beginning of "Very 6+1", and many programs have invited the handsome Alpha to perform. Alpha has stayed in the CCTV brand programs such as "Happy Dictionary", "Avenue of Stars", "the whole family", "Tonight".
2. Let the child famous, some parents crazy
"Expect children to be successful, expect women to be successful," is human nature, but some parents can not be realized in the child's ideal. In order to make their children become "star" babies, some parents want to do everything possible.
If they think there's a way to make their kids famous, they'll go crazy. For example, they make their children appear in many TV shows and movies from an early age, or they frequently participate in various talent shows.
And, whenever there is an opportunity for exposure, they will take it. Even if it affects their children's schooling, they will still enjoy it. It is said that some of the "hot" children have a fixed schedule for a day, N programs, which makes them very tired.
Take your child to learn English before he can speak clearly, take him to the Children's Palace before he can learn a few words, take him to the mental arithmetic class and OU class can not even count from 1-10.... There is nothing wrong with wanting your child to be a gifted baby and a big star, but it depends on the reality.
Second, is it really a good thing for a child to become famous early?
1. It's not a good thing for a child to be famous
Among a group of famous child stars starting in the 80s, I'm afraid that in addition to Shixiao Xiaolong, who is still in the movie industry, the other ones, such as Jin Ming, Jiang Xiaohan, Gong Ao, Guan Ling, etc., have long been forgotten by the audience. How many of those child stars can be remembered?
Almost overnight, many small celebrities in the media rose to fame, almost everyone has a lot of money. I was either two years old watching news broadcasts or memorizing hundreds of surnames by heart.
Today's celebrities are getting more and more famous, and have broken through the stages of talent shows and variety shows, from singing to talent shows to playing the role of a full-fledged blogger. It is almost every parent's long-cherished wish to make their children famous, but many parents are currently going too far in realizing this long-cherished wish. There is no real benefit to a child's growth when they become famous early.
2. The danger of children becoming famous too early
(1) First of all, it is not good for his psychological growth. Many small celebrities may be very successful now, but compared with their peers, they have to bear more psychological pressure and may not be too happy. When a child is recognized by many people, it will affect his normal life. Too much praise and attention can easily make a child restless and proud.
Some children are even "overwhelmed" by this kind of life and find it difficult to adapt to society. Generally speaking, "people crazy" children tend to become a small star, but once this temporary growth characteristics are aberrant to promote, it is easy to lead to the child's psychological development is not sound.
(2) Restrict the possibility of comprehensive development. Parents tend to project their own loss onto their child's development, and once this is done, the child becomes a puppet or tool to be manipulated. This in itself hinders the child's freedom of choice.
In addition, children are too young and inexperienced, and "teenagers don't know how to worry" can easily lead to all kinds of problems.
Third, do you want to be famous? It's still up to the child
Children are still at an age where they don't have a choice. Maybe they think it's fun to be on TV and have never thought about being famous. At this time, parents should learn to analyze with their children, guide them, understand their real needs, and let them choose whether to take this path.
1. Decide based on the child's own characteristics
Become a child star, is this a decision based on the child's personality? Is the child suitable for this path? If the parents' expectations of the child match the child's characteristics, it will be good for the child, while if it is only the parents' unilateral will, it may be unfavorable to the child's physical and mental health.
So, if parents want their children to be famous, the first thing to look at is whether they have a talent for performing and like performing. If your child is shy and doesn't like to stand in front of people, and you insist on letting him take the road of acting, it's counterproductive.
When Japanese actress Momoe Yamaguchi was faced with the challenge of inviting her children to join the show business, her husband, who is also an actor, always politely declined: "The children are still young and need to be educated in all aspects. As for what kind of road they need in the future or what kind of road is suitable for them, they should choose for themselves when they grow up ...... "Perhaps, such a case can give parents who want their children to be famous some inspiration.