Imitation is a child's nature. Imitation is a way of children's education: after two years old, babies like to imitate the language expression and personal behavior of parents and other babies. Children sometimes repeat their parents' words like megaphones, and sometimes imitate their mothers' makeup and wear their mothers' high heels. They found it very interesting and imitated it on cloud nine.
The scope of imitation is universal: children's imitation of personal behavior has begun since birth. He will observe his parents' small expressions and then imitate them. Many children's imitation is a confirmation of their personal behavior. At first, it is the imitation of human body and posture, and then it is the abstract things with great difficulty coefficient, such as imitating parents' speech, imitating the elderly and imitating the square dance aunt.
Imitation ability is better than that of adults: once there was a three-year-old boy who often accompanied his grandmother to watch others dance in the city square of a certain district. The child learned the realm of life when the music started, and was called "Square Dance Baby". There are not many such examples. Children are born with strong imitation ability and fast learning ability, which far exceeds that of adults.
The child's imitation of personal behavior shows that his thinking has risen to a higher level of talent, and he can understand and grasp the ability behind someone's behavior! It is the result that parents want to see. The occurrence of children's imitation behavior is beneficial to children's development, but it is likely to have adverse effects.
Children always imitate the behavior of adults and have good and bad habits: some parents don't pay attention to their own behaviors, and they have all kinds of bad behaviors in front of their children, which will cause extreme harm to their children. For example, if the father smokes at home, the child will soon learn the posture of smoking, which is likely to cause personal behavior of smoking when he grows up. Parents don't like brushing their teeth, rinsing their mouths and washing their feet before going to bed. Often buckle your feet, expectorate and pick your teeth. This unhealthy lifestyle will hurt their children.
Harm to the development trend of language expression: If parents speak illegibly, stutter, speak loudly and swear words, children are likely to imitate their parents intentionally, develop the habit of slurring and stuttering, which is difficult to correct, or always speak their hometown dialect or swear words, seriously endangering the development trend of children's language expression ability.
The development trend of harmful personality: according to the careful observation of parents, children find that their parents have various bad behaviors, such as cheating, lying, reneging, etc. But it is difficult for children to tell whether this kind of personal behavior is appropriate. Children think that parents can do that and it should be an acceptable personal behavior, so they learn a series of bad behaviors, such as cheating, lying, reneging and so on. , thus endangering their moral values and personality development trend.
Imitation is not only good for children, but also bad for children. The key is what parents do. With the correct guidance of parents, children will become better and better.
Proper and correct guidance from parents can make children better. For example, the natural environment for children's development is harmful to the development trend of children at all levels, and parents, as their first teachers, are even more harmful to children. Parents should first set an example and set an example for their children to learn. What kind of person do parents expect their children to be, and what kind of person do they work hard to become first.
Parents can't live without China's classical poems, and children will learn to recite ancient poems; Parents swear a lot, and children will of course swear. Parents can think about themselves first and see what bad habits they have, and then correct them one by one. Parents, don't endanger their children's future because of their willfulness and forgetfulness. Parents should work hard for their children to grow up happily!
Direct motivation: After two years old, children often perform imitation shows in various places, such as imitating the slow speeches of elders, imitating the words spoken by family members with small expressions, imitating the classic lines and gestures of characters in TV dramas, and imitating the signature actions of big-name stars. When the child imitates it vividly, parents should give it to the child at the first time. There is no doubt that this is a great incentive for children, and children will have more interest and self-confidence to imitate more difficult.
Sometimes, although children are diligent, they don't imitate the brand image, and parents and other family members don't have to make fun of them, which will greatly damage their self-esteem and improve their sense of loss. Parents should give their children your thumbs up, give them attention and praise, or extend their arms and give them a warm hug, which will make them feel endless energy and urge them to keep trying until they succeed.
Pay attention to correct guidance: if children learn all kinds of bad behaviors and impolite expressions, parents should immediately emphasize and correct them, and never ignore them. For example, if children love swearing, parents should first tell their children that swearing is wrong. They should teach their children what a civilized language is and how to use it. In addition, they should look for the root cause and see where children learn it. If it involves family members, adults must correct it at the first time.
If it is related to a friend or teacher in kindergarten, communicate with the teacher immediately; If other friends or family members are involved, parents should keep their children at a certain distance as far as possible to ensure that their children have a pure and natural language expression environment. Parents immediately and correctly guide the children to understand the existing problems and take the initiative to correct them.
Imitation is a valuable ability for children. Children's small expressions, intonation, language expression and walking are all imitated. Imitation is a necessary professional skill for children. Parents, I hope everyone will work hard to create a better brand image and set a good example for their children.
Parents, do your children like imitation? How do you guide children to imitate properly? If you have good suggestions, why not comment below and share them with a large number of parents ~