My name is Rouge, born in the countryside will have to escape the arrangement, in my 22 years old, to the matchmaker introduced me to meet my husband, he is next door to the village of people, looks quite white, just too honest, too honest, I don't like him too much of this character, but the parents are very satisfied, but also said that such a man will not bully the daughter-in-law, in their rounds of praise, I also agreed to the This marriage, everything should have been a matter of water, but because of the matter of the bride price, the marriage once to the point of yellow.
According to the rules of the countryside, in the marriage, the man should give the woman's parents a certain amount of dowry, from the beginning of the discussion of a colorful head, and then the dowry is more and more heavy, so that now it has become a comparison of chips, parents are not the kind of people who are greedy for money, but some good face, if you let other people know that their daughters' dowry to be less, then there is no light on the face, so the parents' intention is to let the mother-in-law get The bride price is 100,000 yuan, and then after we get married, they will give me the money as it is. However, my mother-in-law refused to do so and insisted on giving only 60,000 dollars. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm sure I'll be able to find a way to make it work for you.
After the marriage, my mother-in-law often in front of me to show off her power, I think I as a girl like to call, think parents do not dare to take her how, there was not much housework to do, so I was lazy with her, after all, I and my husband work all the year round, and also at home for a few days, but in the first two years of our marriage, I was pregnant, and the doctor said that my body is relatively weak and the placenta is not stable, must not be tired, and this is the reason for the death of a woman. The doctor said that my body is relatively weak, and the placenta is not stable, must not be tired, so my husband let me quit my job, focus on home to raise the baby, when my mother-in-law knows that I am pregnant, but also to take care of me, so my husband can rest assured to continue to go out to work.
In my pregnancy 5 months, my mother-in-law took me to a small clinic to do ultrasound, the doctor informed me that I am pregnant with a daughter, I was quite happy, but my mother-in-law was drooping, after returning home, she did not take good care of me, and also called my husband to let him come back, and so my husband came back in a hurry, my mother-in-law in front of the two of us, said: "I want to separate from you, now you are married, my heart is done, the rest of the matter is your own, I should enjoy the blessing to go", my husband heard: "Mom, wait two years, after all, now rouge pregnant, you still have to take care of it", the mother-in-law but justified. mother-in-law, but justified: "pregnant with a what a fuss, I was pregnant with you when you still go to work, and also pregnant with a money-losing, what can be pretentious", after listening to the words of the mother-in-law, it seems that she is determined to split the family, the husband would like to say something, I preempted that, since you say that split the family, that split, the so-called split is actually in the middle of the family, the husband said, the husband said that the mother-in-law will not be able to take care of the family. The so-called split, in fact, is in the middle of the pull a wall, and then each eat each other.
After the separation of the family, my husband was worried that I was not safe alone, he found a job in the county, and then came back every night to take care of me, while my mother-in-law lived a very prosperous life, and every day after dinner went out to go around, not to play cards, or to go to the square dance, and lived a very elegant life. I had to let my mother come over to wait for me to sit in the moonlight, and when I finished, I let my mother go back, I was alone at home to take care of the child, my husband went out to earn money during the day, and at night to help me take care of the child together.
Waiting until my daughter was 3 years old, I also practiced a baby skills, I can say that taking care of my daughter is not at all difficult, the most difficult time, I was through, that day, my mother-in-law was crying through the wall and said: "Rouge, my arm is hurt, I can't cook, can you come over to help me cook," after listening to my mother-in-law's words, I retorted, and then I was in a state of shock. After hearing my mother-in-law's words, I retorted, "We agreed that no one would care about anyone, and it was you who initiated the separation of the family, so why do you want me to serve you again? At this point, the mother-in-law realized their own mistakes, she cried and said: "good daughter-in-law, when it was my fault, and now I'm old, a lot of old illnesses often recur, you have pity on me as a wife, to my old age," after listening to my mother-in-law's begging, I feel both ridiculous and angry, everyone said, I should do?