Sister Duo went to dance practice just after she turned four. Because the body is soft enough and the appearance is delicate, the teacher said that he is a good candidate for dancing, so practice hard!
I am not convinced about the dance teacher’s enthusiasm, but I am more worried.
Then at the end of the year, there were spots for children to dance with the provincial TV Spring Festival Gala, and the dance teacher recommended Duo Jie to go.
Sister Duo is naturally happy, so that she can be seen on TV. Although the extra training for the children participating in the Spring Festival Gala was very hard, she was able to follow along and practice.
Only gradually, her uncoordinated body and weak sense of rhythm became apparent. Compared with other children, her movements are half a beat slower.
I think she also clearly felt that she seemed to be slower than other children.
Jie Duo is a pretty child. When walking on the road, someone will turn around and say: Look, that child is so pretty. My brain is pretty good at learning things, especially arithmetic. I can calculate quickly and well.
This is the first time that she feels that she has done something bad, which makes me very worried.
Then, one day, she suddenly said: Well, I decided not to attend the Spring Festival Gala.
I asked: Have you decided?
She nodded: Well, yes, I won’t go.
I said: This way you will miss an opportunity to be on TV.
She said: Yes, I know.
I am sure again and again: No regrets? In fact, we can ask the teacher to put you in the back row...
"I don't regret it, it doesn't matter." Sister Duo smiled with her dimples~
I remembered that I When I was in grade one, I was selected by the teacher to perform on stage on Children's Day.
At the beginning, I was arranged to stand at the front, but as I practiced, my limbs became uncoordinated and I couldn't keep up. Then the teacher put me in the middle and then to the side.
I started crying on the way home that day. I cried so sadly and wronged that I still remember it twenty years later.
On the day of the Children's Day performance, I didn't even let parents watch it. I felt it was a humiliation.
But the same thing seems to have no effect on Sister Duo. She should take dance classes seriously.
She does not think that it is unacceptable that she still cannot do something despite her efforts.
As for facing this problem, I still can’t handle it well. From many perspectives, the little girl who came home crying has not grown up.
However, when Duojie was four years old, she was able to accept her shortcomings in talent calmly. She said: It doesn’t matter if I’m not good at dancing. I’m great at painting!
I don’t know if you feel the same as me. You have been questioned too much since you were a child. Maybe it is unintentional, maybe it is to use a "suppressive" method to encourage us to do better.
Growing up in such an environment, many people will not be able to accept themselves calmly in the end, and will become blind and even fragile.
Because I feel that I am not good enough, I blindly worship the "good" ones.
Yes, girls need to be wealthy and cannot be tricked out of their homes by greasy old men for a meal or a ride.
To be honest, it is not difficult to do this.
There is no worship of money, but there is worship of IQ and halo.
These all indirectly reflect the inner feeling of lack.