However, the opposition between Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu written by the author does not mean that they become rivals in love for the same marriage object as written in the sequel (Lin Daiyu's suspicion of Xue Baochai ceased to exist after the forty-second chapter of Yan Zhi Bian). Facts such as Zhi Yanzhai's comments point out that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are a pair of "good couples" in the future in everyone's mind, and the author does not want to show the irrationality of feudal arranged marriage through their fate. The tragedy of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu described by the author is closely related to the theme of the collapse of feudal families in the book. Their tragedy is the result of the Jiafu incident.
If we carefully observe the puns and hidden meanings of these words, we can find that "bees and butterflies are in chaos" is a symbol of the chaotic scene of the Grand View Garden when things change. Xue Baochai has always been noble and self-sufficient, and the "ugly disaster" will not touch her. Besides, she has good social skills, so she is proud of "dancing" and "uniformity" in her speech. Lin Daiyu, on the other hand, can't help but gather and mourn, just like falling catkins. Xue Baochai can "let her get along" and "never change", so after Lin Daiyu's death, there will inevitably be an opportunity of "golden marriage", which will make Xue Baochai rise to the peak.