Share some moments when parents think their children grow up. I hope that time can leave these turning points in growth, so that we can catch up with the children and witness their growth step by step.
1. When you no longer like snacks.
I've been busy with my work and haven't spent much time with my children. Once I came back from a business trip, the whole family went to the supermarket together.
Go to the snack area and say to the child, "Son, choose what you like to eat."
"Dad, how old am I? I have long since stopped eating snacks."
Only then did I find that my child had grown up unconsciously, and I couldn't help feeling guilty. How many moments I missed when he grew up.
The first time I washed my feet.
On Thanksgiving Day, the kindergarten teacher assigned a task to go home and wash parents' feet.
After dinner, my son suddenly ran to the bathroom and brought out a basin of water, "Mom, wash your feet".
The immature voice, listening to my heart, clearly knows that it is homework, but it is still super moving! I feel that a baby who was coaxed by his mother a second ago can wash the feet of adults in a blink of an eye. My baby has really grown up.
When you don't want to visit your relatives.
When children were young, every time they visited relatives and friends, they clamored to go.
The whole family went out to give gifts to relatives during the Spring Festival this year, but nothing the children said would follow.
"Relatives ask this and that, how annoying, it is better to stay at home!" Said and walked into his room.
Children who like to join in the fun suddenly become quiet and have their own small world. They can't help feeling a little sad. The children have grown up and are no longer our followers!
When you helped us cook for the first time.
Once the two of us came home late after working overtime, and when we opened the room, we smelled a burning smell.
The child stood there with his head down. "It's all my fault. I tried to cook for you, but I failed! " "
We were so moved when we saw it that it was too late to blame the children.
"Baby, if you have this heart, mom and dad will be very happy. It seems that my baby has grown up! "
At some point, the family smiled happily.
5. When you go to other places alone.
The child is going to go to college in other places, but her father wants to send her, but she insists on taking the train by herself.
When I sent her to the station, I could only comfort myself when I saw her carrying so much luggage and drifting away. The child has grown up and it's time to let go.