People say? 30 years east of the river, 40 years west of the river?
Why is it that some people look better when they are older than they did when they were younger?
The ugly duckling into a white swan, ugly silkworm pupa into a flower butterfly, mediocre-looking people in old age to become more good-looking, this metamorphosis is how it is?
The book gentleman carefully observed the surrounding people, suddenly found that this phenomenon is actually quite a lot.
First of all, people who are older and more experienced have a bigger pattern, a broader mind, and a better temperament.
Wang is a middle school teacher, some years ago, has been for the work of the pain: she has always been conscientious work, but always feel that the work did not get better, can not assess the advanced, do not get the affirmation.
Then she joined a democratic party, and a few years later, she miraculously became bursting with positive energy and made a difference.
Concerned about the country's economy and people's livelihoods, she kept writing about social opinions; she went around to meetings and came into contact with people from different industries; she participated in essays, won awards and received encouragement and honors from leaders. Although her main job is to teach, and also put more energy into her work to make herself better.
But, her pattern has broadened, and she no longer focuses only on the immediate aspects of her work. She believes that as long as their work to pay, the evaluation of the advanced is not important. As long as you can afford the students, you can afford to do it yourself.
One should indeed go out more and socialize with more people in the industry. If you know more, you know that each industry has its own sweet and sour.
Once you compare the two, you'll realize that what you've been holding on to is actually a trivial matter, not worth mentioning.
The people who are not aware of what is going on in the world, the people who are not interested in what is going on in the world, can only make themselves even more miserable and disillusioned. Only by focusing on a wider world, a person's mind will be open and become more good-looking in temperament.
Secondly, older, pay more attention to physical exercise, the body becomes better and confident, psychologically make people look better.
Da Zhao has always been a family-centered person. When she was young, life was three points and one line: go to the unit to work to earn money, go to the market supermarket to buy food, and go home to cook and do housework.
All day long, it looks busy, and I know I'm a bit fat, but I don't intentionally go to exercise. 40 years old, one morning when I got up, I suddenly found myself in a severe pain in the waist. The first time I went to the hospital for a checkup, it was a lumbar disc herniation.
The doctor told her: try to lie down on a hardboard bed, don't move around. A person like a gyroscope like round and round, all of a sudden can not move, and then let her very troublesome.
After half a year, her neighbors pulled her to square dancing, and soon she tasted the sweetness of exercise. She lost weight, her body tightened, her movements became flexible, and her whole mental state got better.
Middle-aged people must not underestimate the effect of losing one or two pounds, it not only makes you feel younger, but makes you confident. Confidence will make people smile and laugh at life, and psychologically naturally look better than a sad face.
And secondly, when you are older and have accumulated some savings, you will look better from a mental point of view.
Wang Daisy grew up with her mother's influence, thrifty and hardworking. When she got married, both parents did not give much material support, so after the wedding, every brick and tile in the house was purchased by the couple's hard work.
Thanks to the family planning policy, they only need one child. The two work to raise a child, life is still quite nourishing, hands gradually have savings.
When they reached middle age, the country introduced the May Day and November holidays, which made their lives colorful.
Wang's husband bought a car, and every holiday, we call friends and go out to travel.
This year's visit to Jiuzhaigou, next year to play the ancient city of Phoenix, the summer to go to the cold Harbin, the winter to go to the warmth of Hainan vacation? Anyway, it's not bad, the mood is happy is the most important.
It is said that young people will play, in fact, now the middle-aged people live more relaxed and more elegant. The people who are more comfortable with their own lives have less of a sense of humor than those who are more comfortable with their own lives.
People who have no worries about food and clothing and have a relaxed brow are naturally better looking than those who have a sad face from the state of mind.
Finally, as you get older, you have the energy to focus on dressing up and grooming to make your face look better indeed.
Wang is a post-60s woman who was taught about hard work and simplicity.? New three years, old three years, sewing and mending another three years?
The first time I saw the Lei Feng's patched socks, I was particularly impressed.
Parents have also been educating her to save money. Therefore, she refused to eat well and wear good clothes, and regarded saving money as a reward for her work.
Her greatest joy was at the beginning of each month, taking her paycheck card to the bank to save money.
After living with her working daughter for a month at the age of 50, her thinking changed radically. The young people in the big cities make more money in a year than the average old person would save in a lifetime, and it's really cost-effective to break a penny in half and save money.
Over the years, her daughter kept buying her expensive imported cosmetics and sending her new clothes. She was like a person about to drown being fished out of the deep sea, instantly relieved.
Anyway, now that she had the time and the means, why not make herself more beautiful. Stroke a thick eyebrow and apply a red lip, and your appearance will definitely look much better than a yellow face looking.
Older, more experience pattern big, confident and calm, have the conditions of energy to dress up their own, so that the elderly from the temperament, psychological, mental outlook and appearance than the younger more good-looking.
To the old age to open up, life should be colorful, their hard work for life do not treat themselves yo.