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Dong Qing, the host of the Chinese Poetry Conference, is brilliant and numerous. Not long ago, Dong Qing interviewed Mr. Xu Yuanchong, a famous translator in China, in the first class. The old gentleman has been sitting on the stage because his legs and feet are inconvenient. In order to take care of the feelings of the elderly, she chose to kneel down for an interview. On the stage, kneeling and laughing with the old gentleman. Every move, every smile, every move is just right, making the interviewee comfortable and natural, giving people the feeling of spring breeze.
Seeing Dong Qing, I realized that a woman's highest charm lies not in how many expensive cosmetics she uses to decorate herself every day, nor in how many brand-name clothes she wears, but in her upbringing.
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A master of migrant workers was in a hurry to ask for money. Because he had just come down from the construction site, he took off his shoes and knelt in for fear of soiling the ground in front of the counter. The cleaner said, "Nothing, I can put it off again", but the migrant workers said, "I don't want to give you any trouble, I'll leave right away."
At the gate of Caida, a lady broke the honey in the glass bottle. She didn't go away, leaving the sticky honey to the cleaner. Instead, stop the bike quickly, take out the paper towel and wipe the ground a little. When she found it difficult to wipe the floor with paper towels, she went to a nearby shop, borrowed cleaning tools and came back to continue cleaning.
Education has nothing to do with education. Education is kindness to others.
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Square dance aunts, from disturbing people to occupying roads, from competing with students for basketball courts to occupying subway stations. Recently, the news broke that a group of aunts danced square dance at Yaxi Expressway. Dancing square dance can exercise and let aunts exchange feelings. But being too headstrong, only thinking about yourself and completely ignoring other people's feelings, is a sign of being uneducated.
After the concert in a certain place in Hebei, the audience left one after another. At this time, a little girl of six or seven years old caught everyone's attention. She walked in rows, picking up the glow sticks left on the ground one by one, and her little hands could not hold them, and she was still trying her best to pick them up. Little girls pick up garbage, adults leave quality.
Education has nothing to do with age You think children are young, but some children have done things that adults can't. You think the old people are old, but there are always some old people who spare no effort to show us that it is not the old people who have become bad, but the bad people who have become old.
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At work, you will meet such parents. Once, a parent came to consult. Because fewer parents came to consult on this day, the front desk staff bowed their heads and did their own things. The parents' footsteps were so light that the front desk didn't find her in time. After seeing her, Jin can immediately stood up and answered her questions. When she learned, she didn't intend to sign up, so Jinke put down the bill. I probably didn't find her in time, and I was angry. The parents said loudly, "I haven't left yet. Why put down the bill so soon? " Then she cursed. During the interval, Jinke said, "I admit it's my fault. I hung my head and didn't find you in time. However, please listen to me ... "
Similarly, there are such parents. This time, it was a painting by Wu Shi, a little mushroom, that docked with my parents. I don't know where I didn't do well enough, which made my parents scold me. Looks like a fight. I almost cried when I painted Wu poetry. Later, Oda came to the rescue and said, "Don't embarrass a little girl." The next day, the parent came to register for the first time. It turned out that Wu Shihua, who calmed down, took the initiative to send a text message to his parents to apologize. At least, this is a factor that urges parents to sign up.
Education does not speak with aggression and fists, but dares to admit one's mistakes.
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Tell the story of another parent. It is she who makes me strongly want to write this article about parenting.
The parent called for advice and asked how to get to Jingchu Chaonan Lake Campus. Xiao pang explained it clearly to her (other parents can find Nanhu campus along this route), but she still couldn't find it. One phone call after another, her tone is getting worse and worse. Later, we were almost afraid to answer her phone.
Finally, it rained heavily in Wuhan. The parents' phone call came again: "I didn't bring my umbrella, and I couldn't find the Nanhu campus." Please send someone to pick me up quickly! " The tone is very bad, as if to swallow us. On this day, the school just started, and many parents came to consult. It's already ten o'clock in the morning, and our staff are too busy to eat breakfast. We explained to her that we were busy now and told her to wait, but it was no use.
Her phone is still bombing, so we should send someone to pick her up! Even, she reported on the Internet that the staff in Nanhu Campus had a bad attitude. There was no other way, so I went to pick her up Oda was afraid that we would fight, and repeatedly stressed to me, "Ignore her. What she said just went in one ear and out the other. " A parent who consulted here saw that we didn't have enough umbrellas, so she took the initiative to lend me her umbrella. It was raining hard outside, so I rode my yellow car to find her. By the time I arrived at the "happy town" she gave me, my new shoes that could not see the water were completely soaked and my pants were soaked.
Call her, tell her I'm here and ask where she is. She said impatiently, "I got drunk in Taohua! Am I still standing outside in the rain? " I said I'd look for it, and then I hung up. I really don't want to talk to her for long. After a few minutes, she called again: "Where the hell are you? I am drunk in peach blossom! Didn't you see it when you came? What about the eyes? Ask everyone. " At this moment, she completely angered me. I went back and said, "I'm not Gaud's map. Where do I want to find it? "
Fortunately, I observed the change of my mood in time, and after I noticed it, I smiled. So this will make me angry. In an instant, it was much calmer. Hung up the phone and asked five passers-by. No one knew where Taohua was drunk. I finally found it. After picking up her parents, she repeatedly said that there was something wrong with the route we gave her. I just smiled and didn't speak.
Then there was a pool of water on the road. She said, "There is water. How can I get there? When I drive the car back. " I said helplessly, "There are only 200 meters left. This road is so narrow that it may not be accessible by car. Let's walk. " She reluctantly accepted my suggestion. On the way, she kept asking, "How far is it? I am too tired to walk. " (It's about 750 meters from her location to Nanhu Campus) I have to explain to her again and again, pointing to Jing Chuchao's direction and saying "just ahead".
Finally arrived at Nanhu campus. She didn't seem to see the frantic busy staff, nor did she see the parents waiting in line for consultation. She just said loudly, "Come and pick me up in person!" " I said, "I will!" So, she took a set of papers to test for her children. She doesn't regard herself as an outsider, but just walks into the office and sits next to me (non-staff members are generally not allowed to enter the office) and asks questions. She is a "Zheng", which is very kind. Ten thousand grass mud horses have been running in my heart. Do I know you well? Also known as "Zheng Xiao".
Because I called her, she came to me later ... like a time bomb, she always called me (whether I was in class or not) to tell me how bad her child was at math and what to do. I can only tell her my experience. She even said: you came to pick me up when it rained last time, and we were destined. I don't know anyone else on campus, so I have to ask you. I will be very happy. Who has a special relationship with you? Don't defile such a beautiful word as "predestined relationship", okay?
In fact, what I want to say most is: I don't believe that an uneducated mother can raise a well-educated child. Even if she gets good grades, so what? Without education, she will not be able to stand in society in the future. Now she is very arrogant, and after entering the society, she will only pay back at the price of dozens or even hundreds of times. What's more, her grades were so poor that she scored only 34 points on the math test paper with a perfect score of 160. Parents are the best teachers for children. Let's change our behavior first. However, I didn't say. First, she doesn't deserve me to say such things; Second, it is not necessarily useful to say it; Third, in her situation, if she hears this, it is estimated that she will report me soon.
The difference between high education and low education may affect one's horizon and knowledge reserve, but it can never be the decisive factor for one's education. Education can make up for the defects of culture, but culture can't make up for the blank of education. Education is reflected in all aspects of life, but behind it is a person's tutor, temperament and pattern.
A truly educated person will not talk loudly in public; Will not speak aggressively; Always turn on the high beam when you can't drive; Don't make fun of others casually; Will not make others embarrassed and embarrassed; Will not run a red light at will; I won't go retrograde in China, I should drive on the right ... Real education is self-cultivation rooted in the heart, self-consciousness without reminding, freedom based on constraints and kindness to others.
A truly educated person wants to make people around him comfortable, happy and relaxed.
In this society, no matter how beautiful and ugly you are, how high or low your education level, how much money you have and how old you are, you want others to respect you, relying on the kind of education that goes deep into your bones.