Grasp the present and live in the moment

We continue to chew the cudgel today, and there is a passage in the Caigen Tan (菜根谭):

This passage means that people nowadays want to be free of distractions, but ultimately there is no way to do so. As long as the previous distractions do not exist in the heart, for the future distractions do not arise, grasp the reality, do a good job in the present, naturally will make the distractions slowly eliminated.

The most wonderful state of mind can only be reached when there is an occasional realization in the heart, and things have to be created naturally in order to show their true interest, and if they are arranged artificially, then the interest will be diminished.

Bai Juyi's poem, "The idea is to be comfortable with nothing, and the wind is clear of nature." This sentence is really worth savoring! The poem is about this very reason.

People who are innocent by nature, even if they have no intention to practice, eat when they are hungry, drink when they are thirsty, all for the sake of maintaining physical and mental health; people who are sinking with the fall of the heart, even if they are talking about the Buddhist scriptures and Zen theory, they are just spending their energy in vain.

Life is like a dream, the years are like a song. Time passes quietly like the fine sand on your fingertips, and in the blink of an eye, your hair turns white.

When the youth into a memory, when the years into the wheel, when the dream faded out of the thoughts, when the time to wear down the passion, when the long whistle to the sky into a sigh, when the blood gradually heart like water, then we have how much qualification and capital to fate to point the finger.

Life is short, why demand too much, yesterday has passed, the future can be expected. The first thing that you need to do is to get rid of all the stuff you've got on your computer, and you'll be able to do it. Only by living in the present and devoting oneself to life will you have more and more happiness.

Life is a mirror. If you laugh at it, it laughs at you; if you cry at it, it cries at you.

So in this big stage of life must have optimistic and sunny mentality, cherish what you have now, grasp the moment, live in the moment.

In fact, enjoying the moment does not mean letting it happen, but rather going with the flow and making a difference, so that every moment that occurs becomes a boost to make our lives grow.

The only way we are enjoying ourselves is if we are gaining and growing in each present moment.

As a mother, there is always a struggle between "control" and "letting go" in the upbringing of a child.

We want our children to do everything we say, but we are afraid that they will grow up to become obedient, obedient, obedient moms.

Let go, but I'm afraid that the child will not be able to understand the world, take the wrong leg, take the wrong step.

So you have to worry all day long, look ahead and think too much, so that it affects your sleep and your health.

When your child is small, worry about whether his homework is good? Did he get enough to eat at school?

When I grew up, I began to worry about my children's schooling, friendships, and jobs, and in general, I worried about everything I could think of.

Until one day I came across a book with this quote: "Worrying about your children is better turned into a blessing. Excessive worrying creates a burden; blessing brings great strength."

After reading it, I suddenly had a feeling of clarity, as if the six chakras of the divine sword had opened the acupuncture points in my body, and I was instantly refreshed and energized.

This is how I chose to let go of my worries and attachments to my children, and to give them unlimited blessings in my heart, because "children and grandchildren are blessed by their children and grandchildren"!

Choose to rest assured that the child can live in peace. The only way to get rid of yourself is to live in the present, instead of worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, worrying about the future, thinking about the future, thinking about the future, thinking about the future.

People often say, "Looking pretty is an advantage, living pretty is a skill."

Yes, looks are given by parents and cannot be changed. But life is a choice, we can rely on their own efforts to build the life they want to live, live in style, live beautiful.

In fact, everyone's life is actually a long journey, the important thing is not the destination, but the scenery along the way and the mood to see the scenery.

Whether it's the wind and sunshine or lightning and thunder, whether it's a thoroughfare or a rugged path, whether it's a success or a failure, whether it's laughter or tears, it's all the gift of life.

Tomorrow's life is unpredictable, but today's life can be grasped, know how to live, grasp the moment, cherish the moment.

Don't dwell on the past. Dwelling on past failures will only make people discouraged and struggling; dwelling on past successes will only make people proud and complacent.

In the allusion to the "Crouching on Salaries and Tasting Gallbladder," the back-and-forth between the outcomes of Goujian and Fuzhi is the best example.

If Goujian had been so weak that he could not extricate himself from the shame of being a fallen king, how could he have destroyed Wu and claimed hegemony.

His success lies in his daily work, his careful planning, and his ability to seize the moment, recruiting, growing and weakening his enemies, and ultimately achieving greatness.

The opposite is true for King Fu-chai of Wu, who, after capturing Goujian and making him a prisoner, indulged in his past successes, took no precautions, did not think of making progress, and went step by step towards his demise, and was finally destroyed by Goujian.

No delusions about the future. Remember that story in our textbook, "Waiting for the Rabbit"?

In order to get the rabbit without working, the stupid farmer daydreamed all day long, thinking that the pie in the sky, but in the end, nothing, not only did not wait for the rabbit, and even the field was abandoned.

If he hadn't dreamed of the future, but had weeded and planted his fields or brought his bow and arrow and hounds and deployed his traps, then he would have had his reward.

The best of ideas are not realized in the present. The effort of the moment is for the realization of a farther dream.

So don't dwell on the past, don't think about the future, keep your feet on the ground, live each day in a down-to-earth manner, and cherish every moment of your life.

People, always have to learn to be independent, not to think too much, cherish the moment and the present, be a happy fool.

Positive day Wang Han said: "Whether it is gradually prosperous or about to wither, at this moment is our knotty life."

Seize the present, live in the present, cherish the life on the road, only grasp the present, we can better grasp the future.

Life's sadness, happiness, bitterness and sweetness only their own to bear, the road under the feet only to walk, no one can grasp the direction for you.

The old man is a blessing in disguise. The wonderful thing about life is that when you have seen all the scenery of life, success or failure, sadness or happiness, then the wonderful thing will also be in the bottom of the eye.

Seize the present, cherish the person in front of you, do a good job in front of you, so that every day is alive, full, meaningful, so that our life is more brilliant, colorful.