To be honest, my heart stopped for a moment after hearing that one. Nowadays, many sensible old people don't want to live with their wives and children, and they say it's logical to want to be happy. Like her family, that's really a minority. However, all families have had difficult experiences and older people want to live with their children, so fears of loneliness etc. must be thought about on their own. The number of people who don't want to live with the elderly after they get married is on the rise, and it's really just those reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with honoring your parents. Please try to communicate if there is a conflict between the two ideas and concepts.
Because old people don't want to become too strong, so they can lighten the burden of their parents through independent portals. In fact, many young people want to live alone after marriage and don't want to trouble their parents. As a result, if you continue to live with them, your parents will have to do housework for them throughout the day by cooking, wiping clothes, buying food, etc. It's necessary for your parents to worry about that when you come home late from work. In short, as long as your parents are under the eyes, they still treat you as a child.
But after separation, older people just take care of themselves. There is no need for you to work your butt off to do housework. Also, there's no need to buy groceries and cook on time every day. Occasionally, you want to go shopping, square dancing, and you don't have to worry about no one at home when you get home. Avoid mother-daughter conflicts and maintain peace with your family (root cause). Especially after the birth of a child, various conflicts may arise between mother-in-law and mother-in-law. This is directly related to the unstable family and may even threaten the marriage relationship between the two.
But after living apart, distance sometimes produces beauty, and instead of living together day to day, they become closer. And there's no need to change each other's habits to fit into this new life. There is no need for parents to change decades of cooking and living habits. Also, young people are content with themselves and don't have to grieve about becoming tolerant.
Because they are different, a lot of conflicts and frictions can be avoided, which will further promote harmony and peace in the family. In this way, young people living alone will become more comfortable.